SONAKSHI, A MEDDLESOME NUT !!!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Violence makes the recieving side person hard and cynical ..it's never a solution to any household probs

Yeah I know that's why I said I do not support it

But right now I am just too pissed at that girl. I don't think I have ever been this pissed on any female lead

Originally posted by: mili9

Good morning girls ! Thanks for all the opinions posted.

I don't want to put anyone of the spot but I have to say this. Sonakshi, in my opinion is a solo player, not a team player. She often forgets that she and her husband are a team. It is all about her- "i" felt this is right. "I" feel this is what should be done, "I" told the truth, " I" couldn't see Pooja suffering, "I" felt bad for the birth mother, so on and so forth....... What she forgets is that Nishi and YK are Pooja's parents for 21 years. Are they blind to her pain, or desperation or her " dead wali" feelings? Nahin naa...... Despite all of this, her cry for attention with suicide attempt they think it is best that Pooja doesn't meet her birth mother. Koi toh wajah hoga? It can't be all selfish reasons not to lose their child? Problem is she doesn't let her mind wander or look at other peoples' perspective.

The least she could have done is given some credence to Rohit. He is a surgeon for God's sake. He is used to dealing with emotions, big and small, probably has enough judgement on when and what to divulge to people in dire circumstances. I am not saying his judgement would be pristine when it comes to the matters of his loved ones, but ek baar usse trust toh kar sakti haina? 😒

As far as bahu needs to be treated as a beti, that doesn't happen overnight, unfortunately. The bahu has to work doubly hard to gain some trust and confidence with her new family, that is if she cares to get that position in that family. People like me who are happy with the darja of a bahu👍🏼, we are fine being totally ourselves. In what way did she build any confidence with that family? They just witnessed a totally ludicrous decision of hers during her own wedding. This obviously doesn't give them the warm fuzzies in anyway. Unfortunately, this negates a lot of the good things she may have done in the past.

As far as Rohit not sharing secrets, even if you are in a marriage, doesn't he have the right for personal space? If the matter pertained to both of them, I can see that to be somewhat appropriate. If he chose to blackout some events between him and Raima, even that is understandable to me. Because as far as I am concerned, Sona has no business in the details of his past life, other than what he is willing to divulge. How can we demand complete disclosure from anybody and how can we be assured that we get it? If he felt that some things are left best unsaid, so be it. If he is a crook hiding things, that is a different matter altogether. Case in question, he withheld info about Pari being the culprit, for Sona's emotional well being. That was the extreme right thing to do on his part. Yahaan par toh, this is not even his truth to divulge to her, it pertains to extremely deep and sensitive info of Nishi, YK and Pooja.

Lastly, I have to say this. Did Sona ever look at YK and his face during this whole fiasco? That actor is phenomenal👏. My heart is breaking for him. The silence as Pooja and Sona trample on his heart, and NIshi's, the shock and numbness as he comes face to face with Pooja's suicide attempt, the hurt and utter helplessness as Pooja refuses to talk to him and call him dad, is simply out of this world😭. Just because he is not melodramatic, does that mean YK and Nishi are not "dying" from the inside just as much as Pooja is? How the hell did she think she was going to look them in the eye after her "heroic" fiasco? All this because Pooja wanted to name a stray puppy, she read so much into this😡? She displayed utter callousness to potential repercussions, the storm that would uproot YK and Nishi's lives or any other dire consequences from this.

