There is a reason why I like your posts. You are always objective- in praise & in critique. Thank you for seeing the red flags regarding Ananya.
Coming to the whole MJ ke liye uska naam sabkuch hai thing. Remember in Mahabharat there is a sequence in which Krishna is being weighed by his wives to give daan of equal amount. But even entire gold falls short. Then Rukmini writes Krishna on tulsi leaf and puts on balance and it weighs more than Krishna himself. Yes, sometimes destroying someone's name= destroying them.
Kudos to Maya for starting her journey on righteous justice instead of blind revenge. Yes this journey will hurt Rudra but it is necessary for him to experience this to grow stronger and know the reality of his family.