Rudra, try asking Maya the right questions, bro! - Page 3

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

Thank you, T. ....True. Even though Maya is grey and has done her share of mistakes, you actually realize now how damaged she really is. She becomes like a lifeless doll around MJ and i think it's time Rudra starts seeing the chinks in her armour now. Rudra should keep MJ away from his wife , even if he doesn't know the truth; he knows his father's character well.

Rudra has changed his lens for both Maya and MJ - so, he is thinking that Maya, as damaged as she is, is nervous and taking her time. He is working on his relationship with his father and he has warned him that a finger on Maya, and he will lose him. Rudra has to SEE Maya being tortured. That will have the desired impact.

Rudra is the game changer of this story - he has to be a tease for you and the writers love it that everyone is mind boggled about him.

Ananya needs to behave with maturity and absorb the situation. She is internalizing her grudge against Rudra and her hatred against Maya. Fine. Just mind your own business and build your life. What is done is done. She can either rebuild her life or end up with a persecution complex that could ruin her sanity.

Exactly, Rudra knows his father's character well and nobody changes overnight. He needs to see, but he can't see with ordinary eyes, MJ is a manipulator. He needs to understand what he is seeing.

I have no problem with Ruda being a gamechanger or a tease, but CVs need to be clear what they want from Rudra from the start, or all the good points about Rudra's character, the meaningful moments will go down the drain.

I don't have much expectatations from Ananya. She is coming across as too selfish or self absorbed to care about anyone else. She also needs to see MJ's true face to bring her down on earth. Kangan is a good actress and this is her debut show. She shouldn't get hate menat for Ananya.

Originally posted by: dewdrops.16

Exactly so.Indian parents often make this mistake of being over protective towards their children,shielding them from everything,doing everything for them which makes them too much dependent.

I should quit social media asap,especially twitter.People started getting hyper over there the most ever since the marriage episode

Maybe Rudra knows something...maybe he doesnt..but one thing is crystal clear..that is his feelings for Maya..they are true and pure❤️

Rudra is being that Indian parent right now to Maya. 🤔

Look, every human being functions from his/her mental and emotional range and these reactions, theories and blah blah are very common in thriller shows.

Whatever Rudra is , we will know in time. Just go with the flow of the story.

Rudra should start to sense hand grabbing thing. She does it everytime whenever MJ is around. He should start to use braincells.

Originally posted by: smriti81

Maya really needs help to deal with her past trauma. They did not finish showing the flashbacks properly so we do not know what happened after she was picked up by the passer by in the car. Has she ever shared her truth completely with anyone? Even her mother? I feel no one knows the full extent of how badly she was brutalised...her self worth, her dignity, her trust, her love, her body...everything was marauded. She just hid herself from the world to heal her outer scars, planned her revenge from the shadows never really prepared to face the brute who crushed her mind body & soul. As long as she was in the shadows she could put on the facade of a badass revenge seeking siren. But falling deeply in love once again and being thrust into the world of her nemesis has brought out all the latent trauma. The only way she can heal is by talking it out with the man who she lives & trusts now. She may not tell him who did it but she needs to talk about what hell she has been through. I do hope the CVs put in a scene where she can externalise & talk about her pain, her scars, have a complete breakdown in front of Rudra & get some catharsis. I can actually feel her fear, her insecurity whenever she is alone in that house without Rudra by her side & MJ walks close to her. Yesterday I had my doubts that she was luring him to make mistake but the precap was so so disturbing to watch. That girl needs so much help & healing. You are right that under the circumstances Rudra is going jis best ...he is being gentle, tender, caring & showering her with all the live in the world but that will only lead to codependency in the relationship. She needs to ask for help cause she cannot keep putting up a brave front and dying bit by bit inside.

Didn’t watch the whole thing so do not know about the Ananya scene. But all said & done Ananya was Rudra’s childhood buddy & he does care for her. Not to mention the fact that she was left at the alter which was pretty devastating for her. His reaction to her in the house was out of his protectiveness for Maya. He knows she is very traumatised and that is the reason he is trying to shield her from everyone & everything. But his convo in the office with Anuj would have been from the place of her being his friend. I know some people are already reading too much into the I love you. Don’t we love our friends?

And I really want Rudra to catch the signals...it’s high time. Every single time MJ is around them Maya clutches him so hard. Isn’t it ringing done bells in his head. Wake up from your Lala land Rudra & figure stuff out please.

The editing mix up is pretty pathetic. Don’t they do a final look over before airing the episode. They really should fire their editor.

But the love story of Maya & Rudra is so heart tugging & heart breaking & full of pathos, passion & tragedy all at once...that alone is the one saving grace of this hotch -potch revenge saga.