Just like many of you have expressed, I hope that they don't show us that Sona was right after all💔I would truly hit the roof then😡

Have a good day ! 😃

After what Sonakshi did at the wedding, I am pretty sure many families would have called off the wedding. Yes work is important but at the cost of humiliating a family whose reputation you are expected to uphold as a daughter in law? She made a tamasha of the Sippy family before the world. She sounded so pathetic in today's episode that I only felt like dousing her in cold water. She disgusts me right now. As for the show they already tried to show Sona was right 🤢 with that monologue section. She tells herself whether should she choose family or Rohit when she hurt both. She gave a s**t about family which hurt Rohit. She did not support the family over Rohit. This woman is delusional to the point of madness. I wish someone could share the link of this topic with Sickand. He needs to know how badly Sonakshi is being portrayed now and how audience perceived her act today.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

After what Sonakshi did at the wedding, I am pretty sure many families would have called off the wedding. Yes work is important but at the cost of humiliating a family whose reputation you are expected to uphold as a daughter in law? She made a tamasha of the Sippy family before the world. She sounded so pathetic in today's episode that I only felt like dousing her in cold water. She disgusts me right now. As for the show they already tried to show Sona was right 🤢 with that monologue section. She tells herself whether should she choose family or Rohit when she hurt both. She gave a s**t about family which hurt Rohit. She did not support the family over Rohit. This woman is delusional to the point of madness. I wish someone could share the link of this topic with Sickand. He needs to know how badly Sonakshi is being portrayed now and how audience perceived her act today.

You brought up a good point, my friend👍🏼 I am Mili, how should I address you?

I apologize, this is not letting me highlight the text. But, what the hell does she mean by choosing between family and Rohit? From what I see, both the family and Rohit are on the same side, it is her who is standing against all of them. I didn't understand that at all. She didn't support anybody but gave in and made a spur of the moment useless decision.

Originally posted by: mili9

You brought up a good point, my friend👍🏼 I am Mili, how should I address you?

I apologize, this is not letting me highlight the text. But, what the hell does she mean by choosing between family and Rohit? From what I see, both the family and Rohit are on the same side, it is she who is standing against all of them. I didn't understand that at all. She didn't support anybody but gave in and made a spur of the moment useless decision.

Hey Mili, u can call me Mandy 😊 I was talking about the last bit of the episode where she tells the audience she had to choose between family and Rohit and she chose family. She disregarded the family because of which Rohit got offended. Sonakshi is setting a new benchmark for dumb ITV heroines.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

girl let me tell u one thing.meri shaadi hokka 8 saal hua hey. my pati doesnt utter a word about his siblings personal life or friends. though i am not someone who after knowing the news go and create the kaand which sona did. i know many things which my husband never told me.courtesy: meri saans. but still i keep quiet like i am not aware.

what you are expecting happens only in 10% of indian families. reality is a bahu will always be a bahu.

till now i am being taunted and teased.

rohit clearly told that its a sensitive issue,better stay away from that, she should have done that. just because they are life partners,its not a rule that everything should be shared. few things have to be hidden for others well being. men are like that. maianey ek baar meraey pati ka phone check kiya tha. woh hamesha meri bachoan ki tasweeraen apnaey rishtaey daroan sae share karta.i was againts it as i was a sentimental person.my kids were falling sick often. pata hey usnaey kya kiya,phone ka password change kiya. till now he doesnt share anything kyun ki mainaey question kiya.

men are hypocrites and they will always be indifferent with their wife.its his sister matter yaar,sonakshi doesnt have any right to poke her nose. what if rohit does the same with sonakshi siblings? will she accept?

i love tanya more in this series. she knows her husband is having extra marital affair, but she is moving her coin cleverly. she didnt become a emotional fool and started nagging rohan...smart woman she is..i want to see what she will do after knowing ropari dirty affair.

i want suman to take lessons of sonakshi.kudh apnaey zindagi barbaad kar rahi hey.

the most painful thing for a ladki is ,ussaey khud apnaey gharwalaey paraaya samajtaen hey. shaadi kaey baad apnaey parents bhi dhoor ho jataen haey...pura zindagi,uskaey rishta badal jaata hey,mein wohi zindagi ji raheen hoon :)😊 aadath padjaayegi.

but i wont be stupid like sonakshi for sure. come out of the parvati world girl.

