Mahaan Mishti......

Not yet watched today's episode

Just saw few post about mishti on high pedestal and mahaan mishti so just writing my pov

If mishti is mahaan, what's wrong in being mahaan, isn't mahaan is a word for some very nice and Legend people, if mishti is mahaan, so let it be. Her mahaanta is affecting other people life so others selfishness and not so mahaan self is also affecting her life. If all can RELATE to them then why not mishti, atleast she's relatable in a good way. And if people can't then let it be no one is forcing them.

If people don't want to watch mahaan character in the show ,then yrhpk has given you bunch of other characters with some very different traits

Criminal

Selfish

Bullys

Offenders

Judgemental

Delusional

The REAL traits listed above, people could enjoy them but don't justify their action by blaming mahaan characters, because mahaan characters actually have some valid reason to blame relatable characters

It’s ok to be Mahaan as long as you are ready to face the consequence of your actions instead of acting like a victim .

The issue with Mishti is she is not consistent ...sometimes she acts Mahaan when it suits her and other time blames others for her foolishness .

Originally posted by: yyyy

It’s ok to be Mahaan as long as you are ready to fav the consequence of your actions instead of acting like a victim .

The issue with Mishti is she is not consistent ...sometimes she acts Mahaan when it suits her and other time blames others for her foolishness .

Exactly my point

First she knew and wantedly never wanted herself to separate from abir or never given up on her love as fan claims she even said when was going to Mumbai main aaungi

So according to mishti menu fulfilled her promise and she knows her relationship with abir can create problem for kuku then why not actually left or done breakup forever

In a way she deceived menu and even after knowing kuku would have problem not disclosed about her love before marriage despite her dialogue that if ur love is this weak that it can break due to ur sister love then better its break

She knew somewhat as in her dream she imagined kunal leaving kuhu so she was having idea that kunal can do this then why not talk sense but she wanted to please kuhu she even got a dialogue after haldi fiasco kuhu if u will ever understand that what and why I have done it hope one day u realise

Then she was waiting for miracle

Anyway list just goes on

I am not blaming mishti for kuku problem but I will never even blame kuku for mishbir

As both r where r due to themselves only and only

Abir first arranged mishkun and in his love for mishti sometime used to do biased and desperate thing and result is today

Mishti always worry about other and trying to please others thinking everyone will understand her sacrifices and start valueing her and result is today

Kuhu always blaming mishti and falling for sports car and playing victim card despite having awesome family searching happiness in someone else and even not valueing ur mother in the process and result is today

Kunal no comments but his ego

Anyway if kuku extra selfishness cause problem then mishbir extra selflessness and everyone has to agree excess of everything is bad

And one thing is fact that u can't be totally selfless in ur mind u will think about itself abir was in hurry but not totally but was in hurry for kuku first he wanted chutkara from kunal babysitting he thought if kunal will marry then he will have less reposiblity and secondly wanted kunal to desperately fall in love so that he forget mishti(hate) and wanted things can get sorted out between families

And mishti confused wanted abir in her real mind but wanted acknowledgement from the adopted family and especially kuhu and gone tyaag mode imagining bp heart attack just illogical imaginqtion

@adni143 Well said !!

Mishti gets away with lot of things and her share of blame falls on others .

The one thing i blame Mishti for is keeping Kuhu in dark about her MIl and husband’s truth .She did no favor to Kuhu like she claims instead deceived her by not disclosing the truth .

Abir keeps saying No one can separate two people if the relationship is strong .If that was the case why doesn’t he confront Mishti for getting blackmailed by Meenu .If their relationship was strong Mishti would have talked to Abir about it . The whole Mumbai drama was beyond my understanding.If she had to stay back then why did she insult her whole family a day before .

So mishti pretends to be mahaan is the conclusion of whole MUMBAI drama track.

She knew the consequence of her haldi drama thing and but she was wrong. She thought abir, bp and bm will not trust her but they trusted her, bp and bm trusted their daughter ,they knew their daughter could never do that, abir trusted her despite her creating drama in kunal's shaadi because he also knew her. According to all it was her mahaanta but according to her she has no other choice, though she was wrong she had choice but she didn't have that guts that time.

She never wanted to leave Raajkot and her family but again for kuku's shaadi she left . She came back but still waited until the end of ceremony so that kuku's marriage could happen without any chaos. She wanted abir to come when she was leaving, meenu ne usse kaha tha ki if she insults her family then only kunal's marraige will happen with kuhu she assumed mahs will throw mishti out but to be sure she herself went to mahs house to put forth the condition in front of them.

