Illusions - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 7 - Page 31

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

biological father itna nahi kar paate jitna hs ne maa beti ke liye kiya and that too without expectation, though hs was always attracted to babita, whatever he did for mini was dil se. If now writers are showing something else then they are struck with amnesia😆

This is what pissed me off. Minnie in her thought process will also ruin her project.

It's a shame she's taken on so much like Babita.

As for amnesia, woh to hai.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i felt at that time she was paying back for always being there for them no matter what. so in a way she tried to repay his debt.

That's what it looks like to me now.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

after all this drama and mistrust from mother daughter and irritating khuranas in the house, i wonder how come hs is still stable and level headed😆 anyone else would have shouted "suicide" like veeru of the movie sholay😆

He has way too much patience and love in his heart.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But all in all, HS did say that he claimed to be Mini’s father for Babita’s khushi and to reassure her. Why would he say that? 😕

i always felt it was for mini to reassure her that he wants to move on with her mother and loves her. remember in the morning that day mini was angry asking him if imarti occupies his heart where will her babes go and why did hes give her false hopes. so i felt he did it to reassure mini. babita wasnt even asking for any reassurance then. Abi ye babita ko us din reassure karna kahase aa gaya i dont know Do cvs remember what they have shown and what preceded that

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly what I feel. They're all feeling so isolated and frustrated. Kaise samjhenge ek dusre ko?

When we are frustrated with each other, we stop talking. We come out each other's zones and then wait till we find our way back. Why can't they do this? Mat baat karo abhi. Phir jab akelapann lage then start talking and solving issues.

I think this is what will happen to Babita - hence feather action, but later on to Minnie. She will miss him.

Originally posted by: naq5

its babitas character she dosent trust anybody. This whole ma beti relation is flawed from beginning with mini being the one supporting babita. But mini expects better from HS. He expects him to understand her, be the parent Babita never was. If not even a parent she expects him to be her hero her mentor.

the fact that he needed proof to trust her is big. And her question is valid would he have continued mistrusting her if the proof had not come. 2 days he dint bother to sit down and ask her about what happened. why was he preoccupied with babita where as mini was the one who first needed attention. Heck he was so exited going for honeymoon also without sorting it out with mini. why on earth HS the one who kept mini first would be so exited for HM without speaking to mini about CD issue. i dont believe he would have spoken to her had the proofs not come in.

I dont understand HS if he is the father of the house then ultimatums should not only be for mini should be for babita also. Babita cant just call mini the other woman and get away with it. If mini is being given ultimatums for staying in the house to not argue with her mother the babita must also be made to understand that she cannot lash out at mini like this and expect her to break friendships because she dosent want to hear taunts. It has to be two way cannot be one way.

Agree, I would love for him to give a dose of his strictness to Babita. Soft approach doesn't work with her.

Originally posted by: naq5

no it was her love. she was so upset about her hero being called a murderer. She wanted to trust him look up to him and HS was telling he is guilty. it broke her. it was her love and respect for him that he trusted him. not return of an ehsaan.

Back then I thought it was her love too, but now it looks like repaying his ehsaan. They have messed this up big time.

Originally posted by: naq5

i always felt it was for mini to reassure her that he wants to move on with her mother and loves her. remember in the morning that day mini was angry asking him if imarti occupies his heart where will her babes go and why did hes how her false hopes. so i felt he did it to reassure mini. babita wasnt even asking for any reassurance then. Abi ye babita ko us din reassure karna kahase aa gaya i dont know Do cvs remember what they have shown and what preceded that

That’s what I am saying. Babita wasn’t looking for any sort of reassurance then. She toh was confused with his behavior the night before when they had the argument. So kahan se Babita ne reassurance magha. It could be to reassure Mini. Thik hai but HS wasn’t clear about it then.

Also, why are we forgetting that HS admitted that he did all that just for Babita. I mean really? So what was all that conversation with NB that he wants to have rishta with Mini, doesn’t necessarily mean he needs to with her mother. How was he doing this to reassure Babita or for Babita? WTF. This is beyond me 🙄

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

That’s what I am saying. Babita wasn’t looking for any sort of reassurance then. She toh was confused with his behavior the night before when they had the argument. So kahan se Babita ne reassurance magha. It could be to reassure Mini. Thik hai but HS wasn’t clear about it then.

Also, why are we forgetting that HS admitted that he did all that just for Babita. I mean really? So what was all that conversation with NB that he wants to have rishta with Mini, doesn’t necessarily mean he needs to with her mother. How was he doing this to reassure Babita or for Babita? WTF. This is beyond me 🙄

Messed up writing...I wasn't convinced at all yesterday. BP badh gaya ye baat sun kar.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Agree with u on everything but one point women don't become elderly woman in certain age group u mentioned above.For example Jennifer winget or Hina khan or rashmi Desai many more examples I can give. In today's times it's appropriate time to get in relationship.In case of babita its more like Sweta Tiwari case or urvashi case who got their child at 18 I guess. That's how both of those actresses as on today are parents of teenagers. Similarly I think even ur mom falls in similar category . Now Karanvir bohra is elder to Sweta Tiwari but got babies at right time so today he is father of two year olds. It's important what background one is born for example babita s parents never looked into her career. Innitailly people thought process were like their child gets periods so look out for relationship.

I told them elderly because when this discussion happened in my life, I was too young like 12, my relatives were in 35/40. Everyone treated them like elder women.But it in today's times, as u said women doesn't become elderly at certain age group and this we know and accept because we see it happening now in our movies, serials, even in our day to day life too. This was not the case earlier where it was just ramayana and Mahabharata on TV, no internet. We hardly had cases where women would be doing anything for herself with her own choice and if they come across any such woman even in newspaper (ex:Indira Gandhi) they would be in awe of her but rarely would follow their footsteps thinking such steps are better for bade log and not for common people.