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Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

What irks me the most and what disappoints me the most is the way - the story is revolving around Meenu , rather than Mishti, like how it was projected. It’s Mishti’s story.

we have two contrasting families here - one family where all are treated equal - be it elders or youngsters. Everyone have the right to live their life and deal the problem in their own ways, when things get out of hand, the elders pitch in together to solve it.

On the other hand we have a family - where decisions are taken by the single person. Problems are solved by that single person, yahaan tak the problems are created by that single person and solved by them to make a deal out of it- like really . It is a clear sign of seeking attention and projecting as an able person, when they clearly are not.

I havent been able to understand - in reality, even it is family member, when the person is recognised a two-faced person, we tend to keep and take decisions away from that person. Meenu - Abir knows very well and had even mentioned earlier to Mishti that “Agar meri maa apne beton ko gale lagati bhi hai, toh apne matlab ke liye“ then Howmuch ever the time changes, when he had come to know that she used Kunal’s truth to separate Mishti from him, should he not have thought by now- what was the reason that Meenu accepted her step-son and gave her name to him? Family respect se zyada koi toh wajah hoga. When Mishti was able to put 1and 1 as 2, why can’t he?

Waise maanna padega - Meenu jaisi bhi hai, no one stops being loyal to her - be it Nanu, Parul, now Abir and later Kunal. When I say , later Kunal, I mean to say - till now he was loyal to her coz he had thought she is his mom, now that he came to know she is not his real mom, then his loyalty will now shift entirely to Meenu thinking - in spite of being her step son, she raised her as his son. When Kunal will take such a turn, Abir will not be able to do anything, if Kunal does anything wrong as Meenu says . Why do I feel, the story is going in the direction where Kunal will be ready to give away his everything for Meenu’s sake as she had raised him .

Really!!! I am aware CVs always want to project Meenu as mahaan... but what’s the message out of it. Rendering loyalty to a wrong person?!

Fighting for something worthwhile is good, but not at the cost of respect. If there is ever a dent in the shield of respect or trust, it will stay forever.

All the tracks end with the mark of making Meenu great. This track is no exception. To me, more than exposing Meenu, I am more interested in the growth of the person and his character. Here, since a month or so, growth curve is dipping. This is what disappoints me the most.

Superb post dear.👍🏼

Bold- I don't think MishBir is the end game. This is the end game makers are gonna put on us.

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Guys I have a doubt is abir human yaara??becoz he was showm like a steel hearted person..he is facing so much never seen his breakdown unlike kunal so I want to know?

1 whom he has trusted the most from his childhood that person turned as fraud..wont this affect normal people.

2 His GF was hiding the most important secrets of his life and his family members, instead of him she trusted his mom..wont it affect a normal human being.

3. His so called Mom used his vulnerability to her favour and blackmailed him to leave his love..wont it hurt him??

4. and wihtout any reason he broke His GF heart into million pieces in the process he too broken beyond any reapir..wont it hurt??

5 Finally when you see Your Gf is moved on with some one else that too doing pda infront of you wont it hurt??

6. Kunal birth secret wont afect abir?is that easy to accept your father cheated a girl🤬

the list goes on with abir..but why cant no one cares for him..why so much importance given for kunal..is kunal is worth for abir love..he ever cared for his brother..did he know how much abir broken abir???what is this love yaar??I feel its toxic😈

Sorry for my rant guys the segment of bromance made me irritated the way abir treating kunal makes me🤬..why makers always show the heartless brat kunal is suffering and all are bambering him then what abt abir..no one cares abt him all using him.

I dont have any problem when they show kunal's pov here ...cuz its kunal's birth secret that is out and definitely at the moment I want to know that kunal feels...he deserves the limelight here

But you rightly pointed out, abir's breakdown , his emotions , his side of story has been under shown infact many times the subtle scenes have only left the audience to assume on their own 😆 Guess this time when abir actually breaks up mishti , when he actually believes that mishti is wrong , this will be the time when he will actually break from inside and the raw emotions will be out , the beginning of which we will see in tomorrow's episode

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Bang on👏

Answer is Abir is the MAIN LEAD. woh sab sambhal sakta hei. woh sab kuch tolerate sakta hei. To hell with his own life,he is here to make everyone's life awesome.😎😭

Kunal is the second lead. So he will always remain as Nanko. He will never ever grow up. Ushe soo khoon maaf hei.😃

Jayu you are correct yaara..this way our serial is unique mostly in ITV the FL shown like this here ML. hatsoff to makers😈

When I saw happy..happy meenu in the segment🤬🤬

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I dont have any problem when they show kunal's pov here ...cuz its kunal's birth secret that is out and definitely at the moment I want to know that kunal feels...he deserves the limelight here

But you rightly pointed out, abir's breakdown , his emotions , his side of story has been under shown infact many times the subtle scenes have only left the audience to assume on their own 😆 Guess this time when abir actually breaks up mishti , when he actually believes that mishti is wrong , this will be the time when he will actually break from inside and the raw emotions will be out , the beginning of which we will see in tomorrow's episode

Uru I dont have any problem with kunal lime light..but why he was always given the lime light then what abt abir???even when he broke up with swetha he was very much pampaered with his family members..we have seen the glimpse of that.but no one cares abt abir yaar..wont this kunal BS affect abir??

