Rashmi is lying

I’ve seen a lot of ppl saying that they think Rashmi is lying because she forgave Arhaan. I don’t think she’s lying. I’ve been in Rashmi’s situation a few months ago. I was in a relationship with someone and he cheated. He never told me that he was married and had a newborn baby. Once I found out I forgave him because I love him, but I didn’t forget what he did. There is a difference between forgiving someone and forgetting it. I forgave him and moved away from his life. And I feel like Rashmi really does love him and so that’s why she forgave him. It’s easy to point fingers at others until you get to experience it on your own. My heart goes out to her. It’s heartbreaking when you love someone with all your heart and trust them blindly and all you get in return in betrayal.

I'm so sorry to hear you had to go through that. Glad you're pulling through it strongly! :)

This so true, I have seen this situation happening to a very close friend of mine... thought she was being cheated,but she was just not ready to accept, one day when she realised he is cheating, she just couldn't leave him... One doesn't realise soon but later thinking abt the consequence does think but it becomes to late...

But I'm glad Ur out of it

So sorry to hear what you had to go through Raisa, I think many of us women have soft hearts and cannot distinguish scammers from the real ones.

More strength to you and I hope you find someone who loves you back more than you do soon.

Sorry to hear your story and I can totally understand how it feels coz I'm still stuck in such a situation and thought I was the only one who had to bear this but it's shocking to see so many people around who have had to go through similar situation. It's not easy for everyone to move on from someone who you really love and imagined all sort of things that you'll do together. It takes courage and strength and not everybody is as strong as you so kudos to you.

Coming back to Rashmi, I think there's an extra pressure of being right when you are in BB house besides no one is there who really cares about you and genuine enough to guide you. Now, after Salman entered the house and tried to reconcile them, she'll be all the more confused. She should be left on her own for a while so that she could clear her mind. Unnecessary suggestions would confuse her even more.

Really sorry to hear your story . Hope you come out of this soon.

Originally posted by: Raisa-

I’ve seen a lot of ppl saying that they think Rashmi is lying because she forgave Arhaan. I don’t think she’s lying. I’ve been in Rashmi’s situation a few months ago. I was in a relationship with someone and he cheated. He never told me that he was married and had a newborn baby. Once I found out I forgave him because I love him, but I didn’t forget what he did. There is a difference between forgiving someone and forgetting it. I forgave him and moved away from his life. And I feel like Rashmi really does love him and so that’s why she forgave him. It’s easy to point fingers at others until you get to experience it on your own. My heart goes out to her. It’s heartbreaking when you love someone with all your heart and trust them blindly and all you get in return in betrayal.

I myself have been with someone who is married and his was preggy but he pretended like he is a bachelor and the minute he saw me, his only life's aim is to marry me as he felt we are "soulmates"

I am angrier at myself for falling in this trap. I come from a very educated family of IAS and army officers, and have been taught self defence and everything when I was a teenager but still fell in trap.

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Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

I myself have been with someone who is married and his was preggy but he pretended like he is a bachelor and the minute he saw me, his only life's aim is to marry me as he felt we are "soulmates"

I am angrier at myself for falling in this trap. I come from a very educated family of IAS and army officers, and have been taught self defence and everything when I was a teenager but still fell in trap.

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Originally posted by: Raisa-

omgggg girllll!! Stoppppp!!! Same thing happened to me!!! His wife is living in a different state because she’s in school and he’s doing his residency and that gave him an huge opportunity to live 2 different lives.

Oh god! Why I feel it's the same guy..shit..

It's dejavu. Wait, I am sending you a PM. It can't be a coincidence

Were you in delhi at that time?

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Really sorry to hear your story . Hope you come out of this soon.