Originally posted by: sanabmw
Awida tumhri story se thoda bahot me realate kar sakti hu.. b/c mere husband business ki wajah mostly out of country hote the and me yaha Pakistan me ekdum akeli hoti thi.
mujhe Urdu bhi nahi aati thi aur yaha k address bhi yaad nahi hote the. bahot difficult time tha wo.
i always said to my hubby kisi ko sazaa deni ho to usko akela kar do.. loneliness bahot badi sazaa hoti hai, mom dad k saath jab me India me rahti thi to kabhi ek minute k liye me akeli ghar par nahi rahi.. me sabse choti thi so bahot jayada pampered kid thi me. but after marriage mujhe akela rahna padta tha.. husband year me 7 to 8 month Malaysia, Japan, Dubai me hote the and me akeli pak me.
I remembered mere birthdays par me akeli hoti thi.. anniversary par even meri first eid par bhi me ake😲li thi.
but ye time period ne mujhe bahot kuch sikha diya.specially jab meri daughter hui uske baad mujhe jayada problems ko face karna padta.daughter ko naughty thi..(still she is naughty 😲)but pehle usko stunt karne ki bahot hobby thi🤣specially late night..two times usko mujhe hospital ki emergency me lekar jana pada tha wo bhi 1:30 am par. tab mujhe roads ka bhi idea nahi tha.
even ek baar usne mujhe ghar se bahar lock kar diya tha.. 🤣me gate ki light open karne gayi and usne door push kar diya.. That time she is 16 month old and me ghar se bahar and wo akeli ghar me. I dont know what to do.. mobile money kuch nahi tha.. than mene gate ko climbing kiya 🤣me second floor par rahti thi and first floor khaali tha.. mene i dont know kAise manage kiya but me terrace tak pahochi and than stairs se ghar k andar aayi jump kar k mere hands and legs k nails and skin damage ho gayi thi.
jab me terrace se enter hui to mene apni daughter ko dekha jo gate ko pakad kar Bethi hui thi and she called MAMMAAAAAAA
i was like let me breath first mere saath meri daughter ne a is bahot stunts kiye hai.. puri novel publish ho sakti hai lol
but I learns a lot.. and aaj me mentally bahot strong hu and independent bhi. all thx to Allah.