Shahid on mira: She married so young n had 2 kids when she was just - Page 7

Originally posted by: Stark_Wolf

A hardworking father who is already straying.. His n kiara fling was covered up by kjo.. Using sid😆

Shahid is an MCP, he gave recent iv where he said Mira is good home maker, good mother n all the shit..

I'm not saying Mira is some abla naari but if u think they have an equal standing in their marriage then you are a fan girl... Mira loves lime Light, she deffo has ambition n here is a hubby who is aware of it but is still worried about spending time with himself..

She is insecure of what she is to him, mother of his two kids think that she is not his priority n hubby has no clue about what she wants then I think she is right..

I am neither his fan, nor a girl. But I tend to speak up for those, who are continuously targetted by IF's pc brigade. I don't care whether that would make me Sushant, Shahid or HR's fangirl or an MCP. I don't need to make achaar of these labels.

If we go by blind, every man/woman in Bollywood is straying. There are some in Bollywood whom I believe has strayed (like Akki/Malaika). There are some blinds which I take it with a pinch of salt (like Aditya Chopra). Even if I take the blind as real, it does not discredit the fact that Shahid is the main bread earner for their family (just like Akshay Kumar is). One cannot cancel out the other.

On bold. If Shahid had said, Mira is not a good homemaker and not a good mother, then also you would have bashed him (He is criticising his wife in open). If he had said, she does not think about an independent career, then also you would have bashed him. ("Who asked you to marry a young girl." etc). If so, your problem is not with his statements, with him.

Most of IF's opinions are based on this sentence. "She must have had her dreams and desires but she pushed those aside."

I don't agree with that. If she had dreams of career, her parents would not have stopped her. Even middle class parents will not stop their daughters from pursuing their career these days. That statement would have been valid 50-20 years ago. Not now, definitely not in her society. Her dream was to have a family early. She went for it.

What Shahid is stating is a common thing in Asian society. When women are homemakers, they want to go for a weekend entertainment with their husband. If they are working women, they want to rest on Sunday. A lazy man would want a homemaker wife for week days and a working wife on week ends. A woman would want a man who is more successful than her, earns more than her and a good cook who won't mind cooking every day. Unfortunately such ideal condition don't exist for most. Each situation has its own perks and demands. Each will settle with what they have. Shahid and Mira are also adjusting.

Originally posted by: guenhwyvar

I like how familiar everyone is with Shahid, Mira, and their relationship.

I didn't know they shared their personal matters with you all. IF kar naam roshan ka diya!

Well...he just did. This interview shares TMI and no one asked or cared. He is exposing their intimate life in an attempt to come across as woke or authentic. Not sure what his purpose is but that’s a total fail. If he didn’t open up his mouth we wouldn’t know and comment. Not sure what your point is either.

Originally posted by: storminateacup

what is all this.

girls don’t mature earlier than boys, boys are just allowed to be immature for a longer period of time. Sometimes even grown up men are treated like they’re just a kid by their parents, mera raja beta types. A girl shouldn’t have to be treated like her young age doesn’t matter and she has to grow up fast, like return of hades said everyone should be able to enjoy their youth. and pre teen girls dressing up as adults doesn’t mean they are ready to be an adult

Even girls r treated as papa ki pari and princess..I was..They aren't forced to grow up or anything..No one is. Everyone grows up naturally.

And all parents want their daughter to be treated as Queens after mrg too..

About teens and pre teen girls..I teach them and m always around them. So very well aware of their mindset.

Basically we should just let people be. Time and fate will decide their future

Originally posted by: niyati13

Even girls r treated as papa ki pari and princess..I was..They aren't forced to grow up or anything..No one is. Everyone grows up naturally.

And all parents want their daughter to be treated as Queens after mrg too..

About teens and pre teen girls..I teach them and m always around them. So very well aware of their mindset.

Basically we should just let people be. Time and fate will decide their future

I have seen 13 year old girls get creeped on by men because people just won’t let girls enjoy their childhood before making them into this “they are more mature than guys and ready to be flirted with”. I’m sorry to say but it is in no way comparable to how guys aren’t sexualised from a young age like girls are.

Shahid made everyone a part of his marriage by giving out interviews like this. He told everyone of Mira giving up her dreams to have kids so early. It's obvious he wanted kids quickly since he's getting old and Mira had to adjust to that even though she might have preferred waiting.

I also think it's obvious he doesn't want her to have a career or else there would be no talk of lost dreams. She can leave the babies with a nanny and go work. It's not hard for rich people to do whatever they want to do. It's Shahid who only wants her to stay home and take care of the kids.

Mira chose a rich housewife life without really thinking about it. At 20, she probably just wasn't that mature and now it's irking her. She obviously likes the money but Shahid is working and in his own world and she is bored sitting at home.

Shahid knew what he was getting into much more than Mira. He was aware that he wasn't able to handle working women (Kareena, Priyanka, Vidya, Sania Mirza) so he went and married a young girl who would stay home and rely on him. He doesn't want her to change those terms and start a career now either, hence the lost dreams.

Originally posted by: regnow

I also think it's obvious he doesn't want her to have a career or else there would be no talk of lost dreams. She can leave the babies with a nanny and go work. It's not hard for rich people to do whatever they want to do. It's Shahid who only wants her to stay home and take care of the kids.

Does he? Then why Mira criticizes the working mothers and compare their kids to puppies? Does that not make her faulty from her side?

Originally posted by: regnow

Shahid made everyone a part of his marriage by giving out interviews like this. He told everyone of Mira giving up her dreams to have kids so early. It's obvious he wanted kids quickly since he's getting old and Mira had to adjust to that even though she might have preferred waiting.

I also think it's obvious he doesn't want her to have a career or else there would be no talk of lost dreams. She can leave the babies with a nanny and go work. It's not hard for rich people to do whatever they want to do. It's Shahid who only wants her to stay home and take care of the kids.

Mira chose a rich housewife life without really thinking about it. At 20, she probably just wasn't that mature and now it's irking her. She obviously likes the money but Shahid is working and in his own world and she is bored sitting at home.

Shahid knew what he was getting into much more than Mira. He was aware that he wasn't able to handle working women (Kareena, Priyanka, Vidya, Sania Mirza) so he went and married a young girl who would stay home and rely on him. He doesn't want her to change those terms and start a career now either, hence the lost dreams.

He dated Sania as well? Why does he always go in for the feisty types and then want to make a doormat of them?