SONAKSHI, A MEDDLESOME NUT !!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: mili9

Good morning girls ! Thanks for all the opinions posted.

I don't want to put anyone of the spot but I have to say this. Sonakshi, in my opinion is a solo player, not a team player. She often forgets that she and her husband are a team. It is all about her- "i" felt this is right. "I" feel this is what should be done, "I" told the truth, " I" couldn't see Pooja suffering, "I" felt bad for the birth mother, so on and so forth....... What she forgets is that Nishi and YK are Pooja's parents for 21 years. Are they blind to her pain, or desperation or her " dead wali" feelings? Nahin naa...... Despite all of this, her cry for attention with suicide attempt they think it is best that Pooja doesn't meet her birth mother. Koi toh wajah hoga? It can't be all selfish reasons not to lose their child? Problem is she doesn't let her mind wander or look at other peoples' perspective.

The least she could have done is given some credence to Rohit. He is a surgeon for God's sake. He is used to dealing with emotions, big and small, probably has enough judgement on when and what to divulge to people in dire circumstances. I am not saying his judgement would be pristine when it comes to the matters of his loved ones, but ek baar usse trust toh kar sakti haina? 😒

As far as bahu needs to be treated as a beti, that doesn't happen overnight, unfortunately. The bahu has to work doubly hard to gain some trust and confidence with her new family, that is if she cares to get that position in that family. People like me who are happy with the darja of a bahu👍🏼, we are fine being totally ourselves. In what way did she build any confidence with that family? They just witnessed a totally ludicrous decision of hers during her own wedding. This obviously doesn't give them the warm fuzzies in anyway. Unfortunately, this negates a lot of the good things she may have done in the past.

As far as Rohit not sharing secrets, even if you are in a marriage, doesn't he have the right for personal space? If the matter pertained to both of them, I can see that to be somewhat appropriate. If he chose to blackout some events between him and Raima, even that is understandable to me. Because as far as I am concerned, Sona has no business in the details of his past life, other than what he is willing to divulge. How can we demand complete disclosure from anybody and how can we be assured that we get it? If he felt that some things are left best unsaid, so be it. If he is a crook hiding things, that is a different matter altogether. Case in question, he withheld info about Pari being the culprit, for Sona's emotional well being. That was the extreme right thing to do on his part. Yahaan par toh, this is not even his truth to divulge to her, it pertains to extremely deep and sensitive info of Nishi, YK and Pooja.

Lastly, I have to say this. Did Sona ever look at YK and his face during this whole fiasco? That actor is phenomenal👏. My heart is breaking for him. The silence as Pooja and Sona trample on his heart, and NIshi's, the shock and numbness as he comes face to face with Pooja's suicide attempt, the hurt and utter helplessness as Pooja refuses to talk to him and call him dad, is simply out of this world😭. Just because he is not melodramatic, does that mean YK and Nishi are not "dying" from the inside just as much as Pooja is? How the hell did she think she was going to look them in the eye after her "heroic" fiasco? All this because Pooja wanted to name a stray puppy, she read so much into this😡? She displayed utter callousness to potential repercussions, the storm that would uproot YK and Nishi's lives or any other dire consequences from this.

Just like many of you have expressed, I hope that they don't show us that Sona was right after all💔I would truly hit the roof then😡

Have a good day ! 😃

Exactly ..for a bahu to become daughter u should do double the work and at the end no guarentee that happens

Why rot u r life . Be a bahu always is my advice

Reg sona solution to Pooja issue is not taking to her mother

Solution is taking her to a good counseling session with psychologist and psychiatrist

This dumb women sona does not even understand that basic thing .she is the dumbest of dumbest

Thought khkt would not portray fl as dumb but it's doing the same as some other soaps

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Throwing dil is not easy .if dil does not want divorce hubby should wait 10 yrs such is our legal system

Throwing dil bcos she interfered in hubby family ..is that a reason for divorce lol

I wont support sona for what she did but throwing out of house is too much

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Hey Mili, u can call me Mandy 😊 I was talking about the last bit of the episode where she tells the audience she had to choose between family and Rohit and she chose family. She disregarded the family because of which Rohit got offended. Sonakshi is setting a new benchmark for dumb ITV heroines.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Wow..wonderful post 👏

We married ladies know very well the dynamics of a joint family 😆 these r some unwritten rules for a peaceful life... dont ask for suggestions unless you are asked ..let the husband deal with his family ...dont expect your mil to be like your mother ...try never meddle in the Sil's affairs bec this is the most sensitive matter for their family n no matter how much you consider yourself to be the part of the family and call her your sister , still be careful n avoid as much as possible ..its like walking on eggshells....no matter how much you do or care , you are a dil...give space take space bec everyone needs it...apne Masle kam nai hote ke doosron ke bhi apne sarr le lein..

