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Originally posted by: deepzz

I told them elderly because when this discussion happened in my life, I was too young like 12, my relatives were in 35/40. Everyone treated them like elder women.But it in today's times, as u said women doesn't become elderly at certain age group and this we know and accept because we see it happening now in our movies, serials, even in our day to day life too. This was not the case earlier where it was just ramayana and Mahabharata on TV, no internet. We hardly had cases where women would be doing anything for herself with her own choice and if they come across any such woman even in newspaper (ex:Indira Gandhi) they would be in awe of her but rarely would follow their footsteps thinking such steps are better for bade log and not for common people.

So u were narrating a childhood incident ....so it's fine ... Ya I know things have changed a lot.

Originally posted by: naq5

i feel it was still her love . she was actually happy HS calling her daughter. The Cd thing has shook her not the fact that he doubted her but that HS needed proof to trust her. Dint speak to her for 2 days about it. These both need ashok to come back into their lives

Moreover, she was never asked to do the gher pravesh till the CD resurfaced. What was she supposed to feel? That the trust was so shaky that she couldn't consider the haveli her home till the misunderstandings cleared?

@bold : can you please explain what this means?

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

But Babita was never consulted.. she did voice her concerns to Hanuman in private but he was dismissive

It was later when she noticed Micky and Mini's closeness that she again became hyper..

Hanuman was wrong to allow a guy friend to stay without consulting his wife.. that's not how it goes in any household, much less in a conservative one

And What kind of parent has Babita not been to Mini? Babita always trusted her previously.. whether it was the college fiasco or the CD one.. Babita never needed proofs to be assured that her daughter is right.. If she was doubtful this time, it was because she was uncomfortable with the antics of the duo.. and let's not forget Mini has already betrayed Babita's trust by meeting Micky in the night climbing down the railing.. the only difference is that Babita does not know that

A lot of kids are unable to follow their dreams due to financial constraints.. I had to work through inter to make sure I become a doctor.. does that mean I had a bad mother? No.. it just meant you have to face hurdles in life and overcome them to achieve your dreams.. Mini wants Babita to value her sacrifice, a sacrifice she doe not even know about and not tell her when she thinks Mini is going wrong? Is that what a parent does

I agree do you want to be Meeta was way over the line but mini herself has crossed the line way too much

@ bold they just sat infront of house and ate chocolate . they dint cross any boundaries. mickey was trying to cheer her up because babes went to naimbis house. And i think they have not crossed boundaries now too. Mini needs mickey as a friend now more than ever

HS dint ask babita about it but once he said yes he couldnt have asked him to leave right. So it was wrong on babitas part to create a scene to make mickey to leave. It was a matter of 2-3 days and she could have told HS not to keep over anyone next time. These are certain basic manners.

Originally posted by: tk2015

Moreover, she was never asked to do the gher pravesh till the CD resurfaced. What was she supposed to feel? That the trust was so shaky that she couldn't consider the haveli her home till the misunderstandings cleared?

@bold : can you please explain what this means?

Maybe him coming and exerting rights over mini will make HS step up also mini will realise she wants HS in her life as father and not ashok.

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold they just sat infront of house and ate chocolate . they dint cross any boundaries. mickey was trying to cheer her up because babes went to naimbis house. And i think they have not crossed boundaries now too. Mini needs mickey as a friend now more than ever

HS dint ask babita about it but once he said yes he couldnt have asked him to leave right. So it was wrong on babitas part to create a scene to make mickey to leave. It was a matter of 2-3 days and she could have told HS not to keep over anyone next time. These are certain basic manners.

Stepping out of the house without your parents knowing it in the middle of the night is betraying trust.. and Mini knew what she did was wrong which is why she didn't tell Hanuman the truth.. it's not necessary that boundaries have to be crossed for breaking trust.. it's more about knowing what your parents allow and moght have problem with and Respecting their wishes..

Mini can be the best friend Mini had but at decent hours and not without the knowly of elders.. and this was not the first time Micky came in the middle of night..

Babita lost control with her outburst.. her intention at that point was not to drive Micky out of the house.. it was an outburst that stmed from frustration and thus was out of the Line..

and I never said that was right..however, it was wrong of Mini and Hanuman to put her in that position too...

Originally posted by: naq5

they dint have a track i guess . so make HS mini go back on their relationship to get a track . All 200 episodes were a mirage . they dint need HS to tell that he called mini his daughter only to pacify babita because the past episodes show that is not the truth

someone pls tweet them the hospital scene and ask for whom did HS call mini his daughter then

I mean the consent form scene was the biggest proof.

Originally posted by: naq5

i feel it was still her love . she was actually happy HS calling her daughter. The Cd thing has shook her not the fact that he doubted her but that HS needed proof to trust her. Dint speak to her for 2 days about it. These both need ashok to come back into their lives

Yeah seriously. If Ashok comes back, they will remember why they love each other in the first place and what a father-daughter relationship is.

If asking for apology from Hanuman was Babita's ego, I am gonna say that Mininog being satisfied with Hanuman's apology is her ego😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly. They messed up big time.

I think we all unanimously agree that writers have messed up big time with the plot. They butchered all three characters. Idk how they will salvage now. At least SM ke comments padhke samajh jate that people aren’t buying the crap they have shown recently 🙄.

Oh yeah, on social media they are getting bashed a lot, especially the PH, and then people are also adding that what's the point of telling the PH anything when they will just get blocked or ignored.

Originally posted by: naq5

Maybe him coming and exerting rights over mini will make HS step up also mini will realise she wants HS in her life as father and not ashok.

Who knows? One day Minnie might forgive Ashok too and go live with him. He's a Khurana too, like her.