Rashmi Desai and Loyalty!

This is actually my first post here about Rashmi😆 took me a long time but yeah😆

I started watching the show for Rashmi, but how she was potrayed plus her inability to defend herself like speaking contradictory statements plus Paras/Mahira factor drove me away further from her. I think ye Paras gets out the negativity in a person wherever he goes😳 Let be with Rashmi then & now Sid.

Even now, I am NOT her fan. She is not my top 2, but she certainly deserves a good friend. I just want to look at how she dealt with her friends which is quite endearing if u see in detail

1. Sana- I feel she has always considered her as a younger sister. Like she confessed today ki she feels the same way for Sana, like she does with Gaurav,her younger brother. Sana has time & again called her fake, like in the commedy show, also she fumbled midway...and there was Rashmi who stood up & cheered for Sana to continue. 🤔Though she was hurt, she didn't try to spoil Sana's performance like Sid had done with Rashmi's but encouraged her to carry on🤓. It was only in private with Sana, she confessed how hurt she was.

Even though her bff Devo told her to stay away from Sana, she didn't. She gets her dressed, makeup, jewelleries se leke her waxing, threading all stuff she does. Sana today told, Rashmi even ordered her hair colour. Why would anyone do all these small things unless they genuinely care?

The advice she gave her was spot on, ki "Respect urself first, then others will" But pata nahi how people took this too in the wrong sense

Bcoz we all know ki what happened with Sana 2days later.

Even she distanced herself with Sana so that her relation with Sid doesn't get affected. Ab isse jyada banda kya kare? sar peete?😆

2.Paras -.Even today, she's fond of Paras, when all he does it talks rubbish, let be on her face, or behind her back. He says her USING people, bcoz his own thought process is filled with dirt. This is the same girl, who for this friendship risked herself getting evicted.

The same girl who was the only one truly upset about his probable elimination, who inspite of being in the other team helped him in the shopping task. But the way Paras is so ungrateful is truly sad.

3.Arti - She has confessed ki Rashmi has always been there for her, the 1st to come to hospital when she needed a close one, been with her during her panic attack, also stopped Sid that day from troubling Arti, pushed Sid to go talk & give time to Arti when she was on verge of elimination, just bcoz she knew Sid mattered so much to Arti.

She even stopped Arti from talking to her such that it doesn't strain her relationship with Sid. But all these while, Arti had NEVER been there for her, but only blindly supported Sid who only misbehaved with her the entire season.

Rashmi did try a LOT with her earlier, but now I feel she is done with Arti deep down, for good.

4.Vishal - This guy had talked so much nonsense about Rashmi, both on her face & behind her back. When she hadn't spoken one wrong word about him. And the girl is crying for him today! But nahi Paras saheb ko lagta hai she uses him

I won't talk in detail about Devo & Arhaan, but we know pretty well how she sticked with both of them. No matter what the world told her about Arhaan, she could have easily fought with him for footage but it was commendable how she handled it gracefully and stuck to him & not judge him through others even though it only brought negativity for her.

I think Asim is the only friend in this house, who became her friend & didn't try to demean her by pointing out her faults all the time. Yes she's inarticulate but thats how she is. Everybody has flaws, but thats what friendship is, to be equals not command around people, he took stands for her when nobody else did, and today she's the one cheering for him the loudest.

She's genuinely happy for him & it shows on her face. And he's for her. He fought for her captaincy, she fought for his elite club membership. She even told today in UU as an example explaining Sana ki how she loves Sana and Asim. Random stuff but good to hear.

Bang on analysis..Good to read it coming from non Rashmi fan...Yes she is loyal to the core..sometimes i get pissed off wid her loyalty but thats what make her different from others too..Also she is pretty sensible women like she always says stuffs bohat soch samaj kar..naap tol k baat karti hai and doesnt take things to heart..i mean the amount of humiliation which rashmi got in this show agar mahira or sana ko mila hota toh they'd hv lost it completely..and its easy to judge rashmi abt arhaan but she was commendable the way she handled..keeping everything in and not make more tamasha outta her life...

Rashmi never says anything bad abt sana..acha hi kehti hai usko..even yesterday sana pointed rashmi's bottom 2 wali baat just to make her look bad..shez truly fond of her..usko manane itne bar gayi thi ye 😆

im glad at the end RaSim became friends...it makes so much sense them being friends wid each other..both have loyalty and respect in common wid each other..<3!

Even i was looking forward too rashmi and Arti most and was disappointed wid both initially!

Paras has this gifted talent to make ppl he associates wid come across negative!

Rashmi gives it all in her friendship and dont care if she gets back same or not!

Rashmi Arti have this silent treaty that real friendship will be outside BB and i guess its mostly cos Arti wants! Rashmi have given her full space and is ok with it! Rashmi understands its all for game and Arti wants to play hence she is chill with it!

I feel only 4 people have high EQ in house -Rashmi, Sana, Arti, Asim!

If someone is upset or getting cornered or crying they instantly forgets all the sh*t that person did to them and goes to help!

And this high EQ of them makes me soft for them!

Agreed👍🏼

RD is someone who won't backstab a friend ,rather put in a good word behind back.

She probably lacked genuine love and care in childhood therefore values small gestures and bond she shares with ppl.

Asim though not emotional fool like RD.. Values Genuine Friendship the most.

For them Friendship is Real and feelings involved are precious

RD may not be able to defend herself articulately in WKV but you can see she's quite protective of her friends, even she defended Mrunal so passionately in front of Vish-Asim in fun talk 😆

Looks like Mother Hen of her Friend Circle

Rashmi is one of the only people in the house who has always stood by her friends, and has this insane level of ability to forget any ill will they have towards her. I have never said or will say that she is best in the game, because she clearly is not. But overall, as a person, I believe that she surely is one of the most positive in the house.

I honestly do not know whether to laugh or be angry when Paras out of all people keeps questioning Rashmi’s loyalty. Even after whatever Paras did, Rashmi has always maintained how much fond she is of him. Paras says that Rashmi is the one using and manipulating people, and the one being the most bitchy. Clearly he has himself confused with Rashmi.

Rashmi is the only person in the house to keep trying to make Sana understand that she should put herself and her self respect above anything. Aside from Sidharth and Arti, she is the one to make Sana genuinely understand in the WKW episode. In the extra tadka yesterday, she again went to Sana to cheer her up and tell her why having a level of maturity is important. Which ‘jealous’ person takes all such efforts to ‘manipulate’ someone and for what? What will be Rashmi’s gain if Sana starts to behave more maturely?And if jealous and manipulative friends are like this, I hope I get friends like that as well.

While they might always be in different groups throughout the BB journey, Rashmi was always tried to be there for Aarti whenever it mattered. Sadly, I can’t say that this feeling went both ways.

Asim is probably the only one who did something for her in this whole span of three months, and you could clearly her gratitude when she hugged him.

Rashmi Desai has many flaws of course, but being disloyal or a bad friend isn’t one of them.

Agreed.

I feel Sana likes her just as much but she knows that doesn't go down well with Sid and she will obviously choose Sid over her. If she had the option to be with Rashmi without it being an issue, she'd definitely be more cordial.

Sana actually says some really nice things about Rashmi behind her back.

Idk why but I always end up having softcorner for emotional fools. I don't want anything except true friendship & genuine love in the house as well as outside BB. Cuz it seems like she has been deprived of love and affection in her life.

She needs to dump Arhaan!