Tujhse Hai Raabta Written Updates & Daily Discussions Thread 4 - Page 88

Originally posted by: singhShaandar

May be m the only person who feels this but m actually not able to connect with kalyani nowadays...idk why....like today epi or precap....i know she takes this decision self respect ki baat aagai...but she is venting out her anger on wrong person...like Malhar is the one jo use taunt krta h...Vo Malhar ko kyu suna rhi h🙄🙄Malhar bechara kya kare...Yhi hota h Jb Sasural Or Maika shuru hota to Pati hmsha pista h unke bich....Malhar Kitna kuch handle kare...n she is taunting him...Malhar ji ke paiso se phuti kodi b ni chahiye....🙄.....Aaj Paiso Ko lekar kl kisi or cheez ko lekar yhi chalta rahega kya ab...I know Ek bar stand lene ke Itna kuch hua tha to Ab hr cheez pr stand ...n if she wants to take stand to Baapji ke against hona chahiye Why Malhar...Pati Ki hr cheez pr to Patni ka hak hota h....Now she wants to earn money but kese Koi part time job krke jugaad vali...Bcoz she is not graduated...uska aim Apni studies complete krna hona chahiye tha...if she is challenging them To Use Khna Chahiye Me aapko kuch bankr dikhaungi....Some post jha use respect Or Earning dono mile....Ab vo koi part time job karegi Fr koi new musibat fr koi new bawal....

Poor Malhar seriously kya kuch handle kare case family biwi uska sasural.....

Malhar intermittently comes home from his busy cop duties only to see this tu tu main main and drama, mahabharat, emotional sasural nayika aalap so he's pissed. But woh zyadatar sirf Kalyani ko sunata hai because he can. He does intervene to stop his baapji but never has he really had a heart to heart and told him to just tone it down and behave respectfully with aaosaheb and Kalyani's family. Does baapji know how Malhar has treated Kalyani in the past? If Malhar gets frustrated seeing this imagine what it's like for Kalyani who's stuck actually handling this everyday. Malhar does realize that but his solution is to send her to hostel which is not a bad plan at all, except he hasn't factored that she's gonna not be living with him and moksh. It won't be easy at all....Plus he made the decision for her without any consultation. He put it as a bet and he's imposing it on her. Ultimately it may/may not happen. If it does it'll be super short because tv serial hai toh they can't prolonged separate the leads unless they take a leap. But i dont think they want that. And I'd they do that, we will miss out on watching the gradual growth of the relationship. Malhar needs to realise that he has got haq to give his input in her life, career but he cannot make decisions for her. He already pulled a stunt like that with forcefully marrying her, putting all this ghar grahasti responsibility on her. Unfortunately he asked his family to live with him so Kalyani is stuck with this joint family drama....

I read the WU and it was frustrating. People who watch it must feel so exhausted from the episode. Im sure TRP will again drop.

Again I will repeat NEW RANES HAVE TO LEAVE for this show to go back to what it was before they arrived. Even swara.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

U will have to understand these are all Asawari " s plan to create a gap between the couple by making Anu , AS , Swara a soft target. Aj agar Kalyani Madhav ko ulta jawab degi toh malhar dantega ! Na dante toh Madhav ka ragalap chalta rehega ! But ultimately this is true that ki paisa malhar ka hi hai...And woh apni baba ko izzat k daire mein reh kar sunata vi hai....lekin uska yehi toh job nhi hai na....he is a cop he has big responsibilities to fulfill. Thsts why he is frustrated . In this situation both are right . Kalyani is feeling insulted , bcoz truly bapji is taunting and malhandling her family. Malhar ko lagta hai ki tum inke bat mein dhyan mat do . My money is ur money so use it. Par koi self respect wali girl bura feel karegi...

Yeah i know baapji n asawari wanted this MU btw the couple...but agr kalyani Unhe ignore kare to Situation handle ho skti h....from where i found her off track is use pta h Use Anupriya ko innocent prove krna h Jis tarah se usne Malhar ko challange kiya tha Ya Anupriya ki shaadi krvai ...Vo Ab Utni concern ni dikh rhi us topic ko lkr...Her main focus is like Anupriya ka ghraparvesh pooja, Adarsh Bahu pr Malhar ko glt Sabit krna, Athu ki take care n all or ab new Job n khudki earning🙄🙄anupriya ko innocent sabit ni krna ab.....

