Originally posted by: naq5
She is wrong. the thing is when parents get divorced they cannot expect their bitterness to be reflected on their children. You cannot expect your child o hate their father or mother just because you dont like them. It depends on the personal equation of the parent with the child. Let the child decide. If the father has hurt the mother or vice versa which happens in so many divorce cases you cannot expect your child to hate the other parent
Exactly! Moreover, Mini and Ashok have never even had a proper conversation with one another. If Ashok is repenting now, Mini deserves a chance to speak with him, to read the letter she got from her father, to ask questions and make demands. Babes is the mother. While I understand where her insecurities stem from, they need to take a back seat to her daughter's needs and mental well-being.
Ashok doesn't deserve a white wash at all. But Mini does deserve to stay in contact with her father if she so wishes. She isn't wrong at all in wanting that. She stood by her mother like a rock whenever her mother needed her. Now she needs to do what is good for her and why shouldn't a child want to get closure from a father who's been absent from her life now that he's reaching out to her?