Proof of Family - Page 3

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Isn't this what HS said today? Not to weigh his love for Minnie and his love for her together? Or did I read that scene wrong?

Hanita and Hannie always worked best in parallel for me. He had equally important relationships with the two but they always existed independently of one another. Given the kind of moments they shared, it made sense for HS to care and love Minnie more than Babita. Albeit slowly, I had always hoped that Babita will rise to the equation and that they would fall madly and deeply in love with each other. Now I feel like a fool for ever wishing that or ever wanting Hanita to be together. My heart breaks for a Babita that could have been.

What HS said to Babita today was not to weigh his love for Mini and the expectation of him being a father together......The dialogues were not very clear regarding whether he feels his love for Mini was being weighed against his love for Babita.

What he did say pretty clearly was that he only accepted the father label to assure Babita.....and his long story narration of his feelings for Babita had no mention of Mini in it anywhere....so that did seem to indicate that it was Babita first for him.....contrary to his claims of Mini being first for him as per the hospital scene.

The writers have swung the pendulum the other way now....from showing both HS and Babita claiming (falsely) that they only married each other for Mini's sake, they now want to show that HS-Babita were obsessed with each other first and Mini was a side accompaniment😕

I used to praise the show once for managing both the HM and HB bonds so beautifully in parallel.....they proved me wrong ultimately.....lol.....balance is long gone....all they do is butcher HS day by day.....basically undoing everything we grew to love about him and the way he handled both Mini and Babita.

Also, can someone tell me why they still kept Mini between them while proposing? 🤔....Babita proposed to him with the image of a family portrait of all three of them.....HS proposed to her by asking MINI if her mom will marry him.

Now it turns out ki Mini toh bas side piece thi? LOL toh why so much tamasha of doing everything through her? Were HS and Babita both doing this to just put on a show of how much they both prioritized Mini but that wasn't really what they felt? 😕

*Edit: I went back and rewatched the proposal scene.....now HS staring at Babita while hugging Mini has taken on a whole other meaning in light of today's epi😕

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

This surprised me the most. Just because people were tuning in, it doesn't mean that people accepted the conflicts with open arms. In fact, they hated all the drama that was needlessly being created.

KK can not take healthy criticism, I think the EGO word suits them most than Babita..... LOL

Yeh log koi aur hi log the.....sigh

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Also, can someone tell me why they still kept Mini between them while proposing? 🤔....Babita proposed to him with the image of a family portrait of all three of them.....HS proposed to her by asking MINI if her mom will marry him.

Now it turns out ki Mini toh bas side piece thi? LOL toh why so much tamasha of doing everything through her? Were HS and Babita both doing this to just put on a show of how much they both prioritized Mini but that wasn't really what they felt? 😕

*Edit: I went back and rewatched the proposal scene.....now HS staring at Babita while hugging Mini has taken on a whole other meaning in light of today's epi😕

Loll, they had to prove Minnie's words about showing her false dreams and expectations somehow. 🤔

All their scenes have now become cheap. I refuse to believe that was all some sort of elaborate act, especially from HS' side. I can't even describe the kind of disgust that I am feeling right now. EVERYTHING has been cheapened to such an ugly manner, it's not even funny.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, they had to prove Minnie's words about showing her false dreams and expectations somehow. 🤔

All their scenes have now become cheap. I refuse to believe that was all some sort of elaborate act, especially from HS' side. I can't even describe the kind of disgust that I am feeling right now. EVERYTHING has been cheapened to such an ugly manner, it's not even funny.

Ughhhhh😵😵😔.....so friggin contrived, man.....why couldn't they just show it as a misunderstanding on Mini's part? Instead they want to prove not just Mini's but all OUR perceptions of the past wrong too? 😕

They want to ruin the show aage, fine......but why ruin our memories of the past 200 epis of a beautiful story? ....I can't deal with this awful feeling....I've had so much emotional attachment to all those scenes....ab kaise rewatch karungi?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ughhhhh😵😵😔.....so friggin contrived, man.....why couldn't they just show it as a misunderstanding on Mini's part? Instead they want to prove not just Mini's but all OUR perceptions of the past wrong too? 😕

They want to ruin the show aage, fine......but why ruin our memories of the past 200 epis of a beautiful story? ....I can't deal with this awful feeling....I've had so much emotional attachment to all those scenes....ab kaise rewatch karungi?

Loll, it goes back to them always proving Minnie right no matter which character or relationship they have to sacrifice. Kuch bhi ho jaye, par Minnie galat sabat ni ho sakti.

I'm going to become selective in what I choose to be canon in this show. I don't care that it doesn't negate what actually happens, but at least my viewing experience could be made better.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, it goes back to them always proving Minnie right no matter which character or relationship they have to sacrifice. Kuch bhi ho jaye, par Minnie galat sabat ni ho sakti.

I'm going to become selective in what I choose to be canon in this show. I don't care that it doesn't negate what actually happens, but at least my viewing experience could be made better.

THIS 🙌

It is essentially to prove that Mini is right in whatever she’s feeling regarding Babita and HS. What do they wanna prove with this? That people should never marry for the 2nd time... so much for 2nd chance in life and love and all the BS they kept harping in the fb live chat aghhh 🙄

And they wanna bring a baby in all this mess. How will they salvage the mess they have created between the three 🤔

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

And they wanna bring a baby in all this mess. How will they salvage the mess they have created between the three 🤔

You don't know? Two things are the remedy to everything in desi society.....1) Shaadi....and 2) Baccha

Shaadi se toh TRP achieve kar hi li PB ne by catering to TRP junta ka lowe for shaadis.....ab baccha bhi kar denge.....GRAHASTI set = TRP aunties khush😛