Why to generalize mishti , she's a human too. FL don't need to be only in one character mahaan or selfish , good or bad, honest or not

They differ from person to person, MishBir has their own flaws. Mishti should have told kuhu about meenu, that's wrong on her part, kuhu should use some brain Uske husband ne saamne se qubool kiya ki I don't love you the marraige was drama and she still believe that he loves her Bas he don't know 🙄, abir should have told mishti about kunal's running away. Kunal is hopeless case for me.

Originally posted by: yyyy

@adni143 Well said !!

Mishti gets away with lot of things and her share of blame falls on others .

The one thing i blame Mishti for is keeping Kuhu in dark about her MIl and husband’s truth .She did no favor to Kuhu like she claims instead deceived her by not disclosing the truth .

Abir keeps saying No one can separate two people if the relationship is strong .If that was the case why doesn’t he confront Mishti for getting blackmailed by Meenu .If their relationship was strong Mishti would have talked to Abir about it . The whole Mumbai drama was beyond my understanding.If she had to stay back then why did she insult her whole family a day before .

Exactly my point is even same

And that's why I just blame the character for their mishap or the couple

Mishti kuhu abir and kunal all r responsible for their own misery

Mishbir and kuku even as couple r responsible for their own

Here I always see discussion where kuku fan goes extreme in blaming others for their favourite and call it a different perspective

And mishbir fans the same

Anyway everyone has their opinion I just post mine but don't like when fans term me as hater or stop watching then I go mentioning fans name otherwise I am not interested in debate for a show

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

So mishti pretends to be mahaan is the conclusion of whole MUMBAI drama track.

She knew the consequence of her haldi drama thing and but she was wrong. She thought abir, bp and bm will not trust her but they trusted her, bp and bm trusted their daughter ,they knew their daughter could never do that, abir trusted her despite her creating drama in kunal's shaadi because he also knew her. According to all it was her mahaanta but according to her she has no other choice, though she was wrong she had choice but she didn't have that guts that time.

She never wanted to leave Raajkot and her family but again for kuku's shaadi she left . She came back but still waited until the end of ceremony so that kuku's marriage could happen without any chaos. She wanted abir to come when she was leaving, meenu ne usse kaha tha ki if she insults her family then only kunal's marraige will happen with kuhu she assumed mahs will throw mishti out but to be sure she herself went to mahs house to put forth the condition in front of them.

Why to generalize mishti , she's a human too. FL don't need to be only in one character mahaan or selfish , good or bad, honest or not

They differ from person to person, MishBir has their own flaws. Mishti should have told kuhu about meenu, that's wrong on her part, kuhu should use some brain Uske husband ne saamne se qubool kiya ki I don't love you the marraige was drama and she still believe that he loves her Bas he don't know 🙄, abir should have told mishti about kunal's running away. Kunal is hopeless case for me.

The point is mishti either have boycotted not to interfere or would have told kuhu and family whatever the consequence

I am not saying mishti is villan but she is of her own life and her love life

And why she first agreed to menu demand means she promised menu then why she not followed as according to her menu fulfilled

My point is hypocrisy if she knew kunal can be problem if mishbir happen then why not confronted before marriage

Why let ur sister marry the person which u know from ur perspective is wrong

I am not saying mishti should have forced kuhu to listen but at least told her the truth

Yeah the fact is she in her unconscious mind want to be mahan and want people to aknoledge it and accept her

She is selfish but thinks herself as selfless

My point is not prove anyone wrong as they r character its just I don't like bechari or mahan character like mishti but she is justified in her act in as has her flaws

My point is that all r responsible for their own misery why blame kuhu when mishti after knowing not confronted with family about email thing why blame menu when mishti herself agreed to it and gave up

Why blame every villan for their mishap when they clearly can't take stand or do sane things

Anyway we have different POV and u will not agree mine and I will not with urs

So no point of discussion

Peace

Originally posted by: adni143

The point is mishti either have boycotted not to interfere or would have told kuhu and family whatever the consequence

I am not saying mishti is villan but she is of her own life and her love life

And why she first agreed to menu demand means she promised menu then why she not followed as according to her menu fulfilled

My point is hypocrisy if she knew kunal can be problem if mishbir happen then why not confronted before marriage

Why let ur sister marry the person which u know from ur perspective is wrong

I am not saying mishti should have forced kuhu to listen but at least told her the truth

Yeah the fact is she in her unconscious mind want to be mahan and want people to aknoledge it and accept her

She is selfish but thinks herself as selfless

Anyway we have different POV and u will not agree mine and I will not with urs

So no point of discussion

Peace

Why would she think kunal is wrong for her sister in first place, whenever she talks with kuhu, kuhu always told her that it's her mistake that she rejected kunal, Kuhu also knew all the happenings of miskun's rishta then also she sided kunal then what's the point on talking with her on that

Kunal could be a problem in mishbir, but she didn't knew that he's acting to be in love with kuhu. She thought kunal also loves kuhu like kuhu loves him, so the mishbir thing will not affect kuku's marriage, vo to shaadi ke Baad sacchai bahar aayi na ki kunal don't want this marraige and all.

