RaSim- Discussion Thread 6- Humari Dosti Kissi Ko Pachtti Nahi - Page 65

Originally posted by: -PoisonIvy-

Rashmi is not very confrontational. I doubt she will tell Asim how she feels Im sure she assumes that he already knows the extent of hurt the aisi ladki incident caused her .

The Aarti ranting and aisi ladki arnt the same. The latter was a much larger issue involving character shaming . The whitewashing of it and turning into a joke is just pathetic whether its by HMs or by guests.

Where was Rashmi here ?

As for you creating an issue... maybe you didnt do it... but a few did... and its okay.

Im.just very uncomfortable right now... maybe because hes sitting wuth those losers and the "joke" sounds awful !

Did u watch the whole clip ? I guess we all need to watch it first before coming to any conclusion!

Right now every house member is cordial with one another

Rashmi is sitting with Shukla ..in fact Shukla was was speaking to Rashmi the way he speaks to Madhurima...in an almost flirty way and Rashmi also didn't react much

She is also cordial with Paras

Asim is speaking with Sana and even cordial with Shukla

All are in a jovial mood these days .

U can see Shukla making fun of Vishal ....Asim making fun of Vishal, Sana etc.

What I mean is at this point all are cordial and maybe were in a jovial mood since families were coming

I am sure Rashmi can convey what she feels to Asim ! She had a PROBLEM with Sana so she conveyed it to her !

Also Asim clearly controlled himself when he realised that the joke might have gone a bit too far

Right now both Asim and Rashmi are there for each other.....I hope they keep supporting each other and take a stand when necessary

Originally posted by: BasKahDia

I think Shefali been successful in her mission of creating differences between Asim and Rashmi by saying Rashmi ne Asim ko uksaya. And Rashmi getting close to Shukla after forgetting everything. Next few days are important for this thread. We will see whether this RaSim topic survive or not.

Again! Lots of overthinking!

Shefali hasn’t gotten to Asim!

I’ll tell you why. Firstly this video is from the same night when Parag and others had come! Umar and Rashmi’s family came the next day and gave them the right feedback which they will both believe over Shefali and Parag! Also as we saw that after Umar and Rashmi nephews visit- Asim actually slept the night outside with Virima and Rashmi instead of the Bedroom.

So the friendship is still there.

There will be a lot of tests for their friendship for sure and yes if SidRa do start chilling together Asim will distance from Rashmi coz Asim did the same thing when it came to Shukla when he started getting friendly with Devo and accepted Sana back. Asim is possessive about his friends whether he says it or not.

Anyway that’s my two cents on the same. Baaki see today’s episode and judge for yourselves. I’m pretty positive about them being friends.

Originally posted by: anshvi

Did u watch the whole clip ? I guess we all need to watch it first before coming to any conclusion!

Right now every house member is cordial with one another

Rashmi is sitting with Shukla ..in fact Shukla was was speaking to Rashmi the way he speaks to Madhurima...in an almost flirty way and Rashmi also didn't react much

She is also cordial with Paras

Asim is speaking with Sana and even cordial with Shukla

All are in a jovial mood these days .

U can see Shukla making fun of Vishal ....Asim making fun of Vishal, Sana etc.

What I mean is at this point all are cordial and maybe were in a jovial mood since families were coming

I am sure Rashmi can convey what she feels to Asim ! She had a PROBLEM with Sana so she conveyed it to her !

Also Asim clearly controlled himself when he realised that the joke have gone a bit too far

Right now both Asim and Rashmi are there for each other.....I hope they keep supporting each other and take a stand when necessary

Exactly! Asim started the joke on a different tangent saying Sid will never like a decent girl. Joke slipped into that category and he did laugh and even made a comment but by the end of the clip he said kaisi nahi Jaisi or something!

So yeah he is wrong but this doesn’t mean that Asim doesn’t respect Rashmi or they aren’t friends and he’s sitting and bitching about her to these guys. She’s right outside and she can hear it.

Yes low on sensitivity on Asim’s part but the fact is makers, BB have all made it into a joke so much so tha Rashmi was made to smile it on herself so Asim probably thinks it’s okay- and that’s why joined in.

Guys please calm down... We all one time Or another make jokes which are not well thought of... It just happenes with everyone. At the end of the day they are stuck in a house with 10 people their sense of circle is very small and sometimes they overstep it. Let's just wait for few days if they are indeed distant we will see that soon but for now it's seems ok to me.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I’m sorry guys but you’re over-reacting now. Asim didn’t start that aisi ladki thing here. He was asking Sid ki Kaisi ladki chahiye? And the Sana started Aisi aisi and he was laughing at that.

