Let Prerna talk - Page 4

Originally posted by: SheAish

I'm sorry, but what constitutes communication here exactly? Does it only mean hiding everything else about oneself and letting your life partner know what you deem relevant only? Only give her the bits that suits his agenda and leave the rest? Did Bajaj tell Pre before she married him that she had to be a mom to a pre teen mute kid? Did he ask her when he decided to shifto BB and live right in front of Anurag who happened to be her ex lover/husband and thus now has to live with her former inlaws too? Did he tell her when he tried to make that accident a serious one in an attempt to get rid of Anu? Did he tell her anything about his past? Did he tell her about the things he told Anu about his past, about his father? Does Pre literally know ANYTHING about Kuki's past, why she is mute, who her mom is , why she left....where she is?

I saw him communicate nothing of relevance about himself to Pre. Pre is only shown the front he deems she needs to see and nothing further than that. And the most important decisions that affects both of them has been taken by him unilaterally only.

Communication does not only mean being a hearing board to the 2 decades younger girl that you practically blackmailed into marriage with you, who has literally no one that knows about the truth about her marriage and what she had to do for her love. So she had a couple of dialogues of ranting and showing anger and talking about her love for Anurag. And since the truth about the marriage is a secret who else is she going to rant about all these to under the circumstances except the one who manipulated her into the situation she is in currently? That's communication?

The marriage truths of Anukom and Prejaj are plot devices so ofcourse the leads won't let the other know about these truths. And however much people want to believe that Anupre never talk about their lives and their wishes and what they want from life, the truth is they already HAVE talked about all those important things with each other and THEY DO KNOW EACH OTHER and their families very well.

And most importantly, they love each other and they are in their early 20s only. I certainly DON"T expect them to be so mature and well versed in life experiences right now at this stage in life. So they act like young adults in love....isn't that what they are....young...so they are allowed to be foolish and immature and grow into their relationship along the way. And did you guys really not see her happiness and relief on her face during these last two episodes? Where was that during the last 4 months or so? They love each other...Let them love each other....IF they decide to leave each other on their own then so be it. But its their life and their choice and what makes THEM happy is to be with each other for now.

Thank you for this post! Much needed! This forums’s definition of “communication” and “respect” is something else

A few bad dialogues taken out of context is all it takes to judge a character.🤔Lets just forget the overall character graph.

to all those who quoted me in this topic

the topic is abt Anurag Prerna's communication or lack of it .. but Manisha brought bajaj pre to defend or make even for Anurag Prerna .. so I have replied to that and I don't want to deviate the topic further

IF Bajaj Prerna lacked communication doesn't imply Anurag Prerna are certified standards of communication ..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

to all those who quoted me in this topic

the topic is abt Anurag Prerna's communication or lack of it .. but Manisha brought bajaj pre to defend or make even for Anurag Prerna .. so I have replied to that and I don't want to deviate the topic further

IF Bajaj Prerna lacked communication doesn't imply Anurag Prerna are certified standards of communication ..

Hi Munni....This thread is about Prerna. Along with AnuPre’s lack of communication, the TM also talked about how she was mute with both the males characters throughout this track. If Manisha was deviating from the topic, Can you tell me how the following post is relevant to this topic? At least Manisha was respectful with her opinion

Iss Rishte ki One and Only Boss hai Anurag. He and his Myself. Prerna is here just to make pair with him . they both dont have equal participance to make a progressive and healthy relationship. when i saw this scene , i just surprised. like seriously ? Prerna is only lucky becos of his actions ? does not he as always ? if prerna accepted bajaj , then would he ever win prerna? Durga mata, Tanvi , Kukki , TECHNOLOGY, Prerna's niceness towards bajaj and Finally Bajaj's sacrifice has successful this relation in this point, not only he is. During Komo Track Prerna also tried her best to save the relationship. did she ever say like that? pre sacrificed her happiness , life her family and even risked her reputation and life to save anu .Instead of thanking her and saying sorry for those characterless words he said to her now he says this She is lucky?

We have moral policing too. And this time it is not from an AnuPre fan

Wow.. I am not surprised! And ppl still defend him...

I, Me and Myself in this relationship..

Criticism of a character and couple relationship is allowed on this forum , everyday a lot of Bajaj bashing thread has created on this forum. Then was that also meant to be disrespectful ? when criticism meant to be disrespectful ? am i here used any offensive words? and in their communication related post am i said any irrelevant things? dint anurag said those words today in the confrontation n was not his situation interrelated to the entire anupre's journey ? how my opinion deviating from another topic ?

