Rudra, try asking Maya the right questions, bro! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

About MayRa not being legal hubby wife, the "marriage" they did wasn't a proper one. You need to follow certain rituals to perform a marriage, and a religious marriage without a priest, mantras or witnesses is null and void. That's what I meant. Though it isn't that important to the storyline right now.

Also, Maya did have empathetic and compassionate people around her-- Rajeev and her mother. Also she knows that she has 'sanak'. She realizes that the very mention of facing MJ has her scurrying for cover. In today's world, therapy is a very normalized thing, and rightly so. People seek therapy all the time and at least the upper classes have removed the stigma around it. And the trauma that she suffered from her brutality--- anybody in today's world would seek a therapist to get rid of the after-effects and horrible imagery that persists in the mind. Knowledge about mental illnesses and therapies is widely available on the internet and a mainstream subject of discussion now, so I don't see why Maya would not have considered therapy for her severe PTSD.

It's all easier said than done.

As for legality of marriage, that's TV wedding. Rudra admits that he has married her and so does Maya. They won't allow anyone else to question it. So, yeah marriage stands by their own testimony and they happen to be adults in their 30s by all means.

I want to understand what is stopping Maya from telling Rudra that his father makes her very uncomfortable in a very different way. Only this one line. No need to reveal the whole truth. Rudra might take an offense at this but he will then observe some things carefully, the way MJ tries to intimidate her, speak to her in private when he isn't around, tries to touch her even when she is visibly cringing and uncomfortable.

Rudra knows what kind of man his father has been. It had been immensely angry about that for 10 years until Mayrah's death. This one statement from Maya can change a lot of things. It will again create a huge rift between MJ and Rudra, given MJ's past record and Rudra's immense love for Maya right now.

Brilliant as always!! You are so right.. Maya was Maya Jaisingh up until she fell in love with Rudra.. Now with MJ breathing down her neck 24*7 she is becoming Manvi again.. the timid, unsure girl. The precap goes to show that MJ knows Manvi still lives inside this Maya and he wants her to remember that everytime she looks at herself in the mirror.. that's Manvi who can not dare take on MJ not Maya.. I don't know what to say about Rudra.. Is he not asking the right questions because he knows of some of the answers..? I absolutely love how he makes Maya feel so loved and pampered but like you said its unnatural to not be curious and actually worried for how Maya lives.. his love can be a temporary distraction or a lifelong crutch for her because the moment he is out of sight she is back to the darkness that surrounds her..

Thank you, everyone , for replying. I am a little short on time today as have to run all over, but i read everything and will try to reply all the posts by today evening. ❤️

P.S- Please do not float "ye ho sakta hai" theories in my post , because this is AN ANALYSIS post and am least bit interested in spoiling the story now when the future hasn't even come'; unless the show is doing some foreboding. I live the stories that i watch in the NOW. So, please give me a break. 😃

Thank you M 🤗🤗🤗

Your post is definitely an insight to current worldwide discussion on Mental Illness. 😊👍🏼

When a person is mentally disturbed , there are so many things that come to their mind - either they become aggressive, they shell themselves becoming completely numb or they even becoming overtly positive, har cheez mein happy, sometimes opposite of their nature. Human mind works in unbelievable ways. For every human psychological problem,there is a different solution.

Thats why our system is complex! Humans are complex individuals. The thing that Maya is suffering from is related to her mental illness - PTSD, as everyone says it is terrible. Lets just say her trauma has reached every nerve, every ounce of her blood since I didnt think she took any medical help and the trauma made her numb. And it is very very difficult to heal from this. To heal from one heartbreak, we take a lot of time. So imagine! She has lost her family except nandini, her child , she was abused. This was huge for her. She must have gone through hell.

Thats is why Rudra is needed! We need someone by our side when we are depressed. Rudra will have to look into her completely and know her past caz she wont be able to say anything to him. She wont be able to describe everything , she will have to revisit and that is itself very traumatic. Also, another reason being she is married to her torturer's son and loves him so dearly that she cannot loose him. the way she holds Rudra when she is scared shows how deep that trauma was for her😭

Yes.. completely agree with you.. Even Maya has latched him to herself like her crutch. Its so sad as her enemy is lurking and will do anything to destroy her. He has sensed her discomfort and will make it his strength. Clock is ticking, time is less and issues are endless.

Lets see how Maya becomes Manvi by heart and Maya Jaisingh by mind. 😎

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

About MayRa not being legal hubby wife, the "marriage" they did wasn't a proper one. You need to follow certain rituals to perform a marriage, and a religious marriage without a priest, mantras or witnesses is null and void. That's what I meant. Though it isn't that important to the storyline right now.

Also, Maya did have empathetic and compassionate people around her-- Rajeev and her mother. Also she knows that she has 'sanak'. She realizes that the very mention of facing MJ has her scurrying for cover. In today's world, therapy is a very normalized thing, and rightly so. People seek therapy all the time and at least the upper classes have removed the stigma around it. And the trauma that she suffered from her brutality--- anybody in today's world would seek a therapist to get rid of the after-effects and horrible imagery that persists in the mind. Knowledge about mental illnesses and therapies is widely available on the internet and a mainstream subject of discussion now, so I don't see why Maya would not have considered therapy for her severe PTSD.

For therapy u need to trust people and open up to them completely whether they are male or female here maya get betrayed by everyone on whom she trusted 10 years back from Mj to jogi antra and diya even diya is a woman and doctor but still she betrayed her in a worst way she is not even MJ's wife either so that she has to lose her status atleast for maya because I don't think that maya is aware of there affair at that time. If u noticed till date she only trusted rajeev but still never completely open up to him.