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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL and kahaan people thought that MINI was the voice of the writers.....turns out it was BABITA who was their voice all along🤣

Lol.... Babitha toh writer ki aatma hi hai. 🤣
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

Unless all this is deliberate, which it doesn't seem like, it looks like they aren't doing as much homework on the writing as they used to. The attention to detail used to be sublime on this show and the screenplay used to be flawless, especially with continuity. Now it's almost non-existent.

The thing that used to stand out about PB ki writing was the long term attention to detail.....these days even though they try to throw in gyaan about tic tac toe, struggle to balance.....you can see that it's only for the moment, for the scene....overall, it doesn't infuse into the broad storyline....it's like you say something in one scene and then disperse back into randomness.....that's the major difference. Previously if any point was made, there were little crumbs about it dropped into various scenes....you could see the bigger picture forming in front of your eyes as it culminated into a high point/resolution.

But now there is none of that anymore....for reasons best known to the makers. Whether they are trying to make a point about how relationships need work or they are trying to show that some people and relationships are broken beyond repair/doomed to failure....we can't say. But in this dithering about what they really want to show, the characters have started lacking conviction.

This post shaadi track is really not working out well for them.....if this is their long term strategy for the next 2-3 months, they need to pause and recalibrate cuz it's not sustaining. Drama hi karna hai toh koi aur angle socho.....cuz they've made a royal mess of this one.

These days the script feels like typical shows where there is no long term strategy, it's just about getting through the week of episodes with some festival, some drama.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL you're still hoping? Aww that's sweet😆

Haha I have no expectations left from him on the Mini front....how will he notice Mini struggling with anything when he's so over obsessed with Babita? I don't know if anything can bring him out of this state.....he seems quite content and happy being Babita ka ghulam....she asks him to jump and he says how high😆

And wasn't there some BTS about how NB will talk to Babita about balancing relationships? lol so HS nahin, it seems it will be Babita who will try to restore balance in their lives🤔🤣....and the sun will rise from the west that day🤣

this cracked me up man.like seriously.

whats irritating is that he is being made into something he which is complete change from his pre marriage characterstics.

i dont think he wants to even come out of this zone !!

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

this cracked me up man.like seriously.

whats irritating is that he is being made into something he which is complete change from his pre marriage characterstics.

i dont think he wants to even come out of this zone !!

Exactly. He’s quite happy and content in this current zone with Babita. So why will he want to come out of it? 🤷‍♀️ He doesn’t feel anything is missing in his life. According to him toh the world begins and ends with Babita’s moods. Lol

He has changed, but I guess to him and Babita, this is a good change 🙄🤷‍♀️....baaki kiski padi hai.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL you're wishing for a friend's circle for her? Friends bhi she only made for convenience while running a business.

All she really wanted was pati ka sukh.....who needs friends when you have that? 😛

Horizons uske expand hote hain who WANTS them to be expanded.....not a woman who had her horizons expand already and STILL chooses to retreat into pati ka ghar only. As I said, empowerment really isn't for everyone. You can't get through to such women who want to stay in their 'safe spaces' as they see them.

Empowerment isn't self-evident to some people even after having tasted it. Since it's about choice at the end of the day, Babita has made her choice. So why "force" friends on her? 😛 You're making the same mistake as Mini then.....tch tch😛

LOL. Ok I won't say anything about her need to have friends.

Pati ka sukh... it's all fine, but wouldn't HS want her to be more than that after he spent all these months coaching her? Or has he given up too? I hate the way he looks resigned to his fate these days, as though the fight in him were gone.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL you're still hoping? Aww that's sweet😆

Haha I have no expectations left from him on the Mini front....how will he notice Mini struggling with anything when he's so over obsessed with Babita? I don't know if anything can bring him out of this state.....he seems quite content and happy being Babita ka ghulam....she asks him to jump and he says how high😆

And wasn't there some BTS about how NB will talk to Babita about balancing relationships? lol so HS nahin, it seems it will be Babita who will try to restore balance in their lives🤔🤣....and the sun will rise from the west that day🤣

Minnie ke liye HS baap se badh kar hai, aur ab Babita ke liye HS ghulam se badh kar hai.

Babita restoring balance? Nothing left to say.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL and kahaan people thought that MINI was the voice of the writers.....turns out it was BABITA who was their voice all along🤣

Ek aur dhoka?! 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The thing that used to stand out about PB ki writing was the long term attention to detail.....these days even though they try to throw in gyaan about tic tac toe, struggle to balance.....you can see that it's only for the moment, for the scene....overall, it doesn't infuse into the broad storyline....it's like you say something in one scene and then disperse back into randomness.....that's the major difference. Previously if any point was made, there were little crumbs about it dropped into various scenes....you could see the bigger picture forming in front of your eyes as it culminated into a high point/resolution.

But now there is none of that anymore....for reasons best known to the makers. Whether they are trying to make a point about how relationships need work or they are trying to show that some people and relationships are broken beyond repair/doomed to failure....we can't say. But in this dithering about what they really want to show, the characters have started lacking conviction.

This post shaadi track is really not working out well for them.....if this is their long term strategy for the next 2-3 months, they need to pause and recalibrate cuz it's not sustaining. Drama hi karna hai toh koi aur angle socho.....cuz they've made a royal mess of this one.

These days the script feels like typical shows where there is no long term strategy, it's just about getting through the week of episodes with some festival, some drama.

Yeah, it's all haphazard and we as the audience are getting tired of trying to build this jigsaw puzzle without any idea if all the pieces are even available.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

this cracked me up man.like seriously.

whats irritating is that he is being made into something he which is complete change from his pre marriage characterstics.

i dont think he wants to even come out of this zone !!

Forget that, I don't even think he knows he's in that zone. @Jiarao mentioned to Aniruddh on Twitter about not wanting to see HS being joru ka ghulam...

His answer: That's immense pleasure

Does that mean it's an immense pleasure for HS to be her ghulam or for Aniruddh to know that we don't want to see HS like that? LOL!

So all those months he kept saying Hanuman Singh to aapke hukum ka banda hai ji, is this is what he meant?

So he wanted her to propose, her to decide boundaries, her to figure out the status of their relationship back then. I thought it was him respecting her wishes but now it takes on a whole other meaning? Ugh...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. He’s quite happy and content in this current zone with Babita. So why will he want to come out of it? 🤷‍♀️ He doesn’t feel anything is missing in his life. According to him toh the world begins and ends with Babita’s moods. Lol

He has changed, but I guess to him and Babita, this is a good change 🙄🤷‍♀️....baaki kiski padi hai.

It is so completely the opposite of his character that it doesn't make sense. Impossible to digest. They shot themselves in the foot by doing this after all the effort they put into building him up as a straightforward, honest, disciplined feminist of sorts.

That seems like a distant memory.

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