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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

And now? Her worst nightmares are coming true -- she not only lost the opportunity to make it right without having to hurt anyone, she also lost the control over her narrative, the choice of how to break the news to her family.


This is why she reacted the way she did. Kuhu has been dealing with the mess for quite sometime and has been trying to make sense of it/tackle it her own way. Now when things were finally starting to fall in place, the secret of divorce (which was now not gonna happen) has become public. And its not even like someone unintentionally read the divorce papers. It’s was done despite Kuhu telling Mishti to repeatedly not get involved, like minutes or hours before. Whatever Mishti’s intentions, it’s just not right to forage through someone’s belonging after actively being told to back off.

So I can understand Kuhu’s spontaneous reaction.

I felt bad for her especially when she cries after Varsha gets to know (the mumma, maa part). I am hoping the makers dont make her a full on negative character. I dont mind a real-ish/grey character.


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Sense9


I felt bad for her especially when she cries after Varsha gets to know (the mumma, maa part).

I haven't watched the Friday episode yet. But the clips... uff... the mumma ma broke my heart

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I haven't watched the Friday episode yet. But the clips... uff... the mumma ma broke my heart

Truly! Kaveri nails the emotional scenes. She is the only one who has ever made me cry while watching a Hindi serial (during the navratri track).

I think she actually does cry for her emotional scenes if you see the BTS clips of upcoming episodes.

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Posted: 5 years ago

So kuku are getting married in mishbir shadi mandap 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

So kuku are getting married in mishbir shadi mandap 😆

I swear now i'm hating the word SHAADI .. Thanx to this show 🤣🤣 🤣


Inn ek saal show me toh bas trailer chal raha tha now iss Mishbir ki finally shaadi hogayi, ab hoga show mei Ekdam 100℅ Asli Drama 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: mahi246

I swear now i'm hating the word SHAADI .. Thanx to this show 🤣🤣 🤣


Inn ek saal show me toh bas trailer chal raha tha now iss Mishbir ki finally shaadi hogayi, ab hoga show mei Ekdam 100℅ Asli Drama 🤣

So true🤣

Show ka concept hi shaadi pe tha aur finally it's happening after some 200 episodes. Kise pata tha ki DKP ka asli matlab ye tha by the hashtag of whyjhatpatshaadi🤪

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Lovely posts, everyone!


You know what I kind of loved? The fact that Abir's idea did *not* work for Kunal, and that in the end, Kunal just used it to give Kuhu some much needed relief (his face when she relaxed from his massage!), and to lure her outside. It kind of felt like once he had Kuhu alone, he knew *exactly* what to do. ☺️ I am into this take-charge Kunal and that is how I read his steady expressions. He was done playing around and ready to come straight to the point. They've always been the blunt, straightforward couple and they've always communicated through touch, so the way that whole moment unfurled, with Jugnu discreetly adding just a touch of extra glamour felt absolutely perfect. It's really beautiful how well these two have gotten to know each other, and how much they've become a unit through all the ups and downs of their family drama.


That detail of how he pulled her into the hug by wrapping her arms around him was


Rather than an "all is forgiven" moment for Kuhu, I saw it as more as an, "okay, the divorce is definitely not happening" moment. She needed something that grand and obvious to hear that from him because he had done such a good job of convincing her that he didn't want her or the marriage. Kuhu has always preferred to deal with her problems and her marriage in private (her no drama policy). She was putting off telling her family because she was holding out hope that Kunal would come around and decide to give this marriage a chance, so she could spare both of their families the heartache and because for her, marriage is serious business. I have no doubt that if the divorce papers weren't leaked by Mishti and Jasmeet, Kuhu would have taken Kunal to task in private (as she has done since day one of the marriage) and they would have had a more gradual journey towards love and trust within the four walls of their bedroom.


That would have been Kuhu's ideal outcome, and I think Kunal's as well, since both of them share a mutual aversion to drama, but alas! When do these two ever get their ideal outcome?


About the cross-dressing, it was damn stupid and quite pointless but I don't think it was offensive perse. Abir and Kunal were dressed up as women, which is really not much different from Mishti stealing and wearing Jugnu's clothes. My question is why they needed to wear all that make-up when they were odhofying the ghungat the whole time. Anyway, I'm just going to try and forget that whole thing happened -- it wasn't crossing any PC lines technically but it was still cringy AF. Kunal's reactions to the whole thing were on point!

@bold.. Loved this analysis! Now I kinda feel that it was indeed right that Kunal just needed to get hold of Kuhu all alone just to himself and he knew what to do ☺️All this after his realization.

Cross dressing was pointless for sure!

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Posted: 5 years ago

The post below prompted me to think the reason why Kuhu doesn't share her inner feelings completely with her mother including this marriage secret is because somewhere she is protective of her bond with Varsha (and family, I guess). She knows how difficult it must have been for Varsha to accept her (I didn't watch those yrkkh episodes when she found out but I'm told it was difficult for Varsha). Hence #keepitseperate.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Re. empowerment and daily soaps: I do think representation is powerful, even when it's ideologically super iffy, and I think it was a (diabolically) genius move by Ekta to identify that this is content Indian women relate to and consume. She essentially discovered and catered to an entirely unserved audience. To me that is the more urgent and important conversation -- why is this what they want to watch and how do we change that?


On this show specifically (as in a lot of mainstream shows), I think it's really interesting that all the examples of female solidarity are positioned in characters who range from superficial and silly to openly antagonistic -- Jasmeet, Varsha and their concern for Kuhu; Meenu and Parul; Kuhu and Nidhi mami. It becomes dangerously easy to ask if they are in fact trying to villainise female solidarity itself. The one saving grace was that they kept Baba negative and validated BB and Parul's relationship. It's the little things that show glimmers of hope!


Re. cross-dressing: @aqua, I totally see your point about using this for humour. It was definitely done in poor taste and it's about time we moved past this kind of humour and start taking queer rights seriously.

@blue: That's a great observation! I never realised but your're right it seems like that's the kind of message they want to give. What a load of cr*p!

Edited by PureDrivenSnow - 5 years ago

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