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Someone tell me ..does Amber tell Guneet that he is NDP???

An why does she suddenly decide that she can't go ahead with Roka??? What happened

And I didn't see any sign of NiA..in whole of BTs ..

The actor playing Dr Anurag's daughter posted her pic as last day of shooting ..so Dr Anurag is making an exit

Does Guneet break up because of NDP ? Or is it something else ???

After watching all BTS ; this is what I think happened. Starts with Guneet rehearsing in front of Amber, how to tell Anurag about the fact that she does not love him. Then she tells Anurag that she cannot go ahead with roka and she is very sorry she took this much time to decide. But she was confused. Anurag tells guests to leave and then insults Guneet, Amber tries defending.

Its just Guneet and Amber and Amber comes and tells her it was him who made her wait and he is NDP. Guneet gets made at her.

I just loved the way the makers have handled this whole situation without getting OTT and most importantly not stretching the whole issue. I am really very excited to watch next week👍🏼 The last hug between Guneet and Anurags daughter is done so so beautifully. I love how they really pay attention to such nuances. In all this the kid is the one who I felt bad for. But this show is so so close to reality. All characters feel so real and relatable.

Frankly I did not like that they did it such a way that Guneet is getting all the “understanding” while Anurag gets an ugly exit for insulting her.

Her dilemma (actually it is wanting to have the cake - ndp & save it too - anurag) is realistic & understandable. Despite the fact that she toyed with a kid’s feelings - arre itna achcha hug jo diya! But Anurag’s outburst & hitting back at her is not a natural venting of his hurt but an “insult of Guneet”?

I feel the writers are so much in love with their flawed characters & so overboard in depicting it that they hv blurred the lines between flaws & serious defects.

The truth is Guneet has a very expedient, convenient, often unethical conscience. A) she thought nothing of lying abt her mother’s health & tricking Ambar, B) she led her mum to believe its ok to plan to grab Ambar’s property by deceit, C) she brought in unauthorised sub-tenants without the owner’s knowledge, D) she helped sneak Randeep into the house against the owner’s wishes, E) she & her mother keep trespassing on Ambar’s portion tho they hv an outside entrance, F) she went to meet a potential suitor without telling the man she had just agreed to marry, G) hell, she even cheated in the music dumb charades!!

Originally posted by: Bana

Frankly I did not like that they did it such a way that Guneet is getting all the “understanding” while Anurag gets an ugly exit for insulting her.

Guneet, when she breaks the roka takes the blame on herself and rightly so! She says sorry for everything she did. While Anurags true self came out when Guneet broke off the roka. He was just playing to be perfect( as no person is as perfect as Anurag was shown to be) till the marriage happens. His moms views were known to him and Guneet would have to sacrifice her job and stay home and look after his kid and be an ideal bahu for the ideal beta.

Her dilemma (actually it is wanting to have the cake - ndp & save it too - anurag) is realistic & understandable. Despite the fact that she toyed with a kid’s feelings - arre itna achcha hug jo diya! But Anurag’s outburst & hitting back at her is not a natural venting of his hurt but an “insult of Guneet”?

Getting married is a very big decision and she said she cant go ahead with it before roka happened. Maybe last conversation with Anurags mom helped her in taking the decision. She did not deliberately hurt kids feeling. Aisa nahi tha ke she was planning and plotting to hurt the kid!! So you think it would have been right on her part to be a part of loveless marriage, because ohhh a kid is involved? In his outburst he did not have to make her characterless? Saying things like iske yaroon mein se ek kam? His anger at Guneet for getting to the decision so late is absolutely valid but the way he handled it is not. He had every right to get mad at her because she lied to him. But he berates her in front of everyone telling her a liar, when he himself does not have the courage to tell truth to his mom. So like Amber crossed limits when he said things to Guneet, so did Anurag and both are wrong.

I feel the writers are so much in love with their flawed characters & so overboard in depicting it that they hv blurred the lines between flaws & serious defects.

Thats actually the best part of the show, all of them have flaws and which makes them human and so more relatable. Yes, they do go overboard but it is a show if they don’t have some kind of drama there is no story to tell.

The truth is Guneet has a very expedient, convenient, often unethical conscience. A) she thought nothing of lying abt her mother’s health & tricking Ambar, B) she led her mum to believe its ok to plan to grab Ambar’s property by deceit, C) she brought in unauthorised sub-tenants without the owner’s knowledge, D) she helped sneak Randeep into the house against the owner’s wishes, E) she & her mother keep trespassing on Ambar’s portion tho they hv an outside entrance, F) she went to meet a potential suitor without telling the man she had just agreed to marry, G) hell, she even cheated in the music dumb charades!!

She had no options but to find a property to rent sooner rather than later. She did the practical thing and Niya who is owners daughter knew about it and she planned it. She just led her mom to believe , she did not actually plan. Unauthorized tennants were brought because Amber made an unreasonable demand to get a whole year rent in advance. Was she wrong in all the above case? Yes she was. But how she handles herself in all these situations as compared to Anurag or Amber is what makes her character stand out from the other two. I love Guneet as a character with all her flaws. Makes for an interesting watch.

Thats just my opinion on the show😊

Originally posted by: Bana

Frankly I did not like that they did it such a way that Guneet is getting all the “understanding” while Anurag gets an ugly exit for insulting her.

Her dilemma (actually it is wanting to have the cake - ndp & save it too - anurag) is realistic & understandable. Despite the fact that she toyed with a kid’s feelings - arre itna achcha hug jo diya! But Anurag’s outburst & hitting back at her is not a natural venting of his hurt but an “insult of Guneet”?

I feel the writers are so much in love with their flawed characters & so overboard in depicting it that they hv blurred the lines between flaws & serious defects.

The truth is Guneet has a very expedient, convenient, often unethical conscience. A) she thought nothing of lying abt her mother’s health & tricking Ambar, B) she led her mum to believe its ok to plan to grab Ambar’s property by deceit, C) she brought in unauthorised sub-tenants without the owner’s knowledge, D) she helped sneak Randeep into the house against the owner’s wishes, E) she & her mother keep trespassing on Ambar’s portion tho they hv an outside entrance, F) she went to meet a potential suitor without telling the man she had just agreed to marry, G) hell, she even cheated in the music dumb charades!!

The thing is Guneet did the right thing even if she was late ... She went and told Anurag about her wish to not go ahead with Roka because she was conflicted and I think that was brave .. she was being True to her self ..she has flaws but she owns them and apologized to the guy..The daughter was involved but not to a great extent . It wouldn't have been nice that Guneet became a mother to a child unwillingly

So all in all..if she was not ready then it's good Guneet didn't go ahead with Roka .

Did she go wrong in meeting the guy after saying yes to Roka to Dr guy..yes..she should have also told it to the Dr upfront without prompting from Amber yes..so I am not saying she is correct ..but it's better to back out of an relationship when you are not ready for it rather than plunge into it and then try to manage it .

I haven't seen the BTS whole but the guy vented out ..but I think there maybe more to this scene than we have seen and who knows Anurag may still get a dignified exit

The thing is all of us are flawed and that's good because being perfect is no possible ..some flaws are acceptable and some are not and It all depends on person to person .

I had noticed this before and failed to mention that Bawra Mann and No drama please had an instant emotional connect and maybe thats what Guneet was looking in real life too...

Would she have achieved it with Anurag.. we can't say because not enough time had been given by each other to each other for that to develope..there are few things which happen to us in everyday that we wish to tell it to a person immediately ..it might be nothing or it might be a great deal .

Like I have watched a couple in office , since I am in close contact with both of them and know both of them ..I have seen both sides..so they spend all day in office and yet call each other a few times a day to update each other about the happenings..are they newly married no ..it's about 7-8 years in marriage but yes they have a connect

That same connect happened with Bawra Mann and No drama please..they wanted to share the day with each other ..get each other opinions and that I feel is important

That same connect happened with Bawra Mann and No drama please..they wanted to share the day with each other ..get each other opinions and that I feel is important

I am not sure that is because of emotional connect alone. It is also because of the security that online anonymity gives u - u can share feelings more frankly than u would with a friend who u know in real life and who knows others related to u as well.

Online she could share her feelings without fear of being judged coz the other person has no idea abt her background & context. e.g. abt having to do things against her wish for the sake of her mum. I dont think she will crib to anyone in real life abt feeling pressurised to do things against her wish for her mum’s sake. But she was able to express that online w/o even specifying who that other person is. So no fear of being judged out of context.

How else do u explain that she also “connected” with the previous cheat to the extent that she dated him & trusted him with her savings.

Pami is amber ki real life sis 😲?

Originally posted by: Bana

That same connect happened with Bawra Mann and No drama please..they wanted to share the day with each other ..get each other opinions and that I feel is important

I am not sure that is because of emotional connect alone. It is also because of the security that online anonymity gives u - u can share feelings more frankly than u would with a friend who u know in real life and who knows others related to u as well.

Online she could share her feelings without fear of being judged coz the other person has no idea abt her background & context. e.g. abt having to do things against her wish for the sake of her mum. I dont think she will crib to anyone in real life abt feeling pressurised to do things against her wish for her mum’s sake. But she was able to express that online w/o even specifying who that other person is. So no fear of being judged out of context.

How else do u explain that she also “connected” with the previous cheat to the extent that she dated him & trusted him with her savings.

Well yes ..the internet affords us the anoyminity which makes us free , but ain't that quality of internet which also reveals our true self ..we can be honest here ..on internet because we are not being judged by people

The thing is people do connect over internet ...and some people do take fayda and create online scams too ..but people talk and fall in love online too.. it's all depends on perspective ..my question is why Guneet couldn't connect with Dr Anurag in real life ..they spent time together but she was hesitant in front of him...she was not unable to share her deepest feelings with him and albeit I understand we have to take time for this to happen but I feel she was reluctant ..

She was cheated too and yet she chose to make an id again because she has said time and again that just because she was cheated doesn't mean she will loose her hope or her trust on people ...

I once made my friend mad .. I told her that had she met me in different circumstances she wouldn't be my friend and I do believe it's true ..sometimes it's our circumstances in life that bring someone into our lives and they become a part of our life ..and maybe in ideal situation we might not need them but then this is life and it's seldom ideal.

So what if Anurag is ideal for Guneet ..it's not what she wants or needs ..she wants flaws and connection and so maybe her wanting or needing that is not wrong ...

We all need connections in life ..someone with whom we can share everything and every aspect and at the end of the day..that maybe different people for each of us ..but that doesn't make it wrong

I don't know if anyone has seen Grey's anatomy ...there they showed a beautiful friendship between Meredith Grey and Cristina Yang..they were soul sisters ...they connected at a level which their respective spouses couldn't understand..was it wrong no

Connections can happen anywhere and Guneet expecting that connection online is not wrong ..she was wrong in accepting the proposal of Anurag when she was not sure ..she was wrong in rushing into roka