The one and only Ridhima.

Hey DMGians....

I know right know feelings are running high on the A-R situation and everyone has his own pov either for or against A and R.

I am really surprised or rather stumped though at how the creatives arrived upon a character as complex and mindless as Ridhima. I run out of words when I think of her, no word is scathing enough or derogatory enough for her sometimes, the way she behaves. There has been so much Kekta bashing going on in this forum but for the first time I seriously believe Ridhima would put Kekta heroines to shame. At least there the heroines KNOW their minds and even if they go against their happiness and marry someone else they KNOW they loved one man but cudnt marry him and circumstances force them to marry another for heaven's sake.

Ms. Ridhima Shashank Gupta can give Kekta vamps a run for their money and leave them confused if pitted against them. They would throw up their hands, give up and run away in confusion because for them to plot against her they would have to be SURE first that she actually loves the hero of the storyline or plot. Given her state of dynamic in a relation and off it modes, they would go mad adjusting their plots to suit her whims and fancies, cos just when they think she is in love and plot against her and her hero getting together she will surprise them by turning their plot on its head and joining hands with them in implementing the plot.

Ms.Gupta doesn't think anything of driving a man over the edge before finally giving in and admitting to loving him albiet that too with I hate you's. She can take his Pusthaini Kada, demand valentine gifts, but is too ashamed to acknowledge him in public, forget public now looks like she is ashamed to admit a relation with him even to herself. Leaves me wondering about her sense of judgment and her ability to trust her own opinions. Does she have such low self-esteem that she doesn' trust her own opinions about people or is it that she is incapable of forming any opinions since she doesnt have any sensibilities?? How in the heavens ever are they going to redeem her character. I wish I could get some software which blacks out Ridhima and blank out her screeches from the screen so I cud just watch KSG and the rest on screen without getting irritated or pushed to the limits of my tolerance.

I wish and wish that Dr.Armaan sees the genuine warmth and affection Muskaan has for him and embraces her or moves on in search of someone else worthy of his affections while the high and mighty, confused as hell, _____ (fill in the blanks with whatever you want to) Ridhima Gupta keeps her miserable company limited to herself and simmers and simpers and grows into old age all alone keeping her screeches and bhashans to herself, recording them and playing them over and over and over cos by then she will only have herself and her screeches and bhashans for company. The world of "normal" "sane" people would have long ago given up on her.

PS: Just my point of view, not intended to hurt anyone's feelings or any Ridzy supporter's feelings.

This is not to hurt R lovers...pls dont take offence..its only my POV....u ca close the topic if u like...dont need to wait for the mods...or alternatively mods if u find the topic unessential u can close it

wow...you had a lot to say girl.....ok i read it!! are you saying that you want muskaan and armaan together??? if thats the case well i'd have to disagree and im in love with AR...armaan!!!

AR rock!!!

Originally posted by: kisnatulsi

wow...you had a lot to say girl.....ok i read it!! are you saying that you want muskaan and armaan together??? if thats the case well i'd have to disagree and im in love with AR...armaan!!!

AR rock!!!

Thanks for reading my post patiently, quite a lot in there.😊. Hmm right now AM sounds a good idea more logical but love Rahul too so wouldnt mind RM, but definitely AR has lost its sheen for me.!😕

lovely post.....I am both Armi and Ridz fan and would love to see them together. I am utterly confused with Ridz's character too. She confessed her luv but yet is still confused about how he feels about her??? Fine if she doesn't feel anything for that poor guy she should give him some space and let him be instead of making him adhere to her every single whimp....aaaaaaaahhhh. I was totally getting it that she was upset over Muskaan's issue but instead of solving the problem in Kasuali, for which I had assumed she had gone there, she created a bigger blunder. Fine if she didn't want to kiss him that's alright..she should have choose her words correctly and said that it's not right (which she did say) but shouldn't have said anything else. Instead she should have been like Armi let's talk about Muski and tell me what's going on.......instead she goes on saying about their friendship??? what friendship?? From my understanding they weren't friends to begin with!! I don't want Armi to be with Muski because he love Ridz but if she isn't willing to reciprocrate his feelings then he should move on and ignore her. If Armi stops paying any attention to her I am pretty sure she will come to her senses....When I watched today's episode I seiously felt like knocking some sense into Ridz's character. 😡

Originally posted by: parikru

lovely post.....I am both Armi and Ridz fan and would love to see them together. I am utterly confused with Ridz's character too. She confessed her luv but yet is still confused about how he feels about her??? Fine if she doesn't feel anything for that poor guy she should give him some space and let him be instead of making him adhere to her every single whimp....aaaaaaaahhhh. I was totally getting it that she was upset over Muskaan's issue but instead of solving the problem in Kasuali, for which I had assumed she had gone there, she created a bigger blunder. Fine if she didn't want to kiss him that's alright..she should have choose her words correctly and said that it's not right (which she did say) but shouldn't have said anything else. Instead she should have been like Armi let's talk about Muski and tell me what's going on.......instead she goes on saying about their friendship??? what friendship?? From my understanding they weren't friends to begin with!! I don't want Armi to be with Muski because he love Ridz but if she isn't willing to reciprocrate his feelings then he should move on and ignore her. If Armi stops paying any attention to her I am pretty sure she will come to her senses....When I watched today's episode I seiously felt like knocking some sense into Ridz's character. 😡

Thank you for taking time off to read my post. I was also pretty much ok with A-R but today's episode was teh limit. Like you said they werent friends to being with. Wish they had shown her trying to resolve whatever insecurities she had over the relationship talking it out instead of acting like this. He should move on and ignore her after this and hope they dont show him running after her again. At least spare him after this!!

i think its not ridz fault cause she still dosent know truth behind arman going with muskan

It's not Ridz's fault but she should have clarified it since she did go to Kasauli to get him back. Instead of asking him about it she started ramping about everything else but the issue on hand..........lol

i dont intend to bash ridz character...but i understand ur pain....i find her very irritating...i understand girls get scared, confused....but theres a limit....i am finding her very insensitive and far too much attitude...

as for the jodis....well i like A & R but if ridz continues liek this then i think armi deserves some1 more loving like muski....at least he'll b happppppyyyyy

I was about to write one of these(probably more offensive) myself. Thanks for taking the words right outta my keyboard!

Riddhima Riddhima Riddhima. I swear she's worse than a chameleon! Iskey rang to har second badaltey hain....unlike her expressions! I seriously feel they should show her being mentally unstable and not fit to be a practicing doctor. I mean Look at the Hypocrisy:

She wears the kada- yet she isnt sure what their relationship is. Wake up woman- HE GAVE U A KADA AND SAID HE WANTS TO SPEND HIS LIFE WITH U. Guess what your relationship is....go on...Guess...tik tik 1, tik tik 2....

Armaan, ye thik nahin hai...REALLY. Us din kya hua tha- on the BB court when he first wanted to do it....tab to koi problem nahin ho rahi thi- AB kya hua?

Koi rishtey se pehley hum dost hain....DOST DOST OMG- main paagal ho jaoongi- even after saying I love u to him like a billion times herself she dares to say they are still friends.

After driving a poor man INSANE, Imagining him everywhere as a clear indication she loves him, Missing him crazily while he's gone - she has the AUDACITY to reject his love once again. You know what I think- I think she has something against men. Wait please dont ban me for implying it but is it a possibility?

Originally posted by: jawo.rani

i think its not ridz fault cause she still dosent know truth behind arman going with muskan

It is not just the Muskaan situation. In general she has been so confused and always taken Armaan for granted and never spoken out to him about her inhibitions or misunderstandings.😕