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Posted: 5 years ago
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Wow.. I am not surprised! And ppl still defend him...

I, Me and Myself in this relationship..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Wasn't this the same situation when she was with Bajaj? She never spoke what she wanted that's how her character has been written.

But here the difference was that today she was smiling... she was happy... she felt complete in his arms... he completes her. She can express those small desires of hers to him... mujhe shaadi chahiye poore reeti riwaazon ke saath, mehendi haldi... it was blissful to see her beaming with happiness today. Her eyes spoke volumes today... as if they had done nothing but hold back their tears all these months.

Sometimes it's not about spoken words but the feeling of being with someone you love deeply ... that's what matters the most. I just loved the scene today.

But I think I'm the only one with an opposite opinion and that's understandable when you know how the situation is here daily.

Pregnancy revelation even I wanted but the topic was more about communication not only pregnancy revelation so this is my pov about this.

Doc

But in the long run don't you think to sustain relationship, they need to communicate?

It's OK if she is happy now and all but if they both are going to make same mistakes again and again, it means they have learned nothing from the past.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Wasn't this the same situation when she was with Bajaj? She never spoke what she wanted that's how her character has been written.

But here the difference was that today she was smiling... she was happy... she felt complete in his arms... he completes her. She can express those small desires of hers to him... mujhe shaadi chahiye poore reeti riwaazon ke saath, mehendi haldi... it was blissful to see her beaming with happiness today. Her eyes spoke volumes today... as if they had done nothing but hold back their tears all these months.

Sometimes it's not about spoken words but the feeling of being with someone you love deeply ... that's what matters the most. I just loved the scene today.

But I think I'm the only one with an opposite opinion and that's understandable when you know how the situation is here daily.

Pregnancy revelation even I wanted but the topic was more about communication not only pregnancy revelation so this is my pov about this.

I'm not sure if you've watched PreRish scenes but the fact is Prerna couldn't stop telling Bajaj what she wants all the time and about her feelings. There's a reason why Bajaj had declared unconsciously Jaisa ap chahenge waisa hi hoga And it had happened. He'd always ask her about how she feels and would wholeheartedly listen to her.
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: SehLengeThoda

Doc

But in the long run don't you think to sustain relationship, they need to communicate?

It's OK if she is happy now and all but if they both are going to make same mistakes again and again, it means they have learned nothing from the past.

Long run ki baat na to Mata sochti hai na uske writers na hum. 🤣

Yahan to daily basis pe tracks change hote hain but yes agar koi aur show hota to communication is important. But then any normal show will not be such a crapfest jahan leads communicate hi nahi karte. So no point in thinking about long run. Take it as it comes and tday I'm happy for AnuPre.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOnamy11

I'm not sure if you've watched PreRish scenes but the fact is Prerna couldn't stop telling Bajaj what she wants all the time and about her feelings. There's a reason why Bajaj had declared unconsciously Jaisa ap chahenge waisa hi hoga And it had happened. He'd always ask her about how she feels and would wholeheartedly listen to her.

even before throwing a single party , he asked her permission .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Good post😎

Communication was always problem with them here as each kasautii they entertain is due to lack of communication but each time maa dura saves their relationahip, she has turned their guarsian now. But how long babies life is not simple when 2 obsessed pahychos who thinks they are your potential perfect partners are hell bent on separating you two.

Ek komo kya kam thi bajaj agaya, ek bajaj kya gaya komo agayee. The komojaj think and lives in illusionary imagination that anupre are meant for them as their partners. But stupidity is both think anupere are gudda gudiyas a lifeless dolls whom they can snatch and keep as thier posession to satisfy their obsession and term them as love.

Anurag lived with komo few months under same roof, she knew what anurag wants whom he loves but komo tehri komo never let him go nir realized ahe cant get his love with force.

Same goes to bajaj he too same, untill his own daughter refused to accept him never learnt humanity.

Did anulika or prerish had communication yes they had communication it was yes top notch pe tha master & slave communication 😂😂 daraake dhamkaake rakha tha zabardasti in golden cage.

If u go to prerna u will be snatched sharma nivas your basu communication will be doomed.

Anurag business & his life will be safe until you remain mother to kuki.

See what kind of communication it is.

Coming up to what is the need for anurag to hear prerna now when he already saw video clip of prerna monologue with bajaj why she married bajaj, and same day anurag questioned prerna ans was angry with her for not telling him. They know it they communicated, there was no need for prerna to repeat her monologues again.

