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Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

this was where i felt HS was wrong. even if mini wanted to hurt HS, she can never hurt her babes, and i think this is what hurt mini more. HS dounting her and thinking that mini can hurt babes.

I agree. He was wrong to accuse Minnie of such a thing but he reacted without thinking clearly. He connected the wrong dots together and came to the wrong conclusion.

she will slowly understand that she is not a relation that babita associates with ashok or the khuranas. she has never actually seen how hurt her babes was, because babita never opened up to her daughter, probably because she felt that this would taint the relation mini has with the khuranas. even when babita was talking to mini after sending ashok back to london she fell asleep. so mini was caught off guard.

Yeahh, the way Babes is constantly releasing all these negative emotions is surprising Minnie a lot. In a way, this is what she had always wanted, but I think the level of it is what's shocking her the most. Matlab itna zeher or takleefein chupa kar rakhi thi Babes ne. It'll take time even for her to get used to Babes being her true self.

The precap- the idea behind the rice grains is that the bride now leaves behind her own house and relations, but she will still remember them, but now her husbands home is her true home. she will take her old relations with her in her heart but now they are no longer the priority they were before marriage.

Also, daughters are considered to be the manifestation of Goddess Lakshmi. Her being in the house is a sign of wealth and prosperity. When the daughter gets married and leaves her parents’ house, she throws back rice to reassure them. It means that despite leaving behind her home, she will continue to pray for their material and spiritual prosperity. And its usually the parents and brothers who collect those rice grains.

mini collecting the rice grains symbolises that she does not believe that she will be a part of the new family. and neither babita nor HS saw this. no one stopped her. so basically, now from mini's POV, while babes still loves her, HS will become more important and she will not be as close to babita as she was.

Out of all the rituals during a wedding, this is the most heart breaking one. it symbolises that a girl is now leaving behind her old relations to form new ones.

as per some old traditional saying it also symbolises that whatever love, care, happiness the daughter got from her maayka, she is now returning it to them. whatever she has taken is being returned.

Thanks for explaining the meaning behind the rice ritual! It puts things into a whole new, saddening perspective.

Aahh, all I can wish is for is peace, love and prosperity for these three post marriage. <3

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i think mini will actually break down crying. she will not vent her anger in words, but in tears.

lets see because whatever happened it surely has gaping consequences . hence couldn't enjoy the outburst too to an optimum level .

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm still amazed that she kept everything inside for 17 whole years. And now all that bitterness is coming out in truly vicious doses. It's good that she's letting out all that pain and anger, but the damage is going out to everyone. Previously it was HS who fell victim to it, and this time it's Minnie.

I think Babes will become the mediator for baap beti this time. It'll be interesting since Minnie was always the connection between the two, but this time it'll be Babes. Babes had even questioned HS as to what the heck was going on in his mind that made him think this way. If he had expressed himself in a better way, she would have cleared his doubts. But alas it didn't happen this time around. Same thing with Minnie. She needs to put forth her worries and address them seriously. Not pass them off as jokes all the time.

Maybe. Minnie had invested a lot of her time and efforts into establishing this new rishta for Babes that I think she hadn't even factored where she would stand. She had always assumed that she'll be right there with her Babes and they'll have that same bond. But Kammo's words shook something deeply inside her. Coupled with the way Babes was talking today, she'll be even more confused to where she stands.

In the spoiler vid, Minnie was reflecting back on what happened and there's a lot of confusion inside her. In a lot of ways, she feels displaced. She has a mom, but she's entering a new relationship and will need time to make that bloom. She has her Hanuman Uncle, but now a rift has been formed where he feels that Minnie may have never wanted him as a father. She has grandparents but Babes' bitter feelings towards them would make her confused as to where she stands with them. Should she continue to visit and shower them with affection or support Babes by completely cutting all ties with them?

A LOT has been dumped on her and it's just not fair.

I second you on this.you are absolutely on point.

@ bold 1) babes has to be the mediator this time. Because till now minnie was the mediator and the thread connecting her and HS.

@ bold 2) Minnie was happy and she thought everything will fall in place as a fairy tale and everything will be fine in her babes ‘ wedding.

But khuranas and Khatri are there to spoil their happiness.

She is indeed confused that which way she has to go. Or what to think. The inner turmoil she is going through is worsened by kammo n lovely’s words. At this time she needs someone to talk to and clear her confusions.

Hope mickey being a catalyst walk her out of this confusion mess.n make her understand that her babes’ love won’t fade away if she has entered in a new relationship. But she will get a father’s love from HS too which she has been craving since long .

Hope everything falls in place once all this confusions and MUs between all clears out.

Originally posted by: guddi01

Because he showed his pain and what was his and Babes Wedding day.

i wish they had not spoiled it that way .

Originally posted by: inlieu

He will become a parent but he has a lot to learn. He has no previous experience. Besides, he can be a great parent without being perfect. He will make mistakes but learn from them. The forward spiral concept should apply to him now too.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Thanks for explaining the meaning behind the rice ritual! It puts things into a whole new, saddening perspective.

Aahh, all I can wish is for is peace, love and prosperity for these three post marriage. <3

most welcome.

and i think mini never realised how much pain babita was hiding. she always felt that she knows her babes and knows her pain. that was mini's immaturity and babita's maturity that she did not let her pain hurt mini.

babita can obviously not share everything with mini. she is a child and her daughter.

the intensity of the pain adn hurt is what is shocking mini.

Guys one thing is for sure after today's show... These three... HS, Babita and Mini are meant for each other.... They r the real family.... A family they can cherish on....

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly. At the end I was like, go now. Don't do any ehsaan on Babita anymore. And for God's sake don't come back and cry how unfairly were they treated by their bahu.🤬

Babita successfully became the first bahu on ITV to blast her in laws like that. Wow!

Originally posted by: naq5

being insecure of mini is one thing but doubting that mini would do this to stop marriage and hurt him because she dosent want him to marry babita is so illogical. i mean wasnt mini the one who actually fought with him that if imarti is filled in your heart where will my babes go. she was the one who wanted HS babita to get together was working day & night for this marriage. they have shared so much between them. about how to take care of the suddenly impulsive babita, how she trusts him with her babes. And suddenly he thinks that mini dosent want him to get married to babes? where did that even come from. And from where has HS become so illogical. He is a inspector afterall where has his logic gone. They could have made him question minis carelessness or anything but to question her intent. And secondly mini is not someone who would do things behind the back. she is upfront. even when she came to know of HS liking her mother she was very upfront to him about it.

He wasn't doubting Minnie, but himself. He was doubting whether he had made a mistake in understanding the whole situation and in overestimating MInnie's love for him. That perhaps he was not as important to her after all.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Gur ke bandar Patiala tak famous hain😎

Ab jahan Hanuman ji ho, waha bandar sena ka hona lazmi hai. 😎