Holding On and Letting Go - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 65

Originally posted by: inlieu

I hope Ashnoor doesn't feel too upset by all this. It's not her fault, but she's getting bashed so much!

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah but she never really gave him a chance.

I don't think it's that he never accepted her as his daughter. He has always wanted to and tried, but he didn't know how to be a father, he was learning. She didn't even give him the chance to try and do things over times.

They haven't even been married that long but all that he did was washed away... How can she forget the whole hospital incident? EVERYONE thought he was her father. They can't all be stupid.

Ugh, never mind. Just like Babita doesn't want to work or expand her horizons much in this second chance in life, looks like Minnie too doesn't want a second chance in terms of having a father figure in her life, which, no matter what she says, she craves like hell.

You can have a hero but ehsaan only comes in when your emotions for them are out of awe and gratitude and not genuine love. I guess she liked HS because he was everything Ashok wasn't but once Ashok left the scene, she didn't quite care for HS on his own.

Well HS himself said that he told he was minis father to convince babita. what do we say.

And its not that mini did not give HS a chance, After CD incident. she retreated into her own shell and HS retreated into his own shell. The not giving chance has happened from both sides. Even after they made up after the cd incident, there was one more incident where he told her off to listen to babita otherwise she had no place in their house. He brought up ashok and told her that she should be thankful they are keeping her in this house. What do you expect her to feel. This conversation would have damaged even a real father- daughter relation & here they were not even father -daughter yet to take that king of a blow. Mini knows HS said all that on being provoked by babita but still he said those words to her. Did they both have a talk about it later did HS reassure her that he said that in anger. No. these two havent been talking only to each other.

Has mini gone to him telling that babita wants to literally close down PB after putting so much effort into it and she is not happy with it. And even after knowing it what has HS done, said she can do as she wishes. Do Babita HS realise that Mini had put in equal efforts to PB and its just cant be babitas decicion not to work. It spoils minis hard work also. If i was in minis place and if i had put hardwork into a thing i would be disappointed too & it would be a major tipping point for me. Mini's HS uncle would not have let this happen, he would have spoken to babita & mini and found a middle path. i will fault mini for questioning about babita name change but i will not fault her for getting disappointed that babita has refused to work for PB and is not bothered about its downfall.

Mini is at fault not to think of HS as her family but i dont think she is wrong about not burdening HS with her finances. He dosent earn much and it is not fair that he gets entrusted with a 18 year old financial responsibility suddenly without any planning beforehand.. It is babita who should be thinking about that. Anyway HS has not exactly thought of her & her dreams in picture while asking babita to stay home and that they both will manage with whatever income he gets. Parents have to think of their children too while taking financial decisions. babita to karne se rahi & these days HS is only preoccupied with keeping babita happy. BTW did babita ask HS if he could take responsibility of minis education if she did not earn. NO.

Sorry to say but the HS after marriage has been behaving only as babitas husband, leave alone a father he hasnt behaved Like minis hanuman uncle too. It is said tali dono haato se bajti hai. So if mini is at fault for their relation breaking up the HS is at fault too.

Yes whatever mini has reached today is because of HS. He was the one who saved her from Ashok, helped them, could see through her dreams, got her a camera. Mini is never going to forget all that. Inspite of all what has happened in these days that is the reason she has never got angry on HS or answered him back even when he has doubted her or scolded her. But in keeping quiet like this she has only distanced herself from him further. The haq which she had over him she has let go of that.

And one more thing Babita has hurt HS equally more actually. Just because she is now doobo in his love that dosent give her a free pass as to how HS wanted to share his past with her on wedding day but he had to shut it out. How she has berated him for not loving mini. The relation they are sharing is on a superficial level. If HS is just happy with all this and that babita is changing her name after him then i dont know what to say. At least mini understood the rooms importance after HS shared her past with her so its not that she never understood his pain. Babita to woh bhi nahi samjhi. The truth is that HS will always live his life on a superficial level with babita.

And yes people here are emotional because HS babita /the actors are leaving so for many mini is the villain for hurting HS. but i have been equally attached to mini & HS characters (babita has never attracted me) and seeing from a 3rd person point of view i can see that both HS and mini are responsible for it until this point of the story. Further what makers will do i dont know in view of the leap.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I always knew there's no hope for ITV because they all end up the same way but PB dared to instill just that tiny bit hope in me. That maybe, just maybe things could be different for once. I don't think any show can ever end on a high or satisfying note. Something or another will always go wrong.

There was one star plus show ek hasina thi with sanjida sheikh as protagonist and vatsal seth and simon singh as antagonist. That one stayed true to its theme. (Surprisingly female lead never lost focus from her goal- unusual for star plus). Also it had finite story- ended in a year or so with satisfyingly closure. Male lead (amir ali) was kinda redundant but I liked it overall. Although it had those dramatic plastic surgery and other starplus wtf moments, overall I liked it.

Aladdin Naam Toh Suna Hoga is great actually. Not too dragged, not to fast, just perfect. I actually recently made a thread on it. I'm pretty sure you'll like the show. The director, writers and actors are fantastic and it's not abrupt at all. Plus, it got a 15 minutes extention this week. It's having the ISHQNAAMA track with 45-minute episodes. It's a blast!!

Originally posted by: inlieu

I hope Ashnoor doesn't feel too upset by all this. It's not her fault, but she's getting bashed so much!

Yes.. Hope she doesn’t take trolling to her heart and become depressed 😭

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

Yes.. Hope she doesn’t take trolling to her heart and become depressed 😭

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

but i hope she too dosent end up in cameos and stupid roles like rajat in ektas nonsensical shows. Paridhi is so beautiful and still looks much younger than the age of 32 that she is. I hope she is considered for young roles or atleast sensible roles.

I have faith in her script selection because she selected PB after JA . But who knows what's going on in her mind now after being deceived by the PH 😒 her answers in all IVs(during promotions) to the question of why chose mother's role to a teenage girl , she confidently replied about her faith in the script and writing of PB team..But now??

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

They got engaged but wedding called off. Right now Yogi (male lead) is paired with Pari. A doctor. And his friend. I think they will be end game. I like it. It’s from Sasural Genda Phool makers. It’s not PB but it’s better than rest. And it’s on Sony so no dhan tana crap.

Actually quite OK for light entertainment after a long day... Concept was interesting but they have been dragging tracks a bit as of lately. Also lot of predictable tracks.

Hope Ashnoor is okay and have support. Some fans are too much. Its not her fault what is done to annirudh and paridhi. Some are making it like the reason for all of this is bcoz production house is favoring Ashnoor.

Originally posted by: dellaakdha

I have faith in her script selection because she selected PB after JA . But who knows what's going on in her mind now after being deceived by the PH 😒 her answers in all IVs(during promotions) to the question of why chose mother's role to a teenage girl , she confidently replied about her faith in the script and writing of PB team..But now??

Don't you think now she will be more conscious about her role. This is the first time she faced such situation and M sure this experience is much needed for her future project.. She will soon rise and shine. Till date she doesn't disappoint her fans, of course she will not in future too. I have full faith in her decision..