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Anyone knows SP another show KHKT going off air in 14 march ( almost confirmed ) and i checked its last week trp was 1.8 which is definitely decent but still 😆

many SP shows going off air news came in up coming months and i think it's not only the TRP behind the reason 😉 😆

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Same dude. I used to like MishBir before. It's just that their romantic scenes are a little too cheesy for my taste. The cheesiness was the one of the factors that made me shift my attention to KuKu.

Frankly, I think rather than MishBir, AbiNal seem to be the leads.

Woh kehte hai nah, "Pyaar se Pyaar hasil hota hai aur Nafrat se sirf Nafrat"

Here is the same thing, Mishbir fandom's extreme negativity, hateness & bullying earning only HATE ; not for them but for their own fav. Actors 😔

Bold : then inn dono me se hero kon aur heroin kon hai ???? 😆

Originally posted by: mahi246

Anyone knows SP another show KHKT going off air in 14 march ( almost confirmed ) and i checked its last week trp was 1.8 which is definitely decent but still 😆

many SP shows going off air news came in up coming months and i think it's not only the TRP behind the reason 😉 😆

Khkt is ending because creative and channel issues

It is giving trp but sp is interfering too much and changing the theme of the show

Star plus is having worst habit and because of that Ekta and sp had tiff and her all show ended abruptly like kyunki, kahani and kayamath

At that time Rajan Shahi show started to pick up. Bidaai, yeh rishta were hit

Sp is really egoistic channel and don't give free hand to creative so blaming makers is not always right because channel is also interfering.

Originally posted by: mahi246

Woh kehte hai nah, "Pyaar se Pyaar hasil hota hai aur Nafrat se sirf Nafrat"

Here is the same thing, Mishbir fandom's extreme negativity, hateness & bullying earning only HATE ; not for them but for their own fav. Actors 😔

Bold : then inn dono me se hero kon aur heroin kon hai ???? 😆

Kya baat keh di apne!!🔥

Protagonist ke gender se kya lena dena apna. Jab tak story and acting is good, I don't care.

Originally posted by: Sense9

I felt bad for her especially when she cries after Varsha gets to know (the mumma, maa part). I am hoping the makers dont make her a full on negative character. I dont mind a real-ish/grey character.

Originally posted by: PureDrivenSnow

The post below prompted me to think the reason why Kuhu doesn't share her inner feelings completely with her mother including this marriage secret is because somewhere she is protective of her bond with Varsha (and family, I guess). She knows how difficult it must have been for Varsha to accept her (I didn't watch those yrkkh episodes when she found out but I'm told it was difficult for Varsha). Hence #keepitseperate.

I fell in love with Kuhu and Varsha's relationship very early in the show and it prompted me to go back and watch as many bits and pieces of YRKKH as I could find with the two of them, as well as the early days of the show, to try and get an idea of Varsha's story. The more I watched, the more I loved sweet, sorted Varsha and all her relationships -- I think her abiding friendship with Akshara has to be my favourite though! I love that they always gave their friendship priority over the bhabhi-nanad relationship. ❤️

I wrote this analysis in a PM to a friend around September, and that heartbreaking "mumma--ma" scene reminded me of it so I thought I'd share it here as well.

I really believe the key to Kuhu's character is Varsha. She loves and admires the heck out of her mom, and emulates her behaviour as much as she can. Varsha not only forgave her husband's infidelity with time, but even accepted Kuhu as her own child. That takes someone with a really big heart. On top of that she fought for Kuhu all her life. In my eyes, Varsha is the sole reason Kuhu is the confident, self-assured girl she is today, and for that reason Kuhu totally idolises her mother. So part of her resentment also comes from seeing how her mom, who is actually much more down to earch and sensible, is constantly treated as subordinate to her grandparents.

