Definition of Parallel - Page 5

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

1. @bold 1: as far as I know in LU, Kuhu was praised a lot when she followed #keepitseparate and Abir and Mishti were bashed(still are being bashed) when they don’t listen to what the other person says. Yes, Mishbir fans are biased a little, coz we love them a little more, but not at the cost of putting someone down. Mishbir fans don’t comments to any posts just to put the other down. This I am sure of it 100%

2. @blue: many forums do have, seems you haven’t noticed it. Mainly for the disappointment in the storyline. When we mention storyline, it includes the whole ensemble cast...

3. @red: no two persons are same, in fact both the hands of the same person is not same. Some people ignore when they disagree, some people put in words to say they disagree. This is a open forum, you can express freely what you want to, but you can’t expect others to be in the same page.

4. @green: we were on the same page and agreed to disagree clearly when Meenu was discussed, she is the villain, but we also know and agreed that she has positive and negative traits and it was coz of her. We did not accuse her of having negative traits coz of anyone, nor did we support her current mindset given her past bitter experiences. A person makes and breaks his own self and life. Others may be a inducer or catalyst, but ultimately it is them and their decisions and the consequences of the decisions. Others can play a role, but not completely responsible. A mistake is a mistake, whoever, whenever, wherever , however, why ever he or she commits. Period.

I hope I made sense.

Hi Abhilasha!

1. Well, let's not get ahead of ourselves. There were a lot of posts dissing Kuhu in between. And I'm glad to say we've all come a long way from then. We've all become wiser and much more sensitive to each other's feelings and try not to bash characters. I am one person who was glad to see that change in this past month.

2. I haven't been an active participant in any other forum to know this. Thank you for letting me know! My IF knowledge is completely dependent on my participation in this forum. No other show had the power to make me type this much.

3. You're absolutely right!! I haven't ever expected all of us to be on the same page. I've only ever wanted opinions to be expressed in a manner that don't push away people. It's anything but obvious that we would all have different opinions because we all come from different walks of life and lead separate lives. Difference in opinion is necessary too.

4. I agree!

You made absolute sense to me and thank you for being so polite. I don't know why I always get surprised when people are nice online, may be because they don't have to be but they still choose to be nice.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Aqua if the tm didn't liked the toxicity of forum and didn't want to get involve then why she made this post, it's clearly for us to tell that kuku are leads too, knowing very well that this post is going to get converted in debate. I am not saying she could not do this, she definitely can it's an open forum. But the way she made post for saying kuku are leads she can create post for kuku scenes too

Regarding lu thread it's a discussion thread they will of course post their frustration in words there, if you want to enjoy there you just have to ignore those comments and discuss kuku there. Let me tell you when the show first started very less kuku fans were active so we were not very careful while posting our views, we had openly criticize kuhu but as kuhu fans came, rules came and we tried to control our frustration so that kuku fans will not get offended, you know the name calling and all. So we are also adjusting you also do that, if you don't like any comment just report it mod will see that it's against rules or not but MishBir fans too didnt like this toxicity, we are connected with mishti emotionally and everyone is to some level that's why we just get frustrated when kuhu is justified by blaming mishti. If kuku has to be discussed keep mishti away you can do it freely no one will interfere

Scared dared 🤣,you're making us feel like villain yaar 🤣, see if the discussion of four characters has to happen it can never be a discussion it will be debate always. Because there are mishbir fans and kuku fans, no yrhpk fan. Tell me if for 10 days kuku does not get scenes will you enjoy the epi, because of kuku you're watching, we're also watching for mishbir, the show was story oriented for 50-60 epi, Uske Baad it became a couple's love story. No fan can create an unbiased post be it MishBir or kuku because the show demands the biasness, you can be on side of mishbir or kuku, as simple as that

If you want opinion of mishbir fans on kuku it's really not possible to have a peaceful discussion, because either kuku fan will snap or MishBir, Yup in future if the four get on board together we could have a peaceful discussion then

See we all love our fav character that's why we are here, with our analysis and discussion CVs ko koi fark nahi padega, it's just Hume tasalli hogi ki we are giving our time to a show its worth it, it's a nice show. You all can create as many as you all want but you all have to accept that there are other fans which will not like it and will comment their disliking or will just simply ignore it

Heyo!

She did! She made the KuKu AT😆. Sorry! I couldn't resist the joke🙈.

I don't post anything bad. Most of the AT members don't even participate on the forum in even random posts. I am pretty sure you must have seen me feeling obliged at the participation from one or two people. That was because they've stopped participating on the forum because of the toxicity. The LU thread is just the living reminder of that. I let that be because I would like people to be civil on MF posts so it's better for my own sake that they were able to take out their frustrations somewhere before participating in regular posts.

Oh no! That was never the intent. It's just the fact that I know how much hatred people have for Kuhu's character. All of us in the KuKu AT have discussed her insecurities to an extent that we have humanised her (does humanised mean what I think it means?? Agar nahi then this last line would have made no sense🤭). You're right about the not enjoying part but we don't start badmouthing MA for taking up all the screen space. We never used to do that and now, we don't because we've given up hope and expectations of getting KuKu scenes. Galti se mil jaata hai to bohot khush ho jaate hai sab, like yesterday.

Why can't we all have discussion just about the couple without discussing the other?? They do have their own issues and problems. Yes, they do revolve around the other couple but it's possible to discuss just one couple at a time. We all do that in our respective ATs and I feel it's possible to do that here as well. Try to karo. We anyway won't have new episodes till May. Let's discuss other characters apart from our favourites no! I'll put in the link neeche. See it and then maybe decide if it's possible or not but don't outright reject the idea na.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/153053615