Why is Roshni doing this?

I notice a lot of people bashing Aman for taking advantage of Roshni and Roshni being the Mother Teresa sort that she is still caring for everyone without expecting anything in return! That made me think... Is Roshni really the Mother Teresa of all good women and doing a samaj seva here or there's more to this girl than meets the eye.

So I thought of sharing my perspective on this entire Aman using Roshni and Roshni being the selfless Devi thing.

I agree Roshni is a very good person, farista dil and all. She does help the needy. And Aman is also one of those people who needs her help. Thanks to her inherent virtue of being Ayanaah that she is capable of helping him in his fight with evil powers...

Now is Roshni helping Aman only because she is super nice? I don't think so! I think the biggest reason Roshni is doing everything she can for Aman is because she is in love with him! ❤️

And if someone is in love and tries to protect her beloved in spite of all odds then why is that a big deal? We all do this. We go to any length to protect our loved ones.

And lets not forget what made her fall in love? First of all his flamboyantly handsome looks!(i can't blame her for that! We all are fan of Aman's looks!😉 ) She confessed many time that she loved his cute eyes. Next is the kindness, love and concern of Aman! Aman has been very caring and loving to her for the most part! along with the extreme care and concern he showed her, the biggest thing was that he was ready to die for her. He took death arrows for her. I think she can see all that! Itna accha husband aapko roz roz nahi milta! And forget faristha dil, if you are even a normal good girl you will die for such a man in a heart beat! ❤️

If Roshni wasn't in love with Aman and then also she stayed with him and helped him then I would agree that she is really being extra nice and is out of this world. But I think she is just a good women who is in love! And about putting up with Parveen crap, I think her love feeling is more stronger than any things that can get in the way of her being with Aman... Parveen is mother of her husband..chahe acchi ho ya buri but thats the fact! Now if she locks horn with her and complain about her then do you think Aman would respect her the same way he does now! No. No way!

So I don't think Roshni is doing a self-sacrifice by helping Aman or staying with him in-spite of all odds. I think she will put up with everything just to stay close to him and she lining up her life to protect Aman is something any good wife who loves her husband would do. I am sure a lot of you would do the same! 😊 So lets not bash Aman anymore. If Roshni is ready to die for Aman then Aman is equally ready to die for her! He even proved it and that too when he is not fully in love with her! God knows what more he will do when he actually falls in love!❤️ He is the best husband Roshni could get!

Let me know what you guys think of this perspective! All agreements and disagreements are welcome. 🤗

Yes of course she likes him and yes she loves him too... And that's the reason she wants to save him... But apart from that she really had awesome heart which thinks about everyone around her.... And that's what made her to stay back at junaid manzil....

Meenu, very beautifully described. I do connect to your perspective, cos Roshni is actually head over heels in love with Aman, that's why she gets so affected by him or anything related to him.

About him, his feelings are growing, still.

Wrote yesterday too in a post, see good things Aman has done or is doing, he takes a stand for her, helps her, cares for her but he has to maintain a balance. But everyone loves to blame him, and what I find good is he is a flawed character which seems human, Roshni is never at fault.

Thank you for making the post, it's good to see a positive post on Aman.

To add, I really hope they maintain consistency in writing and characters, like don't make Aman too bad just for the sake or for showing extreme bad side or typical ML trait. Even Roshni should not be typical bechari who keeps suffering and crying, like show some strong characteristics in both and character development.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Yes of course she likes him and yes she loves him too... And that's the reason she wants to save him... But apart from that she really had awesome heart which thinks about everyone around her.... And that's what made her to stay back at junaid manzil....

Thanks Lata for your insight. Indeed Roshni has a awesome heart. No doubt there. And of the few people who deserve her kindness, Aman should be on top of the list! He deserves every bit of Ayanaah!

Originally posted by: Madhura..

Meenu, very beautifully described. I do connect to your perspective, cos Roshni is actually head over heels in love with Aman, that's why she gets so affected by him or anything related to him.

About him, his feelings are growing, still.

Wrote yesterday too in a post, see good things Aman has done or is doing, he takes a stand for her, helps her, cares for her but he has to maintain a balance. But everyone loves to blame him, and what I find good is he is a flawed character which seems human, Roshni is never at fault.

Thank you for making the post, it's good to see a positive post on Aman.

Thank You Madhura. You are so kind ! 😳

And you summed it up so nicely.🤗

For me, I guess Aman's qualities have started to rub off on me! 😊 He is a very practical person and so I also started to think practically on situations! I know everyone loves to sympathasize with Roshni because she is cute and childish but Aman is no way taking advantage of her! He is far from the selfish man what everyone made him look like. If it's upto him only, he will never let Rohsni take any risk to save him.

Originally posted by: Mi-Amor

Thanks Lata for your insight. Indeed Roshni has a awesome heart. No doubt there. And of the few people who deserve her kindness, Aman should be on top of the list! He deserves every bit of Ayanaah!

Yeah meenu he is indeed the topper there.... 😆

And that's why she is still hanging there in junaid manzil....

At times Rosh reminds me of Elva of Eragon series.(she is an orphan baby who is blessed by Eragon in powerful ancient language. But the guy was new to the language and made a grammatical error. so though he meant “May luck and happiness follow you and may you be shielded from misfortune,” he had cursed her with “May luck and happiness follow you and may you be a shield from misfortune.” Eragon’s magic enabled Elva to sense all of the current and upcoming troubles of the people she encountered and compelled her to come to their aid—regardless of the harm it might cause her or whether she wanted to or not; any attempt to resist its influence caused her to suffer. ) here i think being blessed with an angelic heart, she might be unable to cause pain or unhappiness to anyone intentionally. that would explain her confrontation with Salma being of so limited words.

That way , though I agree that she is falling for Aman, it might not really be within her capacity to say no to him when his family needs help, even if she might want to.

Repeat post 😳

Originally posted by: Indulekha00

At times Rosh reminds me of Elva of Eragon series.(she is an orphan baby who is blessed by Eragon in powerful ancient language. But the guy was new to the language and made a grammatical error. so though he meant “May luck and happiness follow you and may you be shielded from misfortune,” he had cursed her with “May luck and happiness follow you and may you be a shield from misfortune.” Eragon’s magic enabled Elva to sense all of the current and upcoming troubles of the people she encountered and compelled her to come to their aid—regardless of the harm it might cause her or whether she wanted to or not; any attempt to resist its influence caused her to suffer. ) here i think being blessed with an angelic heart, she might be unable to cause pain or unhappiness to anyone intentionally. that would explain her confrontation with Salma being of so limited words.

That way , though I agree that she is falling for Aman, it might not really be within her capacity to say no to him when his family needs help, even if she might want to.

Nice Analogy dear.

There relationship is a bit complicated but divine. If Aman senses that she is hesitant to do something, he will not ask her at all.