Anurag calling prerna as lucky 😂😂😂 it was their fun banter which he does to cheer up ☺ see how lucky you are you got sucha a good boy friend have you seen yourself😆😆 these are usual banters happens in between couples.

Was anurag dominant or egoistic in anupre relationship No he is not..

Prerna knows it what intention he told her his banter dial was just filled with love .. To make that situation lighter..

Woh relation hee kya hai jahan you need to give explanation to your act to make your partner understand you... Kyun kamoshi se koi communicate nahin kartha kya..

But since 2 pshychos have hell bent on making anupre as lifelesa dolls.. Now u need to shout and tell each other that ek aur obsession has come between us to separate each other...with so & so demands..

Please ab koi mandir mat banao 🙏🙏🙏

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOnamy11

I'm not sure if you've watched PreRish scenes but the fact is Prerna couldn't stop telling Bajaj what she wants all the time and about her feelings. There's a reason why Bajaj had declared unconsciously Jaisa ap chahenge waisa hi hoga And it had happened. He'd always ask her about how she feels and would wholeheartedly listen to her.

Yeah that's what Prerna wanted when she was forced into marriage... when she was told about kuki after marriage and was handed over the responsibility of a special child .... when they shifted to BB... when he tried to kill Anurag knowing how she feels for him... .. yeah Prerna wanted all these things that he did. Thankfully i didnt watch these scenes. I'm so glad 😃

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Yeah that's what Prerna wanted when she was forced into marriage... when she was told about kuki after marriage and was handed over the responsibility of a special child .... when they shifted to BB... when he tried to kill Anurag knowing how she feels for him... .. yeah Prerna wanted all these things that he did. Thankfully i didnt watch these scenes. I'm so glad 😃

Of course that's how Rishab Bajaj is designed. Unapologetically manipulative and self-centered to the core. He cares about a handful of people and will burn the world for them. For me it's better than expecting your love to solve every problem for him. It's good for you didn't watch these scenes, they literally destroys Anurag's whole character build-up. 👍🏼
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Wasn't this the same situation when she was with Bajaj? She never spoke what she wanted that's how her character has been written.

But here the difference was that today she was smiling... she was happy... she felt complete in his arms... he completes her. She can express those small desires of hers to him... mujhe shaadi chahiye poore reeti riwaazon ke saath, mehendi haldi... it was blissful to see her beaming with happiness today. Her eyes spoke volumes today... as if they had done nothing but hold back their tears all these months.

Sometimes it's not about spoken words but the feeling of being with someone you love deeply ... that's what matters the most. I just loved the scene today.

But I think I'm the only one with an opposite opinion and that's understandable when you know how the situation is here daily.

Pregnancy revelation even I wanted but the topic was more about communication not only pregnancy revelation so this is my pov about this.



Manisha, as you pointed out about Bajaj and Prerna, let me reply to that

@Bold - she always spoke upfront with him, right from her demand to not invite basus and sharmas to wedding to simple wedding, she always put her foot down with Bajaj , she talked to him, fought with him , accused him, blamed him (yes out of misunderstanding in veena's case and in the jail track) she judged him, she passed judgements (sent him to jail), understood him, for once when Bajaj was aloof and stopped talking to her she was restless and broke down saying you all have easy ways of letting out while she didn't, she poured her heart out about not be able to talk abt her feelings ..

countless times she told Bajaj that she loved and cared for Anurag and she cannot live without him and took multiple promises from him that he wouldn't harm Anurag... what was all that ?? isn't that communication and talking freely .. wonder if any wife will have this open communication with her husband where she can proclaim and claim her love for someone else and reiterate time and again .
Each time she met Anurag she talked or tried to talk to him,.. that's a diff point that Bajaj was uncomfortable with this subject... I wonder if Anurag can take this open communication from Prerna when she says something about Bajaj ... or if Prerna will be able to speak about Bajaj to Anurag with such frankness and openness ...

Bajaj on the other hand , never ever stopped her from talking except the instances where she wanted to talk about Anurag ...but that to he heard , he never judged her always heard her out to the extent .. "aap jaise chaahti waise hi hoga"

lack of Anurag and prerna's communication cannot be equated with communication between prerish , specially when both relations are not on same level

Momentary happiness and peace is nice, but life is not rosy tainted and glossy , the moment a storm hits, communication or lack of it comes in to play !

Edited by munnihyderabad - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: opsora2090

even before throwing a single party , he asked her permission .

True. RB didn't give a shit about Prerna at all but from the moment she became his wife he had started to treat her with utmost respect. And after he fell in love he wanted to be like Prerna in love , he didn't want to be Anurag ,he wanted to be Prerna.

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