SONAKSHI, A MEDDLESOME NUT !!!!

Good evening / morning girls !

What a annoying nuisance she is turning out to be ?😡👎🏼 Self-righteous to the point of exclusion of any and everybody's feelings, emotions😡. She blazed a path of destruction in the lives of the Sippy's🤢in a matter of just a few days. The gall of the woman to ask us to empathize with her self created pathos. The total lack of respect, trust or diligence to talk to her husband before jumping off the cliff with everybody tied to her and pulling everybody into a bunch of quicksand👎🏼. More than anything, the total lack of understanding, empathy or sensitivity towards Nishi and YK's feelings and emotions😡.

I loved the big heartedness of Nishi and YK who have been crushed to dust😭 by the holier-than thou Sonakshi. Despite all the heartbreak they had to endure because of an impertinent Sona, they never raised their voice or expressed disappointment towards Pooja or the new arrival. It seems like Nishi did keep her end of the bargain by informing the important events in Pooja's life to the birth mother. It may be with trepidation, but they didn't decline living space to the birth mother, even now. YK didn't utter one word, NOT ONE of disappointment or disrespect to Sona despite the huge devastation caused y Sonakshi.

I loved the pointed questions by Nishi to Sona. Did she not think there is a reason why this remained a secret? Did Sona just think that the parents are out to cheat their daughter of the birth mother and vice versa? That their intentions were nefarious? They didn't look out for the well being of their daughter? They were selfish and therefore HID THE TRUTH, in Sonakshi's words😡😡

The gall of the woman to question why she was not informed of the whole truth by Rohit😡. Does marriage mean that there is no personal space for him as a person? Moreover, she has no business to meddle in this matter. This is not Rohit's personal story which he can freely divulge. This is Nishi and YK's and Pooja's life and may be they didn't want this to be made public. Heck, Nishi didn't even readily share this info with her brother, the curly haired chacha. Why would she be soooo comfortable sharing the info with her nephew's new wife, who she feels is unstable. Why the sense of entitlement by Sonakshi that she should be privy of all info on day # 1 as a bahu of the house? Does she understand that she needs to build trust amongst the family members to be let in on secrets, big or small?

Why does she think that she is the best person to make this huge decision, knowing half baked truths? What the heck is she saying to Rohit, that she is a culprit by telling ONE truth and the others are all correct by HIDING the truth? Sarcasm on top of everything? Is this a child's play? My goodness, ONE TRUTH, that devastated a family, crushed two parents, caused huge rifts in that supposedly happy family. Does she even understand the magnanimity of destruction she caused? Why is it always about her ? What is the urgency in doing this? Yes, she was unable to get ahold of Rohit. So, why couldn't this wait till she spoke to him in person? Does she understand that he is a surgeon with a busy life who can't attend to all of her frivolous emergencies? God, this woman infuriates me to no end😡🤢👎🏼.

I am in full support of the Sippy family and Rohit, whatever gets doled out to her from now on. The nerve of the woman to then tell us her troubles and how difficult it had been for her living in that family. Lady, don't create storms and then cry when it rains😡!

OK, done with my rant for today😃Have a good day girls !

I'm with you on this...

Rohit is a surgeon and he may not attend all her calls at the time of emergencies , she has to figure out a way instead of taking charge of the situation and doing what she feels is right , when she was specifically asked not to meddle in this affair ...

The precap yesterday was annoying to the core and today if she is not realizing the magnanimity of the complications she has caused ,its very unfortunate..i believed she was different than the super bahus who never listen to their husbands. She can try to think from their perspective too...

Each n every word of this topic is true😡this Sonakshi is irritating me to the core nowadays.And look at the guts of the woman, instead of accepting her fault, she's trying to justify her act by giving ridiculous excuses😡

I concede wid d post, yet y r we letting this to get on our nerves!?😆 Dis is an ITV show @ d end of d day, makers wil justify nd glorify d act of FL pulling off d odd things 🤪(Ss... Sona isn't like other tip-top stereotype FL, but still..... ) there's a lot of chance for Rohit being shown in dim light once his share of deeds in pooji's adoption yarn comes up 😳 remember... Time nd again he's been fretting nd screwed up ever since Pooja asked for her biological parents....!!

