Illusions - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 7 - Page 18

Originally posted by: kriya_12

offcourse the whole grand wedding thing was futile .

this should hv been hanita's thing , them truly understanding what they r getting into , realizing from their experiences & what truly matter to them .

Originally posted by: najma123

Shit happens. I realised after writing the previous post, that last year, I behaved super irrationally with my Dad, I wasn't wrong. But mass overreaction for 2-3 months. Yelled at him, took small things seriously, blamed him and stuff, and idk at some point my head got cleared on its own. 😆 And, I am not a teenager. So, this is one of those times when everyone in that house is confused, and everyone is jumping the gun.

it happens , currently all of them r emotionally exhausted .

On this note, I remember this old serial called Jyoti on Imagine, idk if you guys watched or have even heard. Though the premise was different, the girl's second husband accepted her kid instantly, the kid was small, but he was a model hero back in the day, and said, I love everything that is about you, and since she's a part of you, I can't not love her as my own kid, Yes of course, in the beginning he used to say it is my duty, to be her father, but later he did love her. Also, in that, the wife did not expect him to immediately accept her as HIS own daughter, but she knew he'd never reject her daughter. Idk why I remembered this. Maybe coz Babita's expectation that HS become a father, is too much. However, was the grahpravesh and all a ploy to appease Babita? Coz that is just sad.

Originally posted by: najma123

I read the Page 7 update. Anyway that's fine. This show is still like a million times better than other stuff, I understand watching it regularly can take a toll on people, but someone had posted about CVs. At least this show has CVs! 😆 There are some others that are shit. And making a show that is realistic can get hard, coz interpretations are MANY. Writers find it hard to reach a consensus, Realism + Mass audience + Interpretation + continuity can get difficult. And I am amazed that these CVs managed to do that. 👏 It might be frustrating, but that's only coz it makes them human. I can see how everyone's got their own perspective. Even my own. For no other show, have I related my personal life to it. Here, I can relate these things to my own life. How my equation is with my parents, what my parents would do in such a situation. Am I allowed to raise my voice at my mother? Do they apologise to me, are questions worth asking myself at times.

Today i really loved the episode after a long time and felt more related to real life rather than what was going on in earlier episodes.

Originally posted by: naq5

so mini was not wrong when she spoke about guilt. we just dint know the reason why she said guilt for loving HS but today HS did clear why the guilt was for

Originally posted by: najma123

I think these two sort of rushed with the wedding itself. They could have gotten engaged to see how it goes. That's what an engagement is for. To see, how their equations changed. Life does change for a daughter when a man comes into the mother's life. Would be the same for the mother as well, if a man entered the daughter's life. But, parents expect their kids to have life partners, so the eventuality is not out of the blue. But for kids, knowing they are not the only ones in their parents' lives takes some getting used to. Parents have their own desires and wants too. But sometimes, they devote their lives wholly to their kids! It isn't wrong to be otherwise. Here, Mini is grown up. Babita is independent now. Mini should have focused more on her life, become more independent, focused less on Babita's life. Then HS and the marriage wouldn't have been this severe. Suddenly, you can't have your mother sleeping elsewhere, or your uncle wanting to be with her alone. Could have happened during the engagement period.

minni was too much into them a fact !

they both needed to talk & decide , getting to reality...also choosing the smarter ways for themselves at the same time trying to put sense into minni as well . minni's involvement was highly because they were unable to help themselves or so she thought . but during the marriage things were changed in a deliberate way to cause the friction , now so many inconsistencies cropping up that day by day it is becoming tough for the viewers to keep up with the frustration .

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

in most of the asian countries women have always been made to feel guilty for falling in love. No matter what the age is. I am in my early 40's. And i have seen how women have been treated for falling in love. You were made to feel as if you have commited a grave crime.

another sad thing , they will never let u be unless u stop urself from getting affected by them .

Originally posted by: kriya_12

another sad thing , they will never let u be unless u stop urself from getting affected by them .

Originally posted by: najma123

On this note, I remember this old serial called Jyoti on Imagine, idk if you guys watched or have even heard. Though the premise was different, the girl's second husband accepted her kid instantly, the kid was small, but he was a model hero back in the day, and said, I love everything that is about you, and since she's a part of you, I can't not love her as my own kid, Yes of course, in the beginning he used to say it is my duty, to be her father, but later he did love her. Also, in that, the wife did not expect him to immediately accept her as HIS own daughter, but she knew he'd never reject her daughter. Idk why I remembered this. Maybe coz Babita's expectation that HS become a father, is too much. However, was the grahpravesh and all a ploy to appease Babita? Coz that is just sad.

i hv not watched it but i know there was a show .

well here in this show , they continue to make same mistakes .

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I liked the episode. All 3 of them.

So Kammo said 2 things..

1. dosti dosti ka swang rachakar.. khel khel rahe the Hanuman And Babita. (Something along the lines)

2. Gaay ko kabu mein karne ke liye.. bachhde ko kabu mein karna padta hai.

Now HS said their truth is they were always attracted. True. May be surface level but attraction was always there.

From Babita’s side May be after divorce coz until then she had so much going on.
After divorce - when she left the job, she came to HS and asked him - is he disappointed in her? She was sorry to let him down. Bhai aap landlord ko let down kiya aisa kyu sochoge?

Even though Babita denied having any attraction, her denial was so downer. No energy wala. Naa bolne khatir naa bola. There was no vajan. felt like she was done running away from it!


so yeah HS is right about feelings being there.

He agreed that Kammo’s words were partially right. He was pointing towards point 1.

Babes mind ran with point 2. Kammo’s words about gaay and bachhda analogy.

And her worst fear stood in front of her eyes.

Mini’s trust being broken is totally understandable. Her feeling suffocated in the house. Not feeling it’s her home. This is 17 years old. At that age, this type of thinking - pretty normal. I could totally see where she is coming from. She is bit stubborn though. She never fully reflect on her own mistakes. And she is always sure that how she deducts the situation, how she concludes - is the final deal. Well that’s not how it is. Long life ahead so hopefully she will learn!

I liked Precap. After Hospital track when HS was telling Mini about her anger, he told her - ghar ke bahaar khada kar dunga.

My house had the same rule growing up. Never raise your voice on Mom or disrespect her. My father wouldn’t take it. All other things we had all the freedom in the world. But not shout at Mumma. Even if she is wrong. Nope! So I can understand where HS is coming from. True to his character.

Let’s see how 3 of them find their way to each other. I am hoping by Diwali. I really wanna see some nice happy celebrations in the Haveli. Please writers 🙏

Exactly Babita just skipped to the 2nd point.Maybe HS was not even talking about point 2. And now she has snapped at hs and created more problems