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Originally posted by: naq5

this pinku saroj have tried to force babita to continue her relationship with ashok inspite of what happened because they dint want to take up her responsibility for life

Oh yeah! I remember that.

So what does that mean? If Babita ever needs them again, will they support her or leave her on her own like last time?

Hopefully she won't ever need anyone again.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No offense but aren't you guys kind of looking down on housewives?😆

I don’t. My Mom is one. She was a working woman and gave that up for Me and My brother. Never regretted though.

Happy housewife. I have seen her toil all her life. still does. Brother’s gonna have working wife so once again, Mom will be making lunch box for bahu. 😆

but damm if Babita gives up the shop. Here I commute one hour one way to reach to work. Where I work as an employee. Aur yaha inko 2 min ki duri pe khada kiya huaa Khud ka business jane dena hai. Kyu? Karna hai ghar mein. No in-laws. Daughter is 18. Husband at work. And she likes cooking. There is no rationale here to give up This financial stability. It’s impractical!

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

No offense but aren't you guys kind of looking down on housewives?😆

No, there's nothing wrong with being a housewife as long as you keep your own identity and not because it's linked to your husband.

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

See didn't i tell you a lot of women cant back off coz they have no support from parents or family .( here pinku and saroj coz her parents are no more ) .

But didnt pinku want her to stay with him ? Problem waa from saroj only ?

No, even Pinku had issues. He wanted her to go back to the Khuranas.

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

Oh My God kya episode tha. Total episode 1-100 wala feel . Haha pehle toh the diary scene 😂😂😂 Mini ka rant about how she is annoyed with it was a 5 year old ranting (me loved it). The gift HS got her 😂😂😂So Mini told him about her diary (hmm why do I feel He or Babes might end up reading it) Chachiji was fun . I loved the chotu scene between her and HS. And the way Mini bonded with Chachiji was hayee.

I hope he reads her diary one day.

Looks like she's already becoming Chachi's laadli.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Otherwise a lighthearted episode after so long. I really like Mini today. This is the Mini that I wanna see. Not mahaan. She was annoyed at Chachi, understandably.

I didn’t like HS getting mad/annoyed when Mini talks about PB catering and storming off. But fine, I will give him a leeway, he has asking something for the first time from Babita. Thik hai.

I didn’t like Babita saying “I don’t care about PB”. Umm no, she’s going the wrong path.

Saroj needs to stop giving Babita her Gyaan on isse jane Mat dena blah blah blah. HS is not Ashok. He won’t leave her.

Precap: HMmmm! Let’s see tomorrow 😆

I like Minnie throwing tantrums like a normal kid.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, see I don't get this.

My mother never did this kind of seva. My father and his brothers used to look after my grandparents. They never asked or expected their wives to. We don't have such a concept in my family, even the extended one so this is really alien to me. 😕

that's a good thing jean...that ur dad did that...

See doing seva is not wrong but there are men who blames just like that if anything goes wrong.... Which is really bad...

My mom took care of my grand parents and my dad trusted her completely... But I have seen such men in our relatives who will. Blame instantly if their par nts fall sick...

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I don’t. My Mom is one. She was a working woman and gave that up for Me and My brother. Never regretted though.

Happy housewife. I have seen her toil all her life. still does. Brother’s gonna have working wife so once again, Mom will be making lunch box for bahu. 😆

but damm if Babita gives up the shop. Here I commute one hour one way to reach to work. Where I work as an employee. Aur yaha inko 2 min ki duri pe khada kiya huaa Khud ka business jane dena hai. Kyu? Karna hai ghar mein. No in-laws. Daughter is 18. Husband at work. And she likes cooking. There is no rationale here to give up This financial stability. It’s impractical!

It's not about rationality.. it's about choice.. it's about priorities.. it's about personal preference.. whether Babita wants to continue with PB, let go of it, take a step back from it, should be her choice

You commute because your work is important to you.. work or career might be of secondary importanxe to her and that's fine.. kia karehi? Jo uska Dil chahe for once in her life😆

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Hey not at all dear... Even housewife should not go to an extent to loose her identity...

Identity and individual is not only related to finances but also to the thoughts and the voice u have...the right to voice out ur feelings....

Babita agar housewife banna chahti hai to shouk se bane but not at the stake of PB bcoz its result of her struggle... Success ko book jao bit struggle to kabhi na....

@bold very well said!

Originally posted by: inlieu

No, even Pinku had issues. He wanted her to go back to the Khuranas.

I thought it was saroj only.

So i made a valid point that women need support to get out of marriage if they ever have too