What does Shuklapur grp want ?? - Page 7

Shuklapur wants to befriend Bahugang for own benefit

Originally posted by: snehaHCAPK

Wow and what is shukla's gameplay. He can talk to others but his friends cannot. He belived vishal n bhau bt never ever tried to clarify things wid arti. Pathetic. He first questiond asim when he refused to listen to him. Sana mahira paras will backstab shukla very soon. Then only he will realize his mistake. He understood arti's gameplay bt cannt understand sana's gameplay. How she is using him. She saved paras. She made him win the swayamvar task. Her priority is paras. I am afraid that karma might hit him really bad and he will be left alone.

Shukla hhas earned a position where no team can backstab him now bec everyone knows theres no use nominating him anymore 😆..

He dint get a single vote today against him and thats his gameplay😎..truth is both sides need him and he is playing it too 😃..his soft corner fr sana is diff thing but thats not affecting his game here ..Sana got nominated today and not Sid ..so its sana ka loss by being with sid and not sid ka loss yet she is with him and sid can see that ..so this whole argument of someone using sid is baseless as they r all nominated today whoever r with sid except sid himself 😆 ..

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Fantastic post👏

Completely agree Jyoti Dii.. Sid ne isteeafa de diya. He was accused of excessive control, not allowing anyone to flourish. Sid said fine jaao bachon khelo. Lekin ye log nahi khel paa rahe hain.

Main problem and Crux is sabko sid exclusive apne lie chahiye. Aise kaise chalega. Sid ko apne aap ko 10- 15 hison mein baant ke de dena chahiye 🤪. Sabko sid chahiye. Sid ko koi nahi sirf sana chahiye. Ab ismein sid ki kyaa galti.

Till now sid was playing for his team and was getting bashed. Now he is playing individually to also he is getting bashed. Banda kare to kyaa kare. Sanyaas le le kyaa🤣

And bb ko bhi sid chahiye to mk their fav bahu visible 😆..poor sid .whats his fault if everyone wants him exclusive 😆..

He has stopped telling his team ..now let the team play ..why always expect fm sid ..

Originally posted by: SoPunk

In a larger scale the way Centuries of Slavery, colonialism, Racism, Patriarchy have damaged the ability of the oppressed. The same way, Autocracy damages the creativity and capacity to act when returned to democracy. It takes time to recover from that state.

Similarly, When you create doormats, you kill their ability to act independently. So when abruptly freed, they don't know what to do, that's chaos & confusion. 😐

But you have a valid question from Shukla's pov & its decision time for the others. If they have the courage, they will defy the odds and recover in a few days or weeks; but if they lack strength, they will try to go back to Shukla. I think they are craving to be dominated once more.😜

Aarti is definitely craving fr the domination 😆..asim trying hard to create his romantic angle with himanshi so that he can compete with sidnaaz angle ..and shefali today looked a bit lost dunno what to do..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Shukla hhas earned a position where no team can backstab him now bec everyone knows theres no use nominating him anymore 😆..

He dint get a single vote today against him and thats his gameplay😎..truth is both sides need him and he is playing it too 😃..his soft corner fr sana is diff thing but thats not affecting his game here ..Sana got nominated today and not Sid ..so its sana ka loss by being with sid and not sid ka loss yet she is with him and sid can see that ..so this whole argument of someone using sid is baseless as they r all nominated today whoever r with sid except sid himself 😆 ..

Only u guys thinks so. Wait n watch how sana and co are going to backstab him very soon. Yes all of them know there isn't any use of nominating sid so its nt his gameplay its bb makers gameplay. All of them have got so many hints that sid is the star of the show so y will they waste their votes. Shuklas problem is He belived others but not his frnds. That's where he is mistaken. Whoever will massage his ego will automatically become his frnd. Bt i wonder when sana will leave him for paras how the forum posts going to be.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Problem of Shukla is that he takes everything as either worship me or be my enemy. In between those two things there are friendship, humanity, colleagues , co workers, neighbors, housemates, contestants etc. He doesn't know how to react on those . He is a very unsocial person .....very un developed human being. His social adaptability is extremely low. Uparse getting old . At this age man get married and have biwi, bacce .....they learn those and get mature. .......sp learn to forgive and be a bit less selfish. I am a child in our family even when I am 50....60.........time aane do. Let his mom die.......sister get busy with their own family........tab pata chalega what is life. He is same as Sana. Demanding baby . Ek ko sirf attention chaiye dusra ko dushmani.