Perspectives matter afterall kuhu never wanted to do job she want to do some class but seeing mishti she also went for interview. I am giving this example because priorities of Kuhu's life and mishti's life are different and they knew that, mishti just think ki rishta wrong tha kunal nahi

I-already mentioned in my post, you want to disagree, gladly do

B-not going to comment on that again and again, I agree that we will never agree with each other on this thing, so gladly hate mishti and I'll gladly love her 😅

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Why would she think kunal is wrong for her sister in first place, whenever she talks with kuhu, kuhu always told her that it's her mistake that she rejected kunal, Kuhu also knew all the happenings of miskun's rishta then also she sided kunal then what's the point on talking with her on that

Kunal could be a problem in mishbir, but she didn't knew that he's acting to be in love with kuhu. She thought kunal also loves kuhu like kuhu loves him, so the mishbir thing will not affect kuku's marriage, vo to shaadi ke Baad sacchai bahar aayi na ki kunal don't want this marraige and all.

Perspectives matter afterall kuhu never wanted to do job she want to do some class but seeing mishti she also went for interview. I am giving this example because priorities of Kuhu's life and mishti's life are different and they knew that, mishti just think ki rishta wrong tha kunal nahi

I-already mentioned in my post, you want to disagree, gladly do

B-not going to comment on that again and again, I agree that we will never agree with each other on this thing, so gladly hate mishti and I'll gladly love her 😅

My point is I am not blaming mishti for kuku or kuhu or kunal misery or whatever

I am just blaming mishti for her own

And what u said I agree about kuhu and I always made this point clear that I not blame anyone for other just their s for theirs

Kuhu told her but it was responsibility to tell family about email thing

It was her responsibility to tell kuhu about menu shaft

And if kuhu despite this agrees then at least today I would have justified her or she would have put her point in front of family

But now she has lost as she was responsible for kuku and hidden truth

Abir would not have been blamed by family tomorrow if they came to know about kuku but now they will be justified as he hidden bhagne wala truth

If today abir feel guilty then its justified

And now up to them what they choose either to sacrifice or not and they will be only responsible for their breakup if it happens not kuku

Anyway as gave me points so I countered it

But I feel its baseless as u r either not understanding my point or just have different way of looking

Originally posted by: adni143

My point is I am not blaming mishti for kuku or kuhu or kunal misery or whatever

I am just blaming mishti for her own

And what u said I agree about kuhu and I always made this point clear that I not blame anyone for other just their s for theirs

Kuhu told her but it was responsibility to tell family about email thing

It was her responsibility to tell kuhu about menu shaft

And if kuhu despite this agrees then at least today I would have justified her or she would have put her point in front of family

But now she has lost as she was responsible for kuku and hidden truth

Abir would not have been blamed by family tomorrow if they came to know about kuku but now they will be justified as he hidden bhagne wala truth

If today abir feel guilty then its justified

And now up to them what they choose either to sacrifice or not and they will be only responsible for their breakup if it happens not kuku

Anyway as gave me points so I countered it

But I feel its baseless as u r either not understanding my point or just have different way of looking

Why would kuku be responsible for mishbir's breakup, I will never put blame on them as kuku are responsible for themselves, MishBir are too. The difference is kuku are creating problems in mishbir's love life and mishbir are helping them in their love life, and I hate both of these, the helpers and problem creators ,but the fact will remain same ki problem jitni baar create Ho rahi hai kuku Kar rahe hai and it's totally upto mishbir how they handle it, so it depends on mishbir And Not kuku, I agree on that

And I am really not understanding what truth she knows about kunal except the ear mein whispering waala thing during bidaai, but of course she should tell kuhu About all this, and she's not doing that and trying to handle it in her own ways, it's her nature to take everything on herself and Its wrong, I don't care about kuhu but mishti should tell her the kaarnaame of meenu

Bold - I totally understand your pov and I'll disagree ,because we do have different way of looking