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Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

I thought it was saroj only.

So i made a valid point that women need support to get out of marriage if they ever have too

I think women should be capable of paying their bills and rent before getting married. After that, they can quit if they want to but at least they would have had the experience of earning money and fending for themselves, instead of suddenly venturing out into the unknown world.

I had no money when I left, I had to start from scratch. It was tough.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Nah career or no career, I wouldn’t let go of a financial stability like this. There’s no guarantee to life. Kya pata kab jarurat pad jaye.

I don’t agree to her choice. Stupid choice hai yeh. Not practical.

I am just thinking about Minnie's higher education here.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think women should be capable of paying their bills and rent before getting married. After that, they can quit if they want to but at least they would have had the experience of earning money and fending for themselves, instead of suddenly venturing out into the unknown world.

I had no money when I left, I had to start from scratch. It was tough.

On point .

A women should be financially and emotionally stable before getting married.

I am sure it must have been .

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

I am a bit confused here . Although i feel being a housewife is fine then women loose their identity but i also feel a working mom puts up a great example for her kids and also financial stability makes a women independent and empowered.

I think it also depends on the set up.

In many households, the housewife gets a monthly allowance from her husband, almost like a salary which is entirely hers to keep. In other households there's no such thing.

I agree that being a working woman is a great example, and many women choose to work part time because they find it easier to manage home and work life. Others work full time as well as manage the house.

I guess different people want different things.

Originally posted by: tk2015

I wonder if same choice would ever be awarded to men. Be a house husband and leave your job. As the woman brings in all the money.

Is it really just her choice? Shouldn't ideally the onus fall on both partners to earn for the household?

I know a lot of things go into being a housewife. My mother is one. But I don't understand it as this point because Babes can hire help for the house. She doesn't have any kids to look after right now. HS goes to work and Minnie to college.

Also, will HS be expected to earn for all three of them? He didn't know of them a year ago. He obviously wouldn't have saved for a kid's higher education. Where will the money for whatever Mini wants to persue come from?

Ideally men should too.. career ko kitni importance drni hai should be an individuals choice even if it goes against the norns

In my opinion, if husband wants to stay at home, fine.. just make sure that you take care of the house like a wife would do.. ye nahi k biwi kamaye bhi or khilaye bhi.. some men aren't career oriented and that's completely fine in my opinion

As for Mini's studies, I don't know what Babita has planned for that and if she has any savings for the purpose like a fixed deposit or something.. and even if she sells her business, she can keep the money for Mini's education

Hanuman not knowing them a year ago hardly matters.. I mean isn't that how arrange marriages work?

Originally posted by: Resham

Wohi toh.... Kuch bhi.... Sab dekhke bhi nahi dekhte🤔... This chachi is such a wise woman... Loved her with mini in the end.... Angrezi🤣

Angrezi!

Speaking of which, you should watch this interview of the two revolver Dadi's and how they speak English.

https://youtu.be/7xBAbF5Nmhs?t=783

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

This episode has no scope of bashing anyone.. well except maybe Saroj

& Babita ..As she said I don't care🤣

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Well I am with HS here. Guy requested haath jodke.

Babita was right that pehli baar to kuchh maanga hai Hanuman ji ne.

Saroj kaha se har jagah ghus rahi hai. Iski zindagi ki problem kya hai.

2nd time in a row she has said.. dusri shadi hai. Koi galati mat karna n all that fear she is instilling in Babita. Ja yar Saroj. Dimag ka dahi. 😡

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Finally HS ka ego bhi dikh raha hai. I was tired of hearing Babita has ego blah blah blah. Glad cvs are focusing on HS’s ego too.

Let's see ...I don't think CVS have any such intention...And he specifically asked her 2 days..So ...

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Ideally men should too.. career ko kitni importance drni hai should be an individuals choice even if it goes against the norns

In my opinion, if husband wants to stay at home, fine.. just make sure that you take care of the house like a wife would do.. ye nahi k biwi kamaye bhi or khilaye bhi.. some men aren't career oriented and that's completely fine in my opinion

As for Mini's studies, I don't know what Babita has planned for that and if she has any savings for the purpose like a fixed deposit or something.. and even if she sells her business, she can keep the money for Mini's education

Hanuman not knowing them a year ago hardly matters.. I mean isn't that how arrange marriages work?

@bold correct. He will have to figure it out. When Minnie was in the hospital, he did pay for her expenses. Whether or not Babita paid him back later doesn't matter - he shelled up the money when it was needed. Now if he wants to be her father, bearing her expenses also comes into the picture.

I have always wondered why they never talked about finances. I hope this is brought up soon.

Also, Babita mentioned that HS' work was important so why should he leave it to come look after his Chachi?

I think men and women should be able to equally prioritize their careers if they want to. One shouldn't suffer for the other.