He could be just there when she was sick. She would feel better.Just be there would make her feel better. Just be there doesn't make him a doormat. After all she is his friend .........not an enemy..........and this is just a game not a India Pakistan war.

Well mayb u dint notice but he went to captains room at night when aarti was getting those attacks ..but asim said go fm here ..Sid dint react and just left instead of starting another fight there ..simple ..

He is also cordial and friendly with asim..he is not saying they r his enemies ..

Its just that he is not playing with them.like before ..

Its his team who r behaving like either u should b our leader like before or our enemy 😆

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I meant to infer that they weren't essentially treated so when there were people within the group who easily exerted themselves from the very beginning, be it Abu or Sana and the others willingly brought it upon themselves through subservience. But, I get the larger point you are driving it in terms of losing direction 👍

@bold: That's my only difference with you, the rest I agree.

When Abu was here, the team didn't crystallize much. Sana was a free agent bcoz he didn't feel comfortable in the team, she wasn't heard so she backed out. Then it was only about Shukla for Sana.

But the team I see: Shukla, Aarti, Asim, Shefali, Himanshi, Bhau etc they all were reduced to dms. He didn't need to tame the newcomers, they just fell into the SOP of the group. Standard was set with Asim, Aarti & another at the beginning, with a strong hand. They were 'Not to think', 'Not to talk' & 'Only do what he says'. Even after the tasks he wouldn't allow them to socialize with the rest.

That didn't allow them to befriend anyone on the other side & they are isolated even now, they can't play without Shukla even if they want to. Bcoz They have to start rebuilding from zero, that's a difficult task. Just a short picture of what they are going through.

Jo b ye bolega Sana Would leave Sid

Vo mera dushmab🥺

Khushi dekhi nai jaati kisi se b hamari🥺

Mein 101 paath krunga Bajrangbali

Sana shall nt leave Sid ever, there bond shall grow stronger and honest and genuine and selfless and loving, caring, warm, etc etc , all good things

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Nice analogy and politically correct, but I don't think it is situationally competent. Here, everybody of Shuklapur wanted to doormat except Sana who was "palti" at will and who strongly stood for the fact that she would do as she wished, but would do anything for Sid. That is truly independent gaming- she took ownership for herself and her actions. So, the autocracy model doesn't work here when people in the province are willingly seeking an overhead power. They want the best of both now and that is where they are wrong. They want the power and aura of an autocratic leader to hold them together, along with democratic liberties for themselves. Aise toh nahi chalega na.

Yes its like chit bhi meri and pat bhi meri ..u be the star face of this grp but let us all eat the fruit of your hardwork by making himanshi captain ..still u b with us 😆 ..

Sana on other hand made it clear with sid that she will do what she wants but when it comes to sid ,she can do anything fr him ..she also cleared it that she cant b in that grp anymore but will b with him ..i dont see how its called backstab then..

Backstab Was how himanshi was made the captain ..

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Very easy to make it sound simplistic. The root of Aarti's problem is that the guy whom she has known since February has never entertained her advances or signals and then she saw him fall in love with another girl before her eyes and saw a totally softened version of him too. She tells him as much..." You love Sana..." . In situations like these, therapists advice the love aspirants to stay away from their person of interest and advise the same to the other person as well. Proximity is best avoided and creating a support system with them and a friendship is not possible at this stage and not encouraged at all. Shukla is doing the right thing here by trying to talk sense to her, but not giving her any false hopes or wrong signals. He is ethically and morally absolutely correct here. Aarti though is on edge and she needs to either exit right now or call in a therapist to help her sort facts and move on.

Couldn't hv said it better 👏.u should mk a separate post on this ..Aarti does need a therapist ..she looks emotionally disturbed here and more sid go near her it will b more dangerous fr her ..its better he stay away fm her ..