Magar mujhay khonay ka dar nahi hai: ajao saray - Page 16

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I'd agree. The changes are too drastic and sudden and almost seem forced.

Specially with NB being all ominous, Mini being left out like that without reason.

In order to lay the foundation for the future tracks I feel they went a little overboard with brushing things