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Posted: 6 years ago
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But in India most of the people do arranged marriages n they are not agreeing to marry the person out of love.I did'nt make her character cheap.But in one episode she only said that Karan n her were friends so they decided to get married.She never said that she is in love with him.On TV most of the female characters agree to marry someone not because of love,but bcz of some other reasons.Even there r many heroes of TV who have name sake girl friends but not bcz of love


Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

If she was not in love why she agreed to marry ..marriage is not a game u decide all of a sudden

If she is not in love why she maintained him as BF ..for 4 years ..

Actually u made Sona character cheap ..hope u understand ..


Kissing does not make a character cheap ..but not in love maintaining BF and then agreeing for marriage makes it cheap

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

But in India most of the people do arranged marriages n they are not agreeing to marry the person out of love.I did'nt make her character cheap.But in one episode she only said that Karan n her were friends so they decided to get married.She never said that she is in love with him.On TV most of the female characters agree to marry someone not because of love,but bcz of some other reasons.Even there r many heroes of TV who have name sake girl friends but not bcz of love


Sona said her first love failed .and she needs to have her heart in control ..she can't have second love failed too ..some thing like that .in some episode ..


And this first BF engagement is not arranged marriage for god sake ..

Arranged marriage is not at all wrong ..

But BF for 4 years about to get married saying I am not in love with him ever .. is cheapness

Name sake gf without love means in tv industry ..it's friends with benefits ..u don't have name sake gf or bf without even kissing him or her or either in love with him or her


See it's for physical comfort or either bcos u r in love u maintain gf or bf in movie industry

U r saying Sona is neither of that ..which is illogical ..

Edited by VARUNI2014 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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thats what happens in tv serials.They show relationship.then they say that they realized that they were not in love but infatuation.When she narrated the past like any other tv heroine she also didnt say that she loved him very much.i mean in serials heroes have name sake gfs but the girl friend tries to get closer to the bf but the bf does'nt show any interest n keeps his gf away.such bf gf r there in many serials when the gf is not the heroine of the show.


Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Sona said her first love failed .and she needs to have her heart in control ..she can't have second love failed too ..some thing like that .in some episode ..


And this first BF engagement is not arranged marriage for god sake ..

Arranged marriage is not at all wrong ..

But BF for 4 years about to get married saying I am not in love with him ever .. is cheapness

Name sake gf without love means in tv industry ..it's friends with benefits ..u don't have name sake gf or bf without even kissing him or her or either in love with him or her


See it's for physical comfort or either bcos u r in love u maintain gf or bf in movie industry

U r saying Sona is neither of that ..which is illogical ..

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Posted: 6 years ago
#24

It just promoted the damaging stereotype of women being all virginal without any sexual desires. I am sure the show creators r patting their back but what they did is basically how disney shows few woke scenes in the live action versions but still justifies the misogyny n racism in the og animated films

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

In India still there r many women who are not aware of it.In Indian schools sex education is given not to control pregnancy but to warn them not to get into physical relationship with anyone as it can be dangerous to the girls as men are hardly affected by it.Among Christians it is compulsory for the couple to attend sex education class before their wedding.

So u mean 29 year old gals are not aware of sex in India ..with this mobile phone era lol

Go to rural India also ..how advanced they are

To tell not to have sex with boys is sex education lol..u can tell it generically at home

sex education is basicly about how u get pregnant .how to avoid pregnancy ..how u get sexual diseases how to protect u r self from them ..how to avoid unwanted pregnancy ....how u get infections ..when to approach gynics etc

Sex how to do sex every one knows .something through internet .but above not many 14 yr old gal knows..so sex education whether in India or USA it's the same

Edited by VARUNI2014 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I didn't say that girls as not aware of it in this era.in India in most of the schools sex education is not given.but its also true that in some schools they take class on not to get intimate with boys in teenage.bcz in India still most of the parents hesitate to discuss such things with their daughters.so they can't tell it easily at home like you said


Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

So u mean 29 year old gals are not aware of sex in India ..with this mobile phone era lol

Go to rural India also ..how advanced they are

To tell not to have sex with boys is sex education lol..u can tell it generically at home

sex education is basicly about how u get pregnant .how to avoid pregnancy ..how u get sexual diseases how to protect u r self from them ..how to avoid unwanted pregnancy ....how u get infections ..when to approach gynics etc

Sex how to do sex every one knows .something through internet .but above not many 14 yr old gal knows..so sex education whether in India or USA it's the same

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

I didn't say that girls as not aware of it in this era.in India in most of the schools sex education is not given.but its also true that in some schools they take class on not to get intimate with boys in teenage.bcz in India still most of the parents hesitate to discuss such things with their daughters.so they can't tell it easily at home like you said


Most girls do know what sex is Such stuffs get discussed a lot among oeers after gurls start getting periods. Not to mention basic class 9/10 level biology has reproduction chapters n birth control chapters with IUD,Copper t everything explained. There r chapters on std.

books pad le to most people would know a lot . Still there needs to be more awareness about std,safe sex etc.


but a 29 year old city girl that too actress this virginak cluless very unrealistic not to mention is a part of a very damaging stereotype.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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yes right.I agree with you completely.in our times only in 11th biology it was taught.in our school sex education was mainly about discouraging teenage premarital sex n safe usage of pads.nothing else


Originally posted by: Charaiveti

Most girls do know what sex is Such stuffs get discussed a lot among oeers after gurls start getting periods. Not to mention basic class 9/10 level biology has reproduction chapters n birth control chapters with IUD,Copper t everything explained. There r chapters on std.

books pad le to most people would know a lot . Still there needs to be more awareness about std,safe sex etc.


but a 29 year old city girl that too actress this virginak cluless very unrealistic not to mention is a part of a very damaging stereotype.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

yes right.I agree with you completely.in our times only in 11th biology it was taught.in our school sex education was mainly about discouraging teenage premarital sex n safe usage of pads.nothing else


In my education board west bengal state board it was in class 9 . Even stds like gonnorhea syphillis were discussed n had ewww pics😆

in class 7 frog reproduction was elaborately discussed how male frog used foot to hold female frog etc etc🤣

What India needs is to discuss sex as a normal thing not a taboo .People r so repressed sexually that they do it in thewrong way cz most of us learn it from books ,peers,seniors in school,adult films etc which gives half info. parents teachers need to discuss it.


but them showinga 29 year old girl in mumbai whos an actress this clueless about it all is just bad

Edited by Charaiveti - 6 years ago
jasminerahul thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#30

yes you are right.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

In my education board west bengal state board it was in class 9 . Even stds like gonnorhea syphillis were discussed n had ewww pics😆

in class 7 frog reproduction was elaborately discussed how male frog used foot to hold female frog etc etc🤣

What India needs is to discuss sex as a normal thing not a taboo .People r so repressed sexually that they do it in thewrong way cz most of us learn it from books ,peers,seniors in school,adult films etc which gives half info. parents teachers need to discuss it.


but them showinga 29 year old girl in mumbai whos an actress this clueless about it all is just bad

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