Kunal never feel guilty for his mis deeds and no one punished him for his mistakes istead he was the most pampered character in the show😡

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Jayu you are correct yaara..this way our serial is unique mostly in ITV the FL shown like this here ML. hatsoff to makers😈

When I saw happy..happy meenu in the segment🤬🤬

Meenu ke tarah mere aankhon se bhi pani aagaya.😭😡

I hate these makers.I fail to understand why they give so much importance to such a hated character. jaiise story aage hi nahi badh sakti BB ke permission ke bina. Everything has to be surrounded by her.😡

I kind of liked the episode today , for me it was way better than yesterday , atleast I could get an insight to the characters and I had one doubt that got cleared today 😆 So I am just happy

1. First of all I know where kunal is coming from .. he wont be all like aao parul massi gale lago 🤣 There is a reason he asked abir the time to process all this , kunal is a kind of person who doesn't accept changes easily in life ...and this was definitely the ugliest change in his life... even I am like him in this dept , though an easy going person , but when something changes I take to accept it dil se 😆 so yeah kunal's confusions are understandable ...especially when he dosent know that meenu actually used this secret to separate him , that was abir's responsibility to tell him, which he is delaying and this is going to backfire on abir if not said on time

2. I appreciate abir's and mishti's efforts, mishti did realise that what she did was wrong and wants to clear out the stand and abir for not directly doubting mishti...he atleast took a step to talk it out ...lekin dono hue cliche misunderstanding ke shikaar 🤣🤣 mishti ko zor zor se chilake garden mein bolne ki kya zarurat hai yaar 🤣 Aur abir tujhe sunna hi tha toh puri baat sunta....I dont blame the characters here but the writers ...inko kahani mein aur koi twist nahi mila kya ???

3. Contrary to the popular opinion 😆 I loved MishNish scenes today, at least there is no compromise on trust and understanding in their relationship...😳😆 Ek relation toh theek chal raha hai ...also i thought nish might be faking his seizures but today with doctor saying he has checked his reports I am relieved Sorry nish doubt karne ke liye 😆....

4. People saying how can abir misunderstand mishti ...well aisa koi rule book nahi hai jahan abir cant misunderstand mishti 😆 Even the strongest persons in life can make mistakes..zyada high pedestal pe kisi ko na rakhe ...abir bhagwan nahi hai ...if mishti can make mistakes , so can he ....in fact it's a lesson here that even a strong , optimistic person like abir can also make mistakes and can have lows in his life...it makes him quite human to me ...aur mishti ne khud ki batein suni hoti toh vo bhi khud ko misunderstand karti 🤣🤣

Anyways the episode was better than yesterday for me !!

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Meenu ke tarah mere aankhon se bhi pani aagaya.😭😡

I hate these makers.I fail to understand why they give so much importance to such a hated character. jaiise story aage hi nahi badh sakti BB ke permission ke bina. Everything has to be surrounded by her.😡

Even i hate the makers..dont know kisse gussa karu kisse nahi..i am really mad at makers now..😈

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Uru I dont have any problem with kunal lime light..but why he was always given the lime light then what abt abir???even when he broke up with swetha he was very much pampaered with his family members..we have seen the glimpse of that.but no one cares abt abir yaar..wont this kunal BS affect abir??

Kunal never feel guilty for his mis deeds and no one punished him for his mistakes istead he was the most pampered character in the show😡

Take one epi at a time geethu ...kunal has not done anything right now ...at least mujhe toh bo kuchh aisa waisa karte hue dikha nahi except for ignoring parul which I understand why he did

We are yet to see which side kunal will go

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Uru🤗

Wohi toh..... also in yesterday's episode Abir said Maa loves both of us equally and doesn't wanna share us with anybody.ab toh Kunal BB ko saar pe bitha dega and will treat Parul as the main culprit.😆yeh satellite kabhi apni trajectory pe nahi aasakta.😔

Yeh misunderstanding,miscommunication kuch jyaada nahi horaha apne show mei.😡

Fattu abir at it's best jayu 🤣🤣 Kya bolun ...abir ko aisa dheere dheere kar ke sach bataunga...iske chakkar mein kharab na ho jaaye sab 😆

Kunal has taken time to process all this...right now he is not doing anything...

Originally posted by: Jayati321

But i am not at all surprised with his behaviour. BigBen has raised him like this only. He always treats Parul badly where as Abir treats her respectfully. The problem is BB has always encouraged his wrong actions and made him a total brat.It will take him a long time to accept Parul as his mother.

But my heart goes out for Parul maasi. As a mother whatever she could have done for her child she did it. She knew that she can't give a good life to Kunal,that's why she gave him to her sautan and became a maid in the same house. It's not easy to see your child treating you like a servant.People call her selfish,in that case every mother is selfish.Her only motto in life is to see Kunal happy.Within her capacity whatever she can do,she does it.That's why i don't have any hard feelings for her.

Bold - true yaar jayu, parul maasi ka ye behavior koi Aur Samjhe na Samjhe kunal ko samajhna chahiye, she deserve atleast respect from her son now , kunal ko ab thoda maturely behave Karna padega