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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Problem of Shukla is that he takes everything as either worship me or be my enemy. In between those two things there are friendship, humanity, colleagues , co workers, neighbors, housemates, contestants etc. He doesn't know how to react on those . He is a very unsocial person .....very un developed human being. His social adaptability is extremely low. Uparse getting old . At this age man get married and have biwi, bacce .....they learn those and get mature. .......sp learn to forgive and be a bit less selfish. I am a child in our family even when I am 50....60.........time aane do. Let his mom die.......sister get busy with their own family........tab pata chalega what is life. He is same as Sana. Demanding baby . Ek ko sirf attention chaiye dusra ko dushmani.

He could be just there when she was sick. She would feel better.Just be there would make her feel better. Just be there doesn't make him a doormat. After all she is his friend .........not an enemy..........and this is just a game not a India Pakistan war.

Very easy to make it sound simplistic. The root of Aarti's problem is that the guy whom she has known since February has never entertained her advances or signals and then she saw him fall in love with another girl before her eyes and saw a totally softened version of him too. She tells him as much..." You love Sana..." . In situations like these, therapists advice the love aspirants to stay away from their person of interest and advise the same to the other person as well. Proximity is best avoided and creating a support system with them and a friendship is not possible at this stage and not encouraged at all. Shukla is doing the right thing here by trying to talk sense to her, but not giving her any false hopes or wrong signals. He is ethically and morally absolutely correct here. Aarti though is on edge and she needs to either exit right now or call in a therapist to help her sort facts and move on.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: jyoti06

And that exactly what aarti expected shukla to do today with paras ..the irony 😆..he avoided fights so his ex-grp all got anxiety attacks and sulking in captain room bec how dare shukla can hv fun with others 😆

Shukla is doormat in ParasPur. Doormat does not have any authority to do above activities. If he even tries, Paras will kick him out and then Shukla will become Dhobi ka woh, na ghar ka na ghaat ka..🙂

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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Very easy to make it sound simplistic. The root of Aarti's problem is that the guy whom she has known since February has never entertained her advances or signals and then she saw him fall in love with another girl before her eyes and saw a totally softened version of him too. She tells him as much..." You love Sana..." . In situations like these, therapists advice the love aspirants to stay away from their person of interest and advise the same to the other person as well. Proximity is best avoided and creating a support system with them and a friendship is not possible at this stage and not encouraged at all. Shukla is doing the right thing here by trying to talk sense to her, but not giving her any false hopes or wrong signals. He is ethically and morally absolutely correct here. Aarti though is on edge and she needs to either exit right now or call in a therapist to help her sort facts and move on.

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You should often write on DDT.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Nice analogy and politically correct, but I don't think it is situationally competent. Here, everybody of Shuklapur wanted to doormat except Sana who was "palti" at will and who strongly stood for the fact that she would do as she wished, but would do anything for Sid. That is truly independent gaming- she took ownership for herself and her actions. So, the autocracy model doesn't work here when people in the province are willingly seeking an overhead power. They want the best of both now and that is where they are wrong. They want the power and aura of an autocratic leader to hold them together, along with democratic liberties for themselves. Aise toh nahi chalega na.

Should make any difference in the end result, if they volunteerd or not. Fact is they were treated as one, on demand or by force shouldn't make any difference.😊

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

And that exactly what aarti expected shukla to do today with paras ..the irony 😆..he avoided fights so his ex-grp all got anxiety attacks and sulking in captain room bec how dare shukla can hv fun with others 😆


He cant fight them bcoz he is a refugee there ! He is no longer the leader of the pack why cant aarti understand.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nachiketj

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You should often write on DDT.

Thankyou re... lekin DDT pe bheed zyaada hai 😆 and I only enjoy stalking DDT now and then and reading it for the laughs, the sarcasm and the cynicism.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoPunk

Should make any difference in the end result, if they volunteerd or not. Fact is they were treated as one, on demand or by force shouldn't make any difference.😊

I meant to infer that they weren't essentially treated so when there were people within the group who easily exerted themselves from the very beginning, be it Abu or Sana and the others willingly brought it upon themselves through subservience. But, I get the larger point you are driving it in terms of losing direction 👍
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nachiketj

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You should often write on DDT.

I second third fourth that 😆 I absolutely love reading uma ji's posts.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Apka stalker a gaya😆

Baad mein ata hoon

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Uma2010

Thankyou re... lekin DDT pe bheed zyaada hai 😆 and I only enjoy stalking DDT now and then and reading it for the laughs, the sarcasm and the cynicism.

Seriously you should post on DDT. Your posts are very good to read. 😳

You were a Manu fan right ???

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