Connection Hi Toh Ni Bana, Kitni Khoshish Ki - Aa Jao Saarey - Upd P 1 - Page 15

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know what? I didn't shed a single tear. Rona hi nahin aaya. I think it's because my heart knew this was going to happen a long time ago but I just didn't want to think about it.

What's happening now is the only thing that organically follows the path the writers have set out. I think it was during the scene where he explains to Minnie about mann ge gaanth was where I started to feel this way but kept ignoring it. Since then I've been in denial but now when I look back, it was all there.

Oh I cried a lot. The moment HS asked Minnie if her going is necessary in that broken and trembling voice, I was done.

And then just the dialogues HS had today and the phone call and connection wali line.. it was all too much.

I really don't know what it was. I guess, we just haven't been getting too many scenes with them lately and today was one of the few rare ones where it felt like the old HS & Minnie that I knew. The ones who actually talked and laid their hearts out to each other. But now knowing what's coming ahead for them... it's just all too much.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

His back story alone had SO much potential and could have easily made up a hundred episodes on their own and yet we got nothing. This hurts me the most because they all could have easily been roped into this.

Again, I really don't know what HS saw in Babita right now. The way she is currently... how can anyone love her? And it surely can't be just the companionship because what kind of company is she giving to him?

Minnie can never hate her Hanuman Uncle. Yes, she was angry at him for not giving the letter but it wouldn't spark hatred in her. Even with Babita's harsh words, Minnie will be more upset and hurt than hateful. She'll be leaving with an extremely broken heart.

It's just not fair how Minnie's the one who's being made to leave her home at the end. Especially how it was her who had insisted Babes to move into the Haveli in the first place. It was she who stepped there first and started to consider the place her home.

Babita ko toh ghar aur pati mil gaya. But Minnie ka kya??

Yes, they could have explored his track in a beautiful way but the drawer shutting was it. It was all there, Gur. He knew what the future held for them. Also, I think the writers wanted to leave his backstory with us in an 'if only' mode.

It's just ironic that Babita said a few days ago she'd forever feel guilty if Minnie were to leave because she couldn't give her a loving home, yet we get all this. She doesn't deserve this at all.

Right now, HS has ended up in a similar kind of marriage as Babita had with Ashok, hollow, empty. I just cannot believe this. He won't be able to do anything about it. I think having Arya would be a good distraction and I see him again taking on a major part of the parenting and potentially shielding her from being taught in Babita's ways.

Do you think AD is getting major deja vu when watching Mere Dad Ki Dulhan?

Originally posted by: inlieu

He is even more broken than he's showing because he was trying hard to control himself. The way he sat down and cried reminded me of the time he cried when Babita dictated the letter to Imarti.

It was as if he was losing his Imarti and her essence all over again. He's going to live in a shell of a marriage. He has to stay strong for Babita - if she weren't there he would have broken down completely.

I am so sad that he's going to die before Minnie returns - she won't get a chance to spend time with him and get to interact with him on a more mature level. Woh bhi ek khoobsoorat yaad ban ke reh jayega.

Well children do go away to study and it's not forever. At this point when mini told him about it, it was not like mini wasn't going to come back in vacation and all. She may not now after her fallout with babita tomorrow. But HS couldn't have preempted it today itself. I thought he would be devastated if mini goes off angry on a bad note never to return. But looks like he cannot bear to stay away from mini even for few months. This is the first time HS has expressed how much he needs mini inspite of having babita around. Cut back to the time when babita was leaving haveli and Mini was upset about it and HS was trying to cheer her up he will come anytime she calls him. shows how his marriage with babita has taken a toll on him. He is only going through the notions. At least mini was there for him to share his feelings now even she is going. I wish mini too has assured him that she will be there with him always like he did with her before.

Originally posted by: naq5

Yes we have been speaking about this since long. HS clearly feels the lack of depth with babita. Mini was a solace to him. father daughter or not. And now with her going away he is never really going to heal. I dont see babita stepping up too. HS will be the one putting himself last in this relationship.

Yes mini might never hate him she cant ever but they need to stay in touch through phone calls etc. otherwise it is going to be very devastating for both HS and mini to be cut off like that. Realistic is that they keep in touch, and more realistic is that mini visits in between, but we dont know what added drama they are going to show to make mini- Arya meeting more dramatic. I am worried mini will completely break off and will only come in contact after hanita are dead. That would be really painful for everyone involved

I think HS and Minnie will always have that strong bond but after she goes to Australia (whether angry with him or not) she will become busy with her own life and career. They haven't been talking to each other about their everyday stuff since the wedding as they used to do before, so what would they talk to each other on the phone about? It would be awkward and I don't see them having heart-to-hearts on the phone, maybe small talk or messages.

It doesn't mean that when she comes back they won't be in the same place they left each other. They still would be, if HS hadn't passed away. I want Minnie to finally speak up about her feelings for him when she attends the funeral or sees the second HS Junior.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That's what I was thinking too. As children grow up, their bonding with their parents obviously change. Because Minnie was now coming into adulthood, she could have helped HS with all the trauma he's been repressing a lot better than Babita could. Before, I didn't want Minnie to be anywhere near it because I wanted Babita to step to it and Minnie as a child shouldn't have to. But it's been clear now that Babita will never grow up. She'll always remain a child while Minnie grows into adulthood.

The CD was so useless tbh. They never questioned Babita as to why she had that stupid thing in her cupboard in the first place. And it's not even like she forgot that she had it. She KNEW where it was. Like, the eff was she doing holding onto that stupid thing after all this time??

@bold and I think she would have, once she came back. She would be mature and would be able to better understand him and why he did certain things, why he had limitations as Babita's husband, etc.

Too bad she won't ever see him again. I want her to have regrets, to remember every single thing they shared, and also recognize her own part in their fallout (if there is to be one).

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yes please. Just one last hug before Minnie leaves forever. 😭

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The way he's living now is worse than before. Before he never had any hopes for things to go right. He had accepted that Imarti was gone and that he'll never get that happiness again. But then Minnie and Babita came along and stirred up something so deeply powerful within him that even the thought of either of them going away ruins him.

Him saying that they're his akhri umeed of living isn't a joke or a throwaway line. We saw today just how broken he became upon learning that Minnie will be leaving. He's trying to be strong but how can he when his soul is going away? Now, he'll be a shell just like Babita going through the waves of marriage, but there won't be anything truly meaningful. It's all hollow.

Yep, his aakhri umeed is gone. It's different when a loved one passes away because you know that they can't come back, but Minnie is very much alive but so far from him. I completely agree that he's just going to 'survive'. If he wanted to, he could have emotionally blackmailed Minnie into staying and methinks he may have even succeeded. But he won't because he loves her as his child. I once again remembered the scene where he was telling her how fathers want their daughters to do better than them. He knows that he can never give her that kind of life or opportunity with his modest income and that she deserves this chance.

I just got thinking and don't take this the wrong way... When HS was talking about the kaunse janam ki preet, bandhan, etc... They finally showed us what soulmate means.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Oh I've watched that moment so many times and each time it moves me to tears!

This is HS, the father. He'll take on all the dark clouds in the world just so that his Veer Balika can enjoy the sunny days.

I am so so glad we got this scene. Dil ko raahat mili. If she'd left without them having this heart to heart, I would have never had closure.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Ufh!

Whenever he used to come home, he used to call out to his Veer Balika first. Ab kisko bulaye ga? 😭

Exactly!