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

Hi Munni....This thread is about Prerna. Along with AnuPre’s lack of communication, the TM also talked about how she was mute with both the males characters throughout this track. If Manisha was deviating from the topic, Can you tell me how the following post is relevant to this topic? At least Manisha was respectful with her opinion

Iss Rishte ki One and Only Boss hai Anurag. He and his Myself. Prerna is here just to make pair with him . they both dont have equal participance to make a progressive and healthy relationship. when i saw this scene , i just surprised. like seriously ? Prerna is only lucky becos of his actions ? does not he as always ? if prerna accepted bajaj , then would he ever win prerna? Durga mata, Tanvi , Kukki , TECHNOLOGY, Prerna's niceness towards bajaj and Finally Bajaj's sacrifice has successful this relation in this point, not only he is. During Komo Track Prerna also tried her best to save the relationship. did she ever say like that? pre sacrificed her happiness , life her family and even risked her reputation and life to save anu .Instead of thanking her and saying sorry for those characterless words he said to her now he says this She is lucky?

A female lead who has no voice does not deserve to be a FL. She behaves like a kid with Anurag and throws tantrums like a child with Bajaj. Characterization of Prerna is the worst thing about KZK. We aren't allowed to say the s word for her lol.. but I can say vertebrae right?.. hers is missing 😆 Also if Bajaj has not listened to her,Anurag has not either. Never when it mattered anyway. Somebody wanted physical intimacy over actually heart to heart communication after months of supposed separation.That says a lot about a relationship lol.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Manisha, as you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

@bold was all this genuine from his side? Wasn't all this just a facade. He hears her out.. Says badi badi baatein "aap jaisa chahti hai" but he has his own motives and plans.

Prerna goes by face value.. She's so dumb she'll never figure out if the communication comfort she shares with him has other motives or not. A woman like her may remain forever in oblivion and live in her happy bubble. (just like s1 prerna who never got to know/believed what all kaand bajaj did). From her perspective may b she'll feel Bajaj will be the right man for her but from 3rd person's perspective who knows in and out of characters doings will feel this kind of hubby-wife relationship is all a sham

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

Good post😎

Communication was always problem with them here as each kasautii they entertain is due to lack of communication but each time maa dura saves their relationahip, she has turned their guarsian now. But how long babies life is not simple when 2 obsessed pahychos who thinks they are your potential perfect partners are hell bent on separating you two.

Ek komo kya kam thi bajaj agaya, ek bajaj kya gaya komo agayee. The komojaj think and lives in illusionary imagination that anupre are meant for them as their partners. But stupidity is both think anupere are gudda gudiyas a lifeless dolls whom they can snatch and keep as thier posession to satisfy their obsession and term them as love.

Anurag lived with komo few months under same roof, she knew what anurag wants whom he loves but komo tehri komo never let him go nir realized ahe cant get his love with force.

Same goes to bajaj he too same, untill his own daughter refused to accept him never learnt humanity.

Did anulika or prerish had communication yes they had communication it was yes top notch pe tha master & slave communication 😂😂 daraake dhamkaake rakha tha zabardasti in golden cage.

If u go to prerna u will be snatched sharma nivas your basu communication will be doomed.

Anurag business & his life will be safe until you remain mother to kuki.

See what kind of communication it is.

Coming up to what is the need for anurag to hear prerna now when he already saw video clip of prerna monologue with bajaj why she married bajaj, and same day anurag questioned prerna ans was angry with her for not telling him. They know it they communicated, there was no need for prerna to repeat her monologues again.

Anurag calling prerna as lucky 😂😂😂 it was their fun banter which he does to cheer up ☺ see how lucky you are you got sucha a good boy friend have you seen yourself😆😆 these are usual banters happens in between couples.

Was anurag dominant or egoistic in anupre relationship No he is not..

Prerna knows it what intention he told her his banter dial was just filled with love .. To make that situation lighter..

Woh relation hee kya hai jahan you need to give explanation to your act to make your partner understand you... Kyun kamoshi se koi communicate nahin kartha kya..

But since 2 pshychos have hell bent on making anupre as lifelesa dolls.. Now u need to shout and tell each other that ek aur obsession has come between us to separate each other...with so & so demands..

Please ab koi mandir mat banao 🙏🙏🙏

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Manisha, as you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

to all those who quoted me in this topic

the topic is abt Anurag Prerna's communication or lack of it .. but Manisha brought bajaj pre to defend or make even for Anurag Prerna .. so I have replied to that and I don't want to deviate the topic further

IF Bajaj Prerna lacked communication doesn't imply Anurag Prerna are certified standards of communication ..

I didn't mean this post to be AnuPre vs PreRish but more towards criticizing Anurag for not being in tuned to how Prerna must have felt living with someone she didn't know. And the overall lack of communication about the actual feelings attached to the decisions instead of the reason behind the decision. I NEED FEELINGS.

Storm? Prerna tried to get back together?