Kalyani ka i think kbi koi Aim tha hi ni starting se ki use life me kya krna h...what she did or doing is instant reaction n adoption to the situation.....like we all have aim goals actor doctor engg fashion designer lawyer etc...but Jbse Kalyani AN aai uska focus hi change ho gya First Anupriya fr shaadi Moksh...she never regret for sec ki uski studies suffer kr rhi h...Lkn use Anupriya ki education ki fikr h...uski education ka kya...Only person concern about her education is Malhar phle Admission krvaya Fr use motivate kiya time n again Exam ke liye uske sth Jaga but she is the one Jisne Exam ni diya🙄....

Use Job b Krni i know every girls wants to bcom sepf independent but their is a way......koi part time job use respect kese dega...again koi new prblm create hogi 🙄

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

@Sneha we all agree with u. But kalyani is too young to get a job. The only way is doing online job or buisness llike Meesho etc. But the bigger picture is that....that these fiasco is created by Asawari in a deliberate manner ,so that she remained busy with job , study , household chores , moksh and atharav" s care , fight with her husband . There are only 12 days left , Asawari wants her not to devote her brain in solving the case, which actually is happening in a way. She indirectly helped Malhar, Malhar, of course for her benefit will send her hostel anyway i think !

We all know this is Ashavari doing but this is an issue almost every Indian middle class girls faces.

Now Deshmukh don’t have any support particularly with all the chaos.

I agree Kalyani is too young to work but I know girls who work at this age with their 12th standard degree like sales girl..

I know the pain, girls getting taunt for helping their mother side and humiliation even with her own hard earned. They do it by hiding from their husband and in-laws. One of the close friend went through it. Her husband and in-laws are not bad their only question was why you should after marriage it yours brother duty. She want to help as her brother struggling with less pay. She lived with a fear what will happen when truths come out.

Kalyani is at-least fortunate to do it openly.

I am not blaming Malhar but Kalyani situation relates with social issue not Kalma’s

I am talking in perspective of social issue not with THR perspective.

I see this job hunt going 1 of 3 ways.

1. This will be a temporary plot point where Kalyani will go for an job interview and the interviewer will be creepy and Malhar will come and save her. They'll have a KalMa moment and they'll talk about what's happening, and this career track will be saved for a later date.

2. She'll go job hunting but find a clue related to the murder and it'll go back to that.

3. She'll go job hunting and actually manage to get a job, and they'll explore her career track in the next track. Some people also said that there might be some scope for Malhar's jealousy if Kalyani is working under a male boss or with male colleagues.

Can't see this going any other way, do you?

I think the writer are just doing too much. Festive time should have been fun filled, romantic and stress free episodes and we got the total opposite which spoil everybody mood. I don’t know if I am feeling angry, sad, frustrated or disappointed 😳. Confused definitely bcoz I don’t know what and why it is happening to my serial.

Hope they solve this by diwali time on the THR show timeline atleast so we can see some happy festive moments. But i like the nok jhok moments also....it's sweet. Realistic. Husband wife fights but there's care and worry. Malhar bought her medicines, she was worried that he must be hungry. She was so happy to get his phone call until she remembered that she has to be angry with him. Lol. And how she says that clue/credit Malhar ko mile toh it's equivalent to her getting it coz voh alag toh nahi hai. As long as it's little nok jhok it's fine, it's when Malhar loses his shit and literally thunders down on her that it's a problem...but obviously we all prefer that they're not fighting anymore or having issues but happy and romantic instead. Jab Raaz khulega , the problem will be over but kalma are still gonna be hurt clearly coz their family has been hiding things and breaking their trust.

Just saw the episode. Most of it was a filler with more SBS drama with Bapji and money as we all predicted it would be. Kalyani is determined to find a job and Malhar once again says that he wanted her to trust him to protect her family but since she doesn't, she is free to find a job. Again, not sure where they're going with this track cause they're spending so much time on this career track, hostel track, KalMa disagreeing that I'm wondering when this raaz will finally unravel. Best part of today's episode is that KalMa both firmly tell Mai that she's innocent and Kaka is now questioning his loyalty to the Ranes.

After watching today's episode, DEFINITELY feel like this jon hunt is being thrown in for a KalMa moment of some sort.

Thanks Tiya for highlights