And this is where Mishti comes in, because of this really unusual situation, where the grandparents and parents have children of the same age. Mishti, in being the daughter of BM and BP automatically gets a higher position in the family hierarchy with less accountability -- as we see, she only has to answer to BM and BP. Kuhu, is answerable to her parents who are in turn answerable to theirs. I think most of Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti comes from these underlying inequalities -- their clashing personalities added fuel to the fire. Is it Mishti's fault directly? Not always. But does she rile up Kuhu's anger against this underlying inequality and bring out the worst in her with her patronising attitude? Definitely.

Now, if we observe the details closely, we can see that Varsha mostly raised Kuhu to tolerate the inequality in her family for as long as she had to and then get out of it as soon as possible (through marriage). Other than her occasional outbursts, Kuhu did just that in pretending to have this sisterly bond with Mishti. Varsha, for the most part, is extremely pragmatic. She sees that there isn't much scope to challenge BM and BP's authority or their hypocrisy without tearing the whole family apart, so she grits her teeth and pretends to be okay with it, all while equipping Kuhu to really shine once she is free of this household. This is why Varsha and Kuhu were so eager for her marriage right from the beginning of the show -- they lived their lives, trying not to raise their voices, not rebelling, pretending everything was great, with the single goal to get Kuhu out of this toxic environment as soon as possible (it's a totally different set of questions as to why marriage was the only way to do this, but I am thinking here within in the universe of the show, where that seems to be a given).

This is why Kuhu can't just walk out on this marriage so easily. She knows this wedding is the culmination of Varsha's lifetime of work, tolerating inequality and fighting for her, and this relationship with the RVs breaking would essentially render all of that work obsolete. That is also why both of them, in full acknowledgment that it was wrong to separate lovers, tried to keep Mishti and Abir apart -- that is just how important this marriage is to both of them: it's supposed to be Kuhu's escape and Varsha's peace of mind. And the thing is, Kuhu was ready for an arranged marriage, meaning she was ready to do the work of getting to know both her husband and his family over time -- so other than Kunal's antagonism (which is not even constant, with all the promising moments), what she is experiencing is exactly what she was prepared for, and so she is shining.

I think this is where the extreme reaction of the slap came from. The one thing Kuhu was most terrified about was hurting her mom or giving her any sense of failure -- she said so to Kunal multiple times. Kuhu would have done just about anything to protect Varsha and just when she thought she would succeed, she had to watch her mom's heart break for absolutely no reason. 💔

Every time Kuhu tries to sort things out slowly and carefully, Mishti comes tearing through with an impulsive move that ends up in the very destruction Kuhu was trying to avoid. It's not hard to see why she finally lost her patience, especially when that destruction involved the person she loves and admires most in the world this time around. 😔

Hi guys,

Please be aware when making comments on this AT. Please avoid hurting any fandoms directly or indirectly. I have been a part of it too my anger got the best of me, but lets make this AT strictly about our beloved KuKu.

Kunal and Kuhu, on the other hand, there's something about them...🔥...I can't quite put my finger on it. I think it's their different personalities that create an unusual chemistry.

I used to enjoy AbiNal a lot more earlier. I still do but they do look a little off sometimes. I think the entire cast look tired on screen now. The only one in 'form' is probs Kaveri.

___

The big guns (production houses) need to stop legitimizing nonsensical demands made by Channels - review all contracts and build an ecosystem that promotes new/logical stories. That's the only way things will change on TV. But all they care about is 🤑.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

I fell in love with Kuhu and Varsha's relationship very early in the show and it prompted me to go back and watch as many bits and pieces of YRKKH as I could find with the two of them, as well as the early days of the show, to try and get an idea of Varsha's story. The more I watched, the more I loved sweet, sorted Varsha and all her relationships -- I think her abiding friendship with Akshara has to be my favourite though! I love that they always gave their friendship priority over the bhabhi-nanad relationship. ❤️

I wrote this analysis in a PM to a friend around September, and that heartbreaking "mumma--ma" scene reminded me of it so I thought I'd share it here as well.