Wow..wonderful post 👏

We married ladies know very well the dynamics of a joint family 😆 these r some unwritten rules for a peaceful life... dont ask for suggestions unless you are asked ..let the husband deal with his family ...dont expect your mil to be like your mother ...try never meddle in the Sil's affairs bec this is the most sensitive matter for their family n no matter how much you consider yourself to be the part of the family and call her your sister , still be careful n avoid as much as possible ..its like walking on eggshells....no matter how much you do or care , you are a dil...give space take space bec everyone needs it...apne Masle kam nai hote ke doosron ke bhi apne sarr le lein..

Originally posted by: mili9

You brought up a good point, my friend👍🏼 I am Mili, how should I address you?

I apologize, this is not letting me highlight the text. But, what the hell does she mean by choosing between family and Rohit? From what I see, both the family and Rohit are on the same side, it is her who is standing against all of them. I didn't understand that at all. She didn't support anybody but gave in and made a spur of the moment useless decision.

Me too did not understand what she said Rohit on one side and family other side

Originally posted by: _charu_

Wow..wonderful post 👏

We married ladies know very well the dynamics of a joint family 😆 these r some unwritten rules for a peaceful life... dont ask for suggestions unless you are asked ..let the husband deal with his family ...dont expect your mil to be like your mother ...try never meddle in the Sil's affairs bec this is the most sensitive matter for their family n no matter how much you consider yourself to be the part of the family and she, her sister , still be careful n avoid as much as possible ..its like walking on eggshells....no matter how much you do or care , you are a dil...give space take space bec everyone needs it...apne Masle kam nai hote ke doosron ke bhi apne sarr le lein..

Me too married i can understand u well i agree what u say

U should never get overtly emotional and never in life think hubby family is u r family .it's his family and u r dil

Let him deal with his family probs .never interfere and try to be a mahaan like sona

Originally posted by: mili9

You brought up a good point, my friend👍🏼 I am Mili, how should I address you?

I apologize, this is not letting me highlight the text. But, what the hell does she mean by choosing between family and Rohit? From what I see, both the family and Rohit are on the same side, it is her who is standing against all of them. I didn't understand that at all. She didn't support anybody but gave in and made a spur of the moment useless decision.

I think she meant rohit ls decision to drop this case vs pooja and her welfare which sona thinks only she cares for

Originally posted by: _charu_

Wow..wonderful post 👏

We married ladies know very well the dynamics of a joint family 😆 these r some unwritten rules for a peaceful life... dont ask for suggestions unless you are asked ..let the husband deal with his family ...dont expect your mil to be like your mother ...try never meddle in the Sil's affairs bec this is the most sensitive matter for their family n no matter how much you consider yourself to be the part of the family and call her your sister , still be careful n avoid as much as possible ..its like walking on eggshells....no matter how much you do or care , you are a dil...give space take space bec everyone needs it...apne Masle kam nai hote ke doosron ke bhi apne sarr le lein..

Exactly, Charu. Let the husband deal with his family's headaches and keep off. We have enough headaches on our own to deal with. Unwritten rule, let the husband deal with matters of his family while you deal with your own family. This way, there is a nice, clean separation, no need to step on each other's toes, offend people or get offended, and be cordial and nice when together. Works for all quarters😎It is truly like walking on eggshells, you really hit it in the head with this one👍🏼

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

After what Sonakshi did at the wedding, I am pretty sure many families would have called off the wedding. Yes work is important but at the cost of humiliating a family whose reputation you are expected to uphold as a daughter in law? She made a tamasha of the Sippy family before the world. She sounded so pathetic in today's episode that I only felt like dousing her in cold water. She disgusts me right now. As for the show they already tried to show Sona was right 🤢 with that monologue section. She tells herself whether should she choose family or Rohit when she hurt both. She gave a s**t about family which hurt Rohit. She did not support the family over Rohit. This woman is delusional to the point of madness. I wish someone could share the link of this topic with Sickand. He needs to know how badly Sonakshi is being portrayed now and how audience perceived her act today.

Yes ofcourse that's her primary responsibility because bahu ki toh ghar ki izzat hoti hai.

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