Empowerment is not for everyone - Page 13

Originally posted by: naq5

has she ever stood up though for their love till now

Nope, but even if she does, it doesn't have to be at the expense of other things she loves, like her daughter or her career.

What she needs is a friend circle. Not just Poonam but making some other friends will help her expand her horizons, warna to Kammo aur Khatri ke beech pisti rahegi.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nope.

Lol how will she stand up when she tried to pretend for so long that she married for Mini? 🤷‍♀️😂

If someone confronts her, she either changes the topic or twists everything into accusing the person in front of her.

All she ever stood up for was wanting to live in the haveli before marriage cuz she said it’s her house. She never stood up for hers and HS’s relationship directly.

Now she has the label of shaadi so there is no “pressure” to stand up for anything. Lol

But conscience is not clear and that is why people like Kammo etc can bring her down. 🤷‍♀️

Yeah and the other day she said HS was accusing her. LOL!

Of course his comeback was excellent, that she couldn't say such things out of fear or lie when there was no one but the two of them there.

I know he's trying to be understanding, gave her the security of marriage, but at one point he's also going to want her to own up and be proud of their relationship. She's still hiding, and after this whole forgetting Minnie's birthday fiasco, I won't be surprised if she goes back to focusing too much on Minnie while ignore her work and HS. LOL!

I wish she would sort out Kammo once and for all.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL but Mini herself also was acting pretty normal the next morning na 🤷‍♀️....toh Ab akeli Babita ko kya bolein. The script is disjointed overall for all the characters now. They all got busy getting hyper for Navratri 🙄

Even the CD fiasco got more continuity than this in terms of reactions...you could feel the distance between them even as Mini tried to act normal and be polite.

But Yahaan it’s a total mess....I totally lost connect seeing how normally she was talking to HS in the scene when he was arranging plates for the party. Even the CD argument got some closure when she asked him to let go of his anger. But here, they directly jumped from him scolding her so much, her barely talking to him to all normal the next time they talk. Wow 🙄🤷‍♀️

It’s obvious they’ve lost the attention to detail they once had.

Unless all this is deliberate, which it doesn't seem like, it looks like they aren't doing as much homework on the writing as they used to. The attention to detail used to be sublime on this show and the screenplay used to be flawless, especially with continuity. Now it's almost non-existent.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah and the other day she said HS was accusing her. LOL!

Of course his comeback was excellent, that she couldn't say such things out of fear or lie when there was no one but the two of them there.

I know he's trying to be understanding, gave her the security of marriage, but at one point he's also going to want her to own up and be proud of their relationship. She's still hiding, and after this whole forgetting Minnie's birthday fiasco, I won't be surprised if she goes back to focusing too much on Minnie while ignore her work and HS. LOL!

I wish she would sort out Kammo once and for all.

I've stopped caring if she sorts out Kammo or not.

HS and Babita's relationship is hollow from the inside and the rot grows deeper daily....all his comebacks are pointless when he has lost overall perspective on relationships and life. He's fully immersed and obsessed in Babita now.

And if "standing up for her love" looks anything like that artificial speech she gave about how she wants to immerse herself in him, then please spare us. 🤔.....Everything about them reeks of immaturity and delusion these days.

We get it....she can't balance relationships....and by extension, she's also dragged HS down into the cesspool with her so that he can't balance relationships either. Awesome couple.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nope.

Lol how will she stand up when she tried to pretend for so long that she married for Mini? 🤷‍♀️😂

If someone confronts her, she either changes the topic or twists everything into accusing the person in front of her.

All she ever stood up for was wanting to live in the haveli before marriage cuz she said it’s her house. She never stood up for hers and HS’s relationship directly.

Now she has the label of shaadi so there is no “pressure” to stand up for anything. Lol

But conscience is not clear and that is why people like Kammo etc can bring her down. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I've stopped caring if she sorts out Kammo or not.

HS and Babita's relationship is hollow from the inside and the rot grows deeper daily....all his comebacks are pointless when he has lost overall perspective on relationships and life. He's fully immersed and obsessed in Babita now.

And if "standing up for her love" looks anything like that artificial speech she gave about how she wants to immerse herself in him, then please spare us. 🤔.....Everything about them reeks of immaturity and delusion these days.

We get it....she can't balance relationships....and by extension, she's also dragged HS down into the cesspool with her so that he can't balance relationships either. Awesome couple.

So is HS eternally going to be in this state because he's too soft on her, or will he come out of it at some point?

I was hoping that once he sees Minnie struggling the father in him (or whatever he's calling himself these days) will wake up and realize he has to restore balance in his life and everyone else's. The previous HS used to, this one I don't know...

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Lol ....Babitha is just like the writers. When people complain about storyline they twist everything and blame audience instead. 😆

This is gold. 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

Nope, but even if she does, it doesn't have to be at the expense of other things she loves, like her daughter or her career.

What she needs is a friend circle. Not just Poonam but making some other friends will help her expand her horizons, warna to Kammo aur Khatri ke beech pisti rahegi.

LOL you're wishing for a friend's circle for her? Friends bhi she only made for convenience while running a business.

All she really wanted was pati ka sukh.....who needs friends when you have that? 😛

Horizons uske expand hote hain who WANTS them to be expanded.....not a woman who had her horizons expand already and STILL chooses to retreat into pati ka ghar only. As I said, empowerment really isn't for everyone. You can't get through to such women who want to stay in their 'safe spaces' as they see them.

Empowerment isn't self-evident to some people even after having tasted it. Since it's about choice at the end of the day, Babita has made her choice. So why "force" friends on her? 😛 You're making the same mistake as Mini then.....tch tch😛

Originally posted by: inlieu

So is HS eternally going to be in this state because he's too soft on her, or will he come out of it at some point?

I was hoping that once he sees Minnie struggling the father in him (or whatever he's calling himself these days) will wake up and realize he has to restore balance in his life and everyone else's. The previous HS used to, this one I don't know...

LOL you're still hoping? Aww that's sweet😆

Haha I have no expectations left from him on the Mini front....how will he notice Mini struggling with anything when he's so over obsessed with Babita? I don't know if anything can bring him out of this state.....he seems quite content and happy being Babita ka ghulam....she asks him to jump and he says how high😆

And wasn't there some BTS about how NB will talk to Babita about balancing relationships? lol so HS nahin, it seems it will be Babita who will try to restore balance in their lives🤔🤣....and the sun will rise from the west that day🤣

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Lol ....Babitha is just like the writers. When people complain about storyline they twist everything and blame audience instead. 😆

LOL and kahaan people thought that MINI was the voice of the writers.....turns out it was BABITA who was their voice all along🤣