Ek aur point,pati ka pehla rule :mil aur sil can poke their nose in our life,husband will be a puppet for them but he wont be the same for us and we dare not stop them from looking their nose in our affairs.

Rule no : 2... Only mil,dil and patidev know everything in this world,bahu is a zero and doesn't know what is love,parivar ki ekta etc etc.

Rule no: 3 - the so called bahu /patni(depends on the situation) unkaey {(patidev) kaliyae jaan bhi tyaag karaen,his jaap will be "no one can love me like my sister or mother;only they know the real meaning of love. You are dumb to sacrifice life for me."

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Originally posted by: mili9

Magizh ( is this how you want me to address you ? ), I didn't recognize your name till I logged in and read your old user name. I am well, my friend❤️ Just back from my travels and so the hiatus. I hope you are well.

Agreed, Suman is a lot more sensible and a proud woman. I like her. She understands the big picture quite well👍🏼

Even if Ajeeth is the one who had done this, I don't think he would have gone free without consequences😳

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

isnt Rohit also part of that so called "family" 🤣😆🤪

Good one Ammu 😆

Originally posted by: justlife

Yes ofcourse that's her primary responsibility because bahu ki toh ghar ki izzat hoti hai.

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Not saying her work isn important but at the end of the day ur working so that u have a life and not vice versa. There should be a balance and one should know when to prioritise what but this woman isn’t capable of that 😵

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

After what Sonakshi did at the wedding, I am pretty sure many families would have called off the wedding. Yes work is important but at the cost of humiliating a family whose reputation you are expected to uphold as a daughter in law? She made a tamasha of the Sippy family before the world. She sounded so pathetic in today's episode that I only felt like dousing her in cold water. She disgusts me right now. As for the show they already tried to show Sona was right 🤢 with that monologue section. She tells herself whether should she choose family or Rohit when she hurt both. She gave a s**t about family which hurt Rohit. She did not support the family over Rohit. This woman is delusional to the point of madness. I wish someone could share the link of this topic with Sickand. He needs to know how badly Sonakshi is being portrayed now and how audience perceived her act today.

After I heard the monologue I was like what did the writers smoke while writing the dialogues. Why will she choose a side? Both the family and rohit are on the same side its her who is creating all the issues. Nishi bua chacchu even ajit was irritated by her.

Seriously someone should change the person who is writing her character day by day sonakshi is getting pathetic and annoying af

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

@ bold sahi kaha.

Ek aur point,pati ka pehla rule :mil aur sil can poke their nose in our life,husband will be a puppet for them but he wont be the same for us and we dare not stop them from looking their nose in our affairs.

Rule no : 2... Only mil,dil and patidev know everything in this world,bahu is a zero and doesn't know what is love,parivar ki ekta etc etc.

Rule no: 3 - the so called bahu /patni(depends on the situation) unkaey {(patidev) kaliyae jaan bhi tyaag karaen,his jaap will be "no one can love me like my sister or mother;only they know the real meaning of love. You are dumb to sacrifice life for me."

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That's why I said dont give a DaMn for husband d family .always care for kids first and then FOR YOU ..hubby should become third..

If u start losing yourself ..going through emotions then one day husband might say my mom loves me so much than u

So my advice is be in u r limits and be moderate always .dont swing too much either way emotionally

Balance is the mantra ..in bhagavadgeeta lord Krishna says balance is the key for every thing in life

Of course work is not the priority but some one coming home ..that some one should have sense that working people can't entertain them.if they come without informing them earlier ..

Mil should have some sense she should not ask dil the night before work ..not to go for work the next day

Sometimes i feel why i watch all these shows! It drains me out !