How Justified Is It For Aman to Misunderstand Roshni? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

I guess we shouldn't expect such connectivity here. Whenever she'll be needed, she'll appear very conveniently... POOOF!

Convenient presence.

Convenient absence.

I call it poor writing when you can't include proper justifications when they can be given.

Originally posted by: Hallyumint

🙋‍♀️ Hi Harshada been a long time.

I’m posting my answer to the question u posted in your title “How justified is it for Aman to misunderstand Roshni ? “

None ! He has zero grounds to misunderstand / ill treat her. Why do i say that..

Morality, woh cheez hoti hai jo tumhein permission de, to do something truly horrible, only to give yourself a pat on the back later on saying ‘ I did no wrong !’

🕵🏻‍♀️ Let’s examine Aman’s actions on both those occasions

First the money throwing incident...

He’s disappointed the Ayaana didn’t cure his ami & how does he choose to take out his frustrations ... He chooses to forget his insaniyat & devalue her in the worst possible way. Why ?? Another woman broke his ami’s home ( his past ) + she’s a tawaif so naturally she’s a low character like that home wrecker. See his reasoning..

🤨 Every human being has a right to their dignity be it even sex workers ! Aman has zero remorse for his actions cause according to him ‘ He did no wrong ! ’

You might argue ah but his past is just so tragic no ? So it’s understandable his mu. B_ll sh-t ! Having a painful past is one thing & punishing an innocent bystander for it is another ! In his heart Aman is fully aware of what he’s doing. He damn well knows Roshni has nothing do with his dad leaving them but it’s ok to punish her for it. Unforgivable !

Second his kidnapping Ro for marriage...

He needs to marry her to save his ami’s life. He’s hesitant to force the girl. But the minute he finds about the husband’s first wife it’s completely permissible for him to not only kidnap her but to buy her services. After all he’s doing a great samaj seva by saving that first wife’s marriage. His morality gave him that permission...

Ya but what if in another universe she really was doing what he thought. I want to ask...

Whether she is a tawaif / gold digger or not why does she owe him an explanation for her choices ? 🤷🏻‍♀️ At that point of time they’re complete strangers aren’t they ?

Even if she is one why is it ok to sl_t shame her ?

And can someone tell me why should a woman’s self-worth be tied to a man’s judgement ? He gets to decide whether she’s a good woman or charitraheen. This is the 21st century not the damn 19th century !

(🤫 Ps : If being someone’s daughter earns her the title of tawaif what about people who have pre- marital sex these days or gasp* goodness children born out of wedlock. Does that mean they’re tawaif’s too ?? What about live in relationships)

Lastly why is it acceptable for an ITV romantic hero to have such low standards , because he’s pretty ! Even in romance novels these days the heroes have evolved. And l’m not asking the romantic hero to be a feminist but atleast don’t be sexist !

I mean no offence to any fan’s sentiments I’m just pissed off at what was shown.

I really thought that I was reading first page of some AT. #ColorfulAlisha 😆

It has been quite a while indeed. You can't disappear and break the reunion of my people. You know, people from different forums that I have been in - so many of them are here that I feel this is a reunion. 😆❤️

That was exactly what I was thinking when I wrote this. Honestly - I found that money throwing bit RIDICULOUS. Whatever your issues may be with her (which we are trying to understand since your mother was on death bed) - whatever your past may be (which again we are trying understand and we empathize with you) - but how does that give you a right to do what he has done with Roshni? The behavior + the words + the way of getting her to marry him! I am not much active here since then because I don't connect to him. Sorry, I know a lot do but I can't and I can't help it.

I lost the connect bit by bit and I am at a point where I don't feel anything for him and his pain and I feel, it's awful for I really wanted to like him. Besides, lately, I also had some issues with the direction team regarding Aman's scenes. I had trouble comprehending him. His reactions.

It upsets me that I am not drawn towards his character anymore and I am afraid - not even the show because I have been missing episodes when I don't do if I am in - for a show. I had actually thought that I would sit back, lock by brain and watch only for the entertainment purpose but it's not happening. Sigh.

:(

Originally posted by: Madhura..

