Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26
At this point writers have completely lost it. I don't understand this Babita. They need to show Babita's introspections onto her thoughts and feelings reagarding HS and this whole intimacy angle. I am beyond frustrated at this point with Babita.
Can HS just lash out at her already? Show her the mirror? Fking ask her straight up if she's even attracted to him? If she just wanted a father for Minnie, why did she get married to him? He would have been a father either way. Someone needs to give a zor ka jhatka joro se, for her to come back to her sense. She needs a reality check and I feel only HS can do it. Maybe he needs to initiate something like the pottery making, to sprung those desires in her one more time. I have no hopes that Babita will do it herself.
Also, can Minnie tell Babita to get off her back, that she doesn't wanna be a third wheel in her parent's honeymoon... heck tell her that she doesn't wanna tag along, and woh jana hai to jaye, warna bhaad mein jaye. Pagal hogayi hai Babita. Writers have lost it literally with Babita's character arc.
Okayyy I am doneee.
I want to see some of that poison he's drinking seep out a little bit in the form of him telling her what he feels. As I have said many times, he is making a big mistake being so over-protective of Babita. I know his intentions are pure but it's not the right approach - too much of anything isn't good.
I think he's taking the no more tears to a ridiculous level. He cannot guarantee her a fairy tale marriage. Life doesn't work like that. He can do his best to make her happy but the fact is that there would be fights, arguments, angst, etc. I know his guilt over being unable to help his mom is still killing him on the inside but to transpose that onto his relationship with Babita is not good. Ok, she is not ready to learn about this side of him or listen to him share his pain, but he needs to forgive himself and stop relating everything to his mother.
I know that this pain of his might never go away and no matter how supportive Lala and NB are, this tees in his heart won't be healed completely. It's too big a trauma, and I know that he's always going to be in this over-compensation mode, but he's doing himself and his daughter a disservice by being laser-focused on Babita's needs and forgetting Minnie and his needs. I have always loved HS' ability to push back when people went too far with things but with Babita he is doing no such thing. For sure, it won't continue for long because it's against his nature to put up with such stuff for too long. He's no doormat. I just don't know if Babita will actually threaten to distance herself or leave him at the drop of a hat. He can't be living in a Damocles' sword situation all his life. It will suffocate him and destroy him. Minnie will be very hurt too because of it.
As for the father role, I think he should actually try to start fresh with Minnie and show her that he loves her and wants her in his life as his first prio. Unlike Babita, I want him to focus on Minnie and give her all the attention and support she needs. It will not only reduce his pain but will also serve as a good distraction from all the madness around Babita. Once she sees him in father mode, I bet she will start wanting him as her husband without him having to lift a finger.
