Empowerment is not for everyone - Page 15

Originally posted by: inlieu

Forget that, I don't even think he knows he's in that zone. @Jiarao mentioned to Aniruddh on Twitter about not wanting to see HS being joru ka ghulam...

His answer: That's immense pleasure

Does that mean it's an immense pleasure for HS to be her ghulam or for Aniruddh to know that we don't want to see HS like that? LOL!

So all those months he kept saying Hanuman Singh to aapke hukum ka banda hai ji, is this is what he meant?

So he wanted her to propose, her to decide boundaries, her to figure out the status of their relationship back then. I thought it was him respecting her wishes but now it takes on a whole other meaning? Ugh...

bold-Even I didnt understand what he meant.

As i said earlier he has become a love stuck puppy.jo babita bolegi wahi karega.

and i am deeply annoyed for promoting "dependending on spouse is ok " concept. I feel everyone especially women should work snd have indiviaduality.

@bold-true !! on point

Originally posted by: inlieu

Forget that, I don't even think he knows he's in that zone. @Jiarao mentioned to Aniruddh on Twitter about not wanting to see HS being joru ka ghulam...

His answer: That's immense pleasure

1.Does that mean it's an immense pleasure for HS to be her ghulam or for Aniruddh to know that we don't want to see HS like that? LOL!

So all those months he kept saying Hanuman Singh to aapke hukum ka banda hai ji, is this is what he meant?

2.So he wanted her to propose, her to decide boundaries, her to figure out the status of their relationship back then. I thought it was him respecting her wishes but now it takes on a whole other meaning? Ugh...

2. If his declaring himself Minnie's father can take on other meaning then everything he has done/said so far definitely takes on other meaning .

Originally posted by: Jiarao

1. I think he meant it was a pleasure for him to know audience doesn't want to see joru ka gulam HS.

2. If his declaring himself Minnie's father can take on other meaning then everything he has done/said so far definitely takes on other meaning .

1. I would think so too

2. If that's true then the CVs have led us on from day 1.

Originally posted by: inlieu

1. I would think so too

2. If that's true then the CVs have led us on from day 1.

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

bold-Even I didnt understand what he meant.

As i said earlier he has become a love stuck puppy.jo babita bolegi wahi karega.

and i am deeply annoyed for promoting "dependending on spouse is ok " concept. I feel everyone especially women should work snd have indiviaduality.

@bold-true !! on point

Yes, I feel very uncomfortable at the thought that the next 100 episodes are going to undo everything the PB team has worked towards from the beginning. What kind of message does that send?

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Yes . This whole show seems to be a beautiful lie which lead us to believe there can be men like HS who really believe in gender equality and who are capable of giving love despite always losing loved ones.

Not only that, I was rooting for Babita and Minnie to really make something new of their lives but don't see that happening.

Originally posted by: inlieu

LOL. Ok I won't say anything about her need to have friends.

Pati ka sukh... it's all fine, but wouldn't HS want her to be more than that after he spent all these months coaching her? Or has he given up too? I hate the way he looks resigned to his fate these days, as though the fight in him were gone.

LOL we thought he wanted her to be more as a means of being self-sufficient and strong in of herself.

Now it turns out that all he really wanted was for her to be happy....and she is quite happy now in her "pati ka sukh" bubble....so why will he think of anything else? His objective is achieved....she is happy....kaafi hai for him.

We were wrong in thinking all this time that he was trying to help her become the best version of herself....itni responsibility nahin chahiye thi HS ko.....lol all he wanted was for her to be happy...which she is now in this mirage they've built as of now.....lol so aage kya sochna. We thought he was wise and saw the bigger picture in life.....turns out, short term gains are enough for him now.....lol

Originally posted by: inlieu

It is so completely the opposite of his character that it doesn't make sense. Impossible to digest. They shot themselves in the foot by doing this after all the effort they put into building him up as a straightforward, honest, disciplined feminist of sorts.

That seems like a distant memory.

I guess he is still a feminist....they haven't shown anything that points to him wanting to subjugate women. He still leaves things to Babita's choice....

Woh aur baat hai that she makes bad choices, bad decisions and he blindly supports her now instead of trying to help her see the bigger picture😕😆.....previous HS had the objectivity to not let her steamroll him with her tantrums and he stood up to her talking nonsense.....this HS is a besotted fool.....he's lost the capacity to think beyond her.

Being a feminist shouldn't mean ki blindly follow everything a woman asks you to do😕

The core problem remains that this relationship is severely imbalanced but sadly neither HS nor Babita seem to get it nor want to do anything about it....."marital bliss" mil gaya toh aage nahin sochna.....lol

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, I feel very uncomfortable at the thought that the next 100 episodes are going to undo everything the PB team has worked towards from the beginning. What kind of message does that send?

The only possible message that can come out of this is to know yourself and clearly think through your reasoning for why you want to marry someone.....don't rush into it for the "pati ka sukh" or "patni ka sukh" fundas.

First marriage ho ya second marriage....think through this stuff. Too many people get married simply to get a token companion.....if you don't really take time to know the person you've married and WHY you've married them, it will create more problems inevitably. Ofcourse, you can never know a person fully....lifetime journey lag jaati hai to know someone....but you still need to be clear about your reasonings upfront rather than making sweeping presumptions.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL we thought he wanted her to be more as a means of being self-sufficient and strong in of herself.

Now it turns out that all he really wanted was for her to be happy....and she is quite happy now in her "pati ka sukh" bubble....so why will he think of anything else? His objective is achieved....she is happy....kaafi hai for him.

We were wrong in thinking all this time that he was trying to help her become the best version of herself....itni responsibility nahin chahiye thi HS ko.....lol all he wanted was for her to be happy...which she is now in this mirage they've built as of now.....lol so aage kya sochna. We thought he was wise and saw the bigger picture in life.....turns out, short term gains are enough for him now.....lol

We thought a lot of things and rightly so, because the CVs made us.

I see what you mean about him wanting her to be happy, but at some point they will both realize it's not enough to keep things at a superficial level. Hope it's not too late.