Originally posted by: Jiarao
Thank you Jean . It hurts when people call him that. He has been trying to be a good husband and I can see him succeeding. We have Babitha now who is ok with him being father figure to Mini. Given time and some good suggestions , he will be a good father too. We are forgetting here, he never had a loving father or a child of his own. How do you become father of a teenager girl for whom you were more than father until now.?
Yes, he's being expected to go from 0 to 100 in a few days. Most people learn to raise children from when they are babies and grow with them too. He didn't get a chance to do that and now that he has a grown up girl to parent, he just doesn't have experience to know what to do.
Also, if it's ok for Babita to have desires as a woman and not worry 24/7 about being a parent, then why can't he have desires as a man who wants to spend time with his wife as a newlywed?
Why do the three of them have to rush to form bonds as if there were a deadline? Let things happen naturally.