She may have, but then considering she isn't showed much am guessing her role is not there much..

Like again Roshni didn't call her only friend for Sangeet?! Giving free passes also have some limits..

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Originally posted by: nushy1995

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Aww 😳 thanks Nushy wasn’t expecting u here

Originally posted by: Nikki_srk

Alisha... Brilliantly put... This is so perfectly true!👏

Completely agree with you here...🤗

My pleasure Glad u liked it. I didn’t think to see u in this forum

Originally posted by: Madhura..

Brilliantly put up Alisha!

Amazingly described. Welcome Back, you are back with a bang.🤗

Really hope television people read this Post, and stop messing stuff in name of Romance.

Well i must say I didn’t expect such a overwhelming positive response when i posted this. Thanks Madhura. Yes my trip did me good. I feel like i have reenergised

It’s high time Creatives stopped insulting our intelligence. They should upgrade the romantic leads to our time. Leave the relics of the past behind I say.

Originally posted by: Hallyumint

Aww 😳 thanks Nushy wasn’t expecting u here

Frankly, nor was I. 😆 But what to do? I can definitely stop watching serials but my Bhatakti Huyi Aatma's Nazar is on many forums. 😉 To aa hi jati hoon mu uthake. 😈

Originally posted by: Hallyumint

My pleasure Glad u liked it. I didn’t think to see u in this forum

Well, I keep on bhatkofying here...😆

Just that since I am not watching it as yet, I don't come here regularly... Am more of a silent reader. But, came here this morning, read your post and really liked it... So, couldn't refrain myself from replying...

Well i must say I didn’t expect such a overwhelming positive response when i posted this.

Well, whatever you wrote was absolutely true...

It’s high time Creatives stopped insulting our intelligence. They should upgrade the romantic leads to our time. Leave the relics of the past behind

Same here... The creatives should upgrade the romantic leads. And I really hope it happens soon...

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I really thought that I was reading first page of some AT. #ColorfulAlisha 😆

Well now u know why I hated when they simplified the color palate. Sigh those pretty fonts. You should see my recaps you’ll see a nice technicolor version.

It has been quite a while indeed. You can't disappear and break the reunion of my people. You know, people from different forums that I have been in - so many of them are here that I feel this is a reunion. 😆❤️

Really I didn’t know that

That was exactly what I was thinking when I wrote this. Honestly - I found that money throwing bit RIDICULOUS. Whatever your issues may be with her (which we are trying to understand since your mother was on death bed) - whatever your past may be (which again we are trying understand and we empathize with you) - but how does that give you a right to do what he has done with Roshni? The behavior + the words + the way of getting her to marry him! I am not much active here since then because I don't connect to him. Sorry, I know a lot do but I can't and I can't help it.

I lost the connect bit by bit and I am at a point where I don't feel anything for him and his pain and I feel, it's awful for I really wanted to like him. Besides, lately, I also had some issues with the direction team regarding Aman's scenes. I had trouble comprehending him. His reactions.

It upsets me that I am not drawn towards his character anymore and I am afraid - not even the show because I have been missing episodes when I don't do if I am in - for a show. I had actually thought that I would sit back, lock by brain and watch only for the entertainment purpose but it's not happening. Sigh.

:(

It’s not your job to make the effort to connect to his character it’s theirs ( writers) . It’s high time they stopped insulting us the audiences intelligence. Give us a hero heroine that’s in keeping with the current times. Not with the sexist ideas of a bygone age like 1960’s per se. You’re perfectly within your right to reject content that’s makes you uncomfortable. Why compromise i say.





Regarding Jinn i too took a break after Aman’s money throwing incident. I’ll start watching once they wind up the Tawaif drama. Shame really. It would been better if they introduced multiple tracks & other genres apart from Romance. That way if u wanted to watch something else you could skip out the romance bit entirely.

99 % of itv romance dramas the male leads always turn to be misogynists & the female leads disappointing. I was expecting the same with Aman. That’s why i’m a bit cautious when it comes to investing myself in their love stories. It’s only if the leads come up to my standards then i can connect with them.

Anyway this track will die down around a month’s time. Things will take a better turn. Good news is 2 weeks of that month has already passed.