Agree with each and every word. The worst part will be if they show in the end some situation whereby everyone apologises to Sona and tells her that she only was right all along. That will just make me mad. Cos they have to show the FL as all knowing and always right.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I'm with you on this...

Rohit is a surgeon and he may not attend all her calls at the time of emergencies , she has to figure out a way instead of taking charge of the situation and doing what she feels is right , when she was specifically asked not to meddle in this affair ...

The precap yesterday was annoying to the core and today if she is not realizing the magnanimity of the complications she has caused ,its very unfortunate..i believed she was different than the super bahus who never listen to their husbands. She can try to think from their perspective too...

This is what my point is that Sona should have waited for Rohit to come home and discuss the matter with him first and tell him about her meeting Rani and what Rani told her and also about her feeling bad to see Pooja and listened to him that why he choose to hide things and even if he still he doesn't tell anything because it is Nishi bua and YK's matter still she should not go and do what she did.

No daily soap heroines can be different. They all are the same, esp if the heroine is of someone who has been associated with EK.

Originally posted by: sparkling_gems

This is what my point is that Sona should have waited for Rohit to come home and discuss the matter with him first and tell him about her meeting Rani and what Rani told her and also about her feeling bad to see Pooja and listened to him that why he choose to hide things and even if he still he doesn't tell anything because it is Nishi bua and YK's matter still she should not go and do what she did.

No daily soap heroines can be different. They all are the same, esp if the heroine is of someone who has been associated with EK.

Today's epi kind of softened me towards Sona ... Not sure if makers wanted to show this, but her characterization is consistent....

This lady comes with a baggage .... she has been the sole breadwinner, taking responsibility, trusted herself, built herself bottom up, survived in competition, didn't have formal education, hasn't seen both the parents trust, share while growing up, didn't have friends, family, relatives ... she believed all she saw in her sets as the best way to lead life and seems to have taken her on-screen bahu role as the "go to" state in real life as well ... Even in this, she verified on her own that Rani is correct and followed her heart. She definitely needs some counselling to start building trust in her relationships.

I don’t agree. The post indicates typical mentality of treating a ‘bahu’ like a bahu and not beti.

She is part of the family, wife of Rohit, she asked several times but he didn’t spell it because he is a nut case as proved before too. A self-centerEd Man The Rohit Sippy! Every character in sippy Family has a gray side.

Originally posted by: if_mm

Today's epi kind of softened me towards Sona ... Not sure if makers wanted to show this, but her characterization is consistent....

This lady comes with a baggage .... she has been the sole breadwinner, taking responsibility, trusted herself, built herself bottom up, survived in competition, didn't have formal education, hasn't seen both the parents trust, share while growing up, didn't have friends, family, relatives ... she believed all she saw in her sets as the best way to lead life and seems to have taken her on-screen bahu role as the "go to" state in real life as well ... Even in this, she verified on her own that Rani is correct and followed her heart. She definitely needs some counselling to start building trust in her relationships.

I have yet to see today's episode to comment on this but still I agree that Sona comes with a baggage and has been sole breadwinner for her family and also believe that whatever she did was not with any ill-intention, may be she flew in emotions but still she needed to be little careful and considerate here. Not just much long ago how tactfully she handled reporters and fooled them while Pooja's suicide attempt means she is smart, knows people intention and can fool them if it needs be so she needed to use her smartness here too. And all I am asking to first confront Rohit and more over Nishi bua because after all it is her and YK's matter.

Originally posted by: Lucky_2012

I don’t agree. The post indicates typical mentality of treating a ‘bahu’ like a bahu and not beti.

She is part of the family, wife of Rohit, she asked several times but he didn’t spell it because he is a nut case as proved before too. A self-centerEd Man The Rohit Sippy! Every character in sippy Family has a gray side.

Seriously, just because he is not telling her some family secret that too which relates to some one else in family, he is grey shaded... and all those times when he defended her in front of family is nothing, when he prevented to disclose that it was actually Pari who gave news in media about Pooja's adoption because it will hurt his Sona, it is nothing. Every person has their own secret, their own apprehension of whom to tell whom not to tell, so does Rohit, Nishi and YK. She is part of Sippy family not Kapoor family and even if its a whole family why she needs to know everything about everyone.