Jo Tera Hai Woh Mera, Aur Jo Mera Woh Tera - Aa Jao Saarey - Upd Pg 1 - Page 16

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

London. 😆

Na ji na, Australia!!!😉

Abhi toh poora world tour baaki hai!

Pankhon se udte udte🤣

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Mini can do whatever.

I just want Babes to sunao Ashok and Dadu and Beeji and everyone with the dialogues like..

Kaha tha tera bap kab university mein admission nahi ho raha tha tera.

Kaha tha tera bap jab hospital leke gaye the Tujhe.

Kaha tha tera bap..

kaha tha..

😡

Kush din pehle mera yeh haal tha... Maine to mukti pa li mini ki moh maya chod ke... though missing Hanita... but mitti pao... I have 18-180 episodes to enjoy.....

Ghanta 1 Lakh! Mumbai mein bhi chappal ghiss jaayenge par 10K kamaana bhi kitna mushkil hai! Ghar baithe 1L. BS ka level hi kuch aur hai!😆

Achha one thing, now will Ks share this money with NB, who maintained them when they were penniless. God forbid but agar Babita jo zaroorat padi toh kya woh denge, when she has served them so long without expectations for so many years?

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

It’s true and there are lot of jokes about wife’s spending money. But it’s also true that mostly these ladies manage finances and they are great savers.

Mostly around me I haven’t seen fights. It’s mainly from my gen that both partners started working. Up until then majority ladies were housewives. It’s forever established that whatever man earns, is for whole family.

On the other side, I am financially independent but won't say I am completely happy. Money gives you confidence but happiness comes from family. I sometimes feel like an outsider in my own family .

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Yeah but my point was more about asking for money. It does create rifts especially when it's spending for your own expenses.

Ab paisa maangna nahi hai toh kamaana toh padega. That's what Mini thinks and that's right. But she can't thopo her ideology on her mother like that, especially when she a husband like HS. It's like so disrespectful to both of them!

It was very over the top the way they made Babita felao hath and ask for money. It doesn’t happen this way. Not that I have seen. To make an effect they did so.

And HS response was perfectly fine. In fact he told her everything’s her.

I am not on board with Mini’s thoughts here. She has a very “kitabi” idea about empowerment and “idealistic” approach. It doesn’t work that way.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Actually in reality, this thing holds true. Wives do have to ask for money from their husbands and this often ends up in fights and gets ugly, I've seen this. And this was the reason my mother started working as a teacher at the age of 35, for financial independence. But the point is, HS is so so so caring and loving, these things actually seem pointless.

Yes right. All depends on how husband and wife wants to handle finances, no 2+2=4 here. I don't think it's possible to handle finances separately when one person isn't earning. Also if they wanted to show housewives facing difficulty because of dependency on husbands, HS- babita aren't best choice, it would go against what HS preached until now. And why do they have to address all problems through babita's character, saroj is a housewife too, usko koi problems nahi aate? It would have made more sense if saroj or someone like her was in difficult situation and this topic was touched through that woman. Addressing all social problems through babita is so annoying, it's killing her character and not realistic at all.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

True. Anything my father earned was spent for whole family. I have never seen him spending a rupee for himself. I haven't seen my parents fighting about finances. We were all happy in what we had.

On the other side, I am financially independent but won't say I am completely happy. Money gives you confidence but happiness comes from family. I sometimes feel like an outsider in my own family .

I totally get you. I am the same. Money used to be in locked cupboard. Mom and Dad both would take it out whenever needed. I have never asked for money from Papa. Always Mum. And Papa never asked for hisab from Mom. In fact he would say, are le lo saree, itna socho Mat. Both of them have put our needs first then theirs. That’s parents for you. They still do.

And I am independent. I love being independent. but for my kid, when I have to compromise my time with her for work, uggh, I hate it. I do sometime feel guilty of being a working Mom. It works out but I get what you are saying about happiness. Sometimes, I feel would I be able to give those memories to my daughter that I have with my mom. You know what ghar ka khana, that warmth when you enter the house after a long school day. That feeling of her being there always no matter what. Even now she sends me home made Diwali snacks and sweets. Aah.. Mums, I tell ya.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Actually in reality, this thing holds true. Wives do have to ask for money from their husbands and this often ends up in fights and gets ugly, I've seen this. And this was the reason my mother started working as a teacher at the age of 35, for financial independence. But the point is, HS is so so so caring and loving, these things actually seem pointless.

Then there is still some distance b/w them as couple to actually start living like couple who share finances takes home decisions together .There is still a hesitation between them ?

Earliar she used to give him money (rent) but she was asking for first time maybe that is why hesitating ..

Where does the leap fit in all this? They have opened another thread now with Ashok’s letter? How are they gonna show Babita’s identity regarding PB and Ashok entering Mini’s life’s if Hanita are exiting. I thought Hanita will exit by next week 😕