Thank you, Smriti ❤️and your understanding of the human psyche is so EMPATHETIC. You are so so so right - nobody knows the exact amount of suffering that Maya went through and she has internalized it all - she needs to EXTERNALIZE it , like you said. Right now, only Rudra and even Rajeev are in a position to absorb her pain. Rudra was always shown intelligent and intuitive and he should be able to read what unsettles Maya and yes, he has to step out of that la la land for that, and Maya has to understand that co dependency in this relationship will give her comfort but not security. Rudra can be her weapon - even then, she has to shoot it.

I try to understand Ananya and i do , but when people wallow in self pity and romanticize their pain , it unsettles me. Stay angry at Rudra, vomit it all out and keep hating him and his wife. But then, stick to that hatred because you have chosen it. Rudra loves Ananya as we love our besties - she has been his support and if he is emotionally attached to her, what's wrong?

Yep, Rudra and Maya's equation is what is holding this show together, cemented by Ashish's fab acting as the despicable MJ.

Originally posted by: _SJM_

I am silent reader of your posts for a while. I always look forward to your analysis after each episode. Been a fan of your posts since Jodha Akbar days😳

I am always amazed by the way you analyze Maya 😊. I like your analysis, the way you describe her mental state. It is easier said than done to get out of such a state... It is not easy to get out of the fear and anxiety..

Keep up the great work ❤️🤗

Thank you! 🤗...Wow! You actually remember me from those times? Thank you sooooooooooooooo much! How i loved that fiery couple.

Mental illness, emotional sickness - they are monsters . You are being eaten alive from within but nobody can see it. Sometimes, even you cannot see it until a sharp eye points it out to you.

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

There is a reason why Maya internalized her trauma. Its because she felt she deserved that punishment for her naivety, for her blind faith in love, and trust in her lover. There is a reason why she didn't get therapy, she doesn't want to be better. She wants to live with the memory of her hate and feed off it to empower herself.

Bingo! Very well put...Maya has been blaming herself for what happened 10yrs ago. And it is prevalent among victims of sexual abuse & trauma. self blame does not allow them to move ahead...she is mentally still stuck at the place where Manvi was brutalised & thrown off the cliff. Since day one she has been shown to want revenge by inflicting the same pain on her enemy, and not untill she fell in love with Rudra was she even looking to be healed or loved or to live a happy life again. This is the first time her bottled up fear & anxiety is finding its way out in the proximity of MJ and it she will eventually be able to find her way out of it with Rudra’s love.

I think Maya did a huge blunder by declaring her love for Rudra.

And MJ is clever enough to understand that loosing Rudra is her another fear apart from the original one..so he has got the idea of breaking their relation.

One shouldnt let the enemies know the weak points😕

Originally posted by: MoronsKiMallika

Thank you! 🤗...Wow! You actually remember me from those times? Thank you sooooooooooooooo much! How i loved that fiery couple.

Mental illness, emotional sickness - they are monsters . You are being eaten alive from within but nobody can see it. Sometimes, even you cannot see it until a sharp eye points it out to you.

Oh how I loved that couple until the show went downwards 😔.

True and people like Maya needs to be handled and approached very carefully..

hes not asking right que because he knows answer already may be

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

About MayRa not being legal hubby wife, the "marriage" they did wasn't a proper one. You need to follow certain rituals to perform a marriage, and a religious marriage without a priest, mantras or witnesses is null and void. That's what I meant. Though it isn't that important to the storyline right now.

Also, Maya did have empathetic and compassionate people around her-- Rajeev and her mother. Also she knows that she has 'sanak'. She realizes that the very mention of facing MJ has her scurrying for cover. In today's world, therapy is a very normalized thing, and rightly so. People seek therapy all the time and at least the upper classes have removed the stigma around it. And the trauma that she suffered from her brutality--- anybody in today's world would seek a therapist to get rid of the after-effects and horrible imagery that persists in the mind. Knowledge about mental illnesses and therapies is widely available on the internet and a mainstream subject of discussion now, so I don't see why Maya would not have considered therapy for her severe PTSD.

Yes..Maya knows that she has 'sanak'.. but she feels that how she can end this and get her sukoon is taking revenge and after that ending her life. So she has been doing that.

Like her trauma was at a stage that she isn't even ready to give her life a chance of living a normal life by getting any kind of help from therapists or anything then why would she go and take a treatment. How can we even expect that😳

Especially after seeing her traumatic past. She lost her baby that too in a most painful way.She lost almost everything in her life and here we are comparing like with anybody in today's world going to a therapist..🤔 like most of these people who are willingly going to therapists to treat themselves in today's world have not faced situations anything nearer to what Maya faced.. Maya was deceived. She got pregnant at a very young age. She was given false hopes by MJ about her baby and future. And then she was revealed that her love was a lie, her baby can't have any future. Then she was brutally beaten to get aborted and was thrown into a dump yard to get her death. As if all this trauma was not enough for a 21yrs old young girl.. she lost her father and brother.. like her entire life was destroyed within a very short span of time and after facing all this she doesn't even have any hopes for her life to live and she is only living to get her revenge and die a peaceful death then why will she go to therapist and gets treated!?