I really believe the key to Kuhu's character is Varsha. She loves and admires the heck out of her mom, and emulates her behaviour as much as she can. Varsha not only forgave her husband's infidelity with time, but even accepted Kuhu as her own child. That takes someone with a really big heart. On top of that she fought for Kuhu all her life. In my eyes, Varsha is the sole reason Kuhu is the confident, self-assured girl she is today, and for that reason Kuhu totally idolises her mother. So part of her resentment also comes from seeing how her mom, who is actually much more down to earch and sensible, is constantly treated as subordinate to her grandparents.

And this is where Mishti comes in, because of this really unusual situation, where the grandparents and parents have children of the same age. Mishti, in being the daughter of BM and BP automatically gets a higher position in the family hierarchy with less accountability -- as we see, she only has to answer to BM and BP. Kuhu, is answerable to her parents who are in turn answerable to theirs. I think most of Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti comes from these underlying inequalities -- their clashing personalities added fuel to the fire. Is it Mishti's fault directly? Not always. But does she rile up Kuhu's anger against this underlying inequality and bring out the worst in her with her patronising attitude? Definitely.

Now, if we observe the details closely, we can see that Varsha mostly raised Kuhu to tolerate the inequality in her family for as long as she had to and then get out of it as soon as possible (through marriage). Other than her occasional outbursts, Kuhu did just that in pretending to have this sisterly bond with Mishti. Varsha, for the most part, is extremely pragmatic. She sees that there isn't much scope to challenge BM and BP's authority or their hypocrisy without tearing the whole family apart, so she grits her teeth and pretends to be okay with it, all while equipping Kuhu to really shine once she is free of this household. This is why Varsha and Kuhu were so eager for her marriage right from the beginning of the show -- they lived their lives, trying not to raise their voices, not rebelling, pretending everything was great, with the single goal to get Kuhu out of this toxic environment as soon as possible (it's a totally different set of questions as to why marriage was the only way to do this, but I am thinking here within in the universe of the show, where that seems to be a given).

This is why Kuhu can't just walk out on this marriage so easily. She knows this wedding is the culmination of Varsha's lifetime of work, tolerating inequality and fighting for her, and this relationship with the RVs breaking would essentially render all of that work obsolete. That is also why both of them, in full acknowledgment that it was wrong to separate lovers, tried to keep Mishti and Abir apart -- that is just how important this marriage is to both of them: it's supposed to be Kuhu's escape and Varsha's peace of mind. And the thing is, Kuhu was ready for an arranged marriage, meaning she was ready to do the work of getting to know both her husband and his family over time -- so other than Kunal's antagonism (which is not even constant, with all the promising moments), what she is experiencing is exactly what she was prepared for, and so she is shining.

I think this is where the extreme reaction of the slap came from. The one thing Kuhu was most terrified about was hurting her mom or giving her any sense of failure -- she said so to Kunal multiple times. Kuhu would have done just about anything to protect Varsha and just when she thought she would succeed, she had to watch her mom's heart break for absolutely no reason. 💔

Every time Kuhu tries to sort things out slowly and carefully, Mishti comes tearing through with an impulsive move that ends up in the very destruction Kuhu was trying to avoid. It's not hard to see why she finally lost her patience, especially when that destruction involved the person she loves and admires most in the world this time around. 😔

I've never really gotten emotional watching these fictional shows but you really got me with this piece.

I literally had a lump in my throat while reading. You've analysed their relationship beautifully! Thank you so much for sharing.

I don't think I can add anything to this other than that I agree. The way Abir is for Kunal, Varsha is for Kuhu. As you said, she's always maintained this. The last thing in world she would've wanted is to see her mother so hurt.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

I fell in love with Kuhu and Varsha's relationship very early in the show and it prompted me to go back and watch as many bits and pieces of YRKKH as I could find with the two of them, as well as the early days of the show, to try and get an idea of Varsha's story. The more I watched, the more I loved sweet, sorted Varsha and all her relationships -- I think her abiding friendship with Akshara has to be my favourite though! I love that they always gave their friendship priority over the bhabhi-nanad relationship. ❤️

I wrote this analysis in a PM to a friend around September, and that heartbreaking "mumma--ma" scene reminded me of it so I thought I'd share it here as well.