Agreed. Not the nicest thing to laugh at, but by now it’s become enough of a joke in that house especially after that Deepika task. Rashmi could hear the entire convo too. ( albeit it’s still not nice and right thing to do but If RD has internalised it and has managed to let it go, others around will think the same esp when someone like deepika comes and it’s made out to be a skit.)

Anyway! I think you’re all being too harsh on Asim. He’s a 26 year old guy after all, and this in no way means that Asim won’t stand with Rashmi or anything like that.

It’s also like when Rashmi didn’t defend Asim when Arti was bitching about him.

They’re friends but they do stay with other people 24/7- so they do talk and have fun with others and I’m sure a lot of times people do make fun of them in front of each other also. They can’t over react at everything and sometimes will be part of jokes too.

Please don’t overreact on every small thing. Coz after this very video Asim went and slept the night outside with Virima and Rashmi. So friendship toh intact hai.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

Guys please calm down... We all one time Or another make jokes which are not well thought of... It just happenes with everyone. At the end of the day they are stuck in a house with 10 people their sense of circle is very small and sometimes they overstep it. Let's just wait for few days if they are indeed distant we will see that soon but for now it's seems ok to me.

Exactly! That’s what I said! They stay with other people too and yes sometimes jokes are insensitive and sometimes you don’t realise it.

Asim and Rashmi have both been friendly with others. Entire house seems to be interacting with each other!

Also somehow the whole house thinks when they make this joke they are making fun of Sid more than Rashmi( obviously they miss the sensitivity of it because they’re oblivious to it as has been internalised so much at this point).

And yes sometimes Rashmi will be wrong and sometimes Asim, but as long as they’re still friends with each other we can have this thread and continue to support them.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

firstly where did I call it a small thing? I said the deepika skit has sort of made Rashmi internalise this and because she has and laughed over it, all these people now think it’s something they can joke over! Obviously not a good thing to do- but then they have. Also for all the goodness in the world, the whole house including Rashmi and Asim have a lot of times said Ladkiyon jaisi harkatein, Janani to the males in the house. So believe me these two are better than most others but aren’t the very progressive types!

Asim never participated in this joke before that deepika weekend. Yeah I don’t think he’s completely right to even laugh at it- but cut him some slack, he’s 26- he clearly thinks Rashmi is over the joke now! Asim himself talks to both paras and Sid nicely thesedays and these guys have abused Asim’s family to the core. So people who stay in the house tend to move on faster on issues then we can as an audience. They live together.

I didn’t compare it to Arti incident in the same vein. I’m just saying they can’t always defend each other or stand for each other at every thing. But that shouldn’t be hampering their over all friendship!

Anyway! You can watch the whole clip on Voot, or even in that other thread. Someone has posted the whole video I think. Sid also talks to Rashmi within the same video btw.

You said we're overreacting on a small thing.

Rashmi didn't internalize. She just has no choice but to shut up. She told Salman not ro bring her house matters, twice. He sgut up but a couple of weeks later he again brougjt it up. She didn't ask him again to not bring it up ...not because she internalized...but because she realized its futile so she gave up. Thats how shes given up on this aisi ladki topic. She knows she cannot win.

Im saying it again. Had it been Rashmi in Asims place joking about any word or incident that Asim is sensitive about it would have been equally critical.

Would you not have called these others out fpr bringing up the aisi ladki incident had Asim not been there ? Be honest. How hard is it to admit that he screwed up here...he did ! I did watch the whole clip and didn't like it at all. Shukla talking to Rashmi in the same.video does not make any difference.

Originally posted by: BasKahDia

I think Shefali been successful in her mission of creating differences between Asim and Rashmi by saying Rashmi ne Asim ko uksaya. And Rashmi getting close to Shukla after forgetting everything. Next few days are important for this thread. We will see whether this RaSim topic survive or not.

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

But after BB's msg through kids that befriend RD, will he give up ? 🤔

I think he'll start again after WKV, if he get right signals from SK/Guests

Just watching yst's eps now. Is it possible that SS thinks that Rashmi asked d kids to tell him to be friends?

I'll cut asim some slack here,the makers have made housemates laugh forcefully on that aisi ladki thing time n again that it may seems normat to asim now