I really believe the key to Kuhu's character is Varsha. She loves and admires the heck out of her mom, and emulates her behaviour as much as she can. Varsha not only forgave her husband's infidelity with time, but even accepted Kuhu as her own child. That takes someone with a really big heart. On top of that she fought for Kuhu all her life. In my eyes, Varsha is the sole reason Kuhu is the confident, self-assured girl she is today, and for that reason Kuhu totally idolises her mother. So part of her resentment also comes from seeing how her mom, who is actually much more down to earch and sensible, is constantly treated as subordinate to her grandparents.

And this is where Mishti comes in, because of this really unusual situation, where the grandparents and parents have children of the same age. Mishti, in being the daughter of BM and BP automatically gets a higher position in the family hierarchy with less accountability -- as we see, she only has to answer to BM and BP. Kuhu, is answerable to her parents who are in turn answerable to theirs. I think most of Kuhu's resentment towards Mishti comes from these underlying inequalities -- their clashing personalities added fuel to the fire. Is it Mishti's fault directly? Not always. But does she rile up Kuhu's anger against this underlying inequality and bring out the worst in her with her patronising attitude? Definitely.

Now, if we observe the details closely, we can see that Varsha mostly raised Kuhu to tolerate the inequality in her family for as long as she had to and then get out of it as soon as possible (through marriage). Other than her occasional outbursts, Kuhu did just that in pretending to have this sisterly bond with Mishti. Varsha, for the most part, is extremely pragmatic. She sees that there isn't much scope to challenge BM and BP's authority or their hypocrisy without tearing the whole family apart, so she grits her teeth and pretends to be okay with it, all while equipping Kuhu to really shine once she is free of this household. This is why Varsha and Kuhu were so eager for her marriage right from the beginning of the show -- they lived their lives, trying not to raise their voices, not rebelling, pretending everything was great, with the single goal to get Kuhu out of this toxic environment as soon as possible (it's a totally different set of questions as to why marriage was the only way to do this, but I am thinking here within in the universe of the show, where that seems to be a given).

This is why Kuhu can't just walk out on this marriage so easily. She knows this wedding is the culmination of Varsha's lifetime of work, tolerating inequality and fighting for her, and this relationship with the RVs breaking would essentially render all of that work obsolete. That is also why both of them, in full acknowledgment that it was wrong to separate lovers, tried to keep Mishti and Abir apart -- that is just how important this marriage is to both of them: it's supposed to be Kuhu's escape and Varsha's peace of mind. And the thing is, Kuhu was ready for an arranged marriage, meaning she was ready to do the work of getting to know both her husband and his family over time -- so other than Kunal's antagonism (which is not even constant, with all the promising moments), what she is experiencing is exactly what she was prepared for, and so she is shining.

I think this is where the extreme reaction of the slap came from. The one thing Kuhu was most terrified about was hurting her mom or giving her any sense of failure -- she said so to Kunal multiple times. Kuhu would have done just about anything to protect Varsha and just when she thought she would succeed, she had to watch her mom's heart break for absolutely no reason. 💔

Every time Kuhu tries to sort things out slowly and carefully, Mishti comes tearing through with an impulsive move that ends up in the very destruction Kuhu was trying to avoid. It's not hard to see why she finally lost her patience, especially when that destruction involved the person she loves and admires most in the world this time around. 😔

Woah. Just woah. I am actually speechless. I never actually saw it that way, and I'm not sure even the writers read into their story this much, but I am actually blown away. The writers should take note of an analysis like this and bring even more depth to the show by highlighting Varsha and Kuhu's relationship, but I guess they're too focused on the superficial drama and their obsession with making characters black and white to see anything past it. I think I actually teared up reading this. I am so appreciative of you and everyone else on this forum who take the time and effort to come up with such beautiful interpretations of the characters and their relationships. Seriously, hats off!

Varsha & Kuhu have been my first love on this show. I hadn't expected to find this. Like Sam said, female solidarity is almost always unexplored or adversely exploited. One just has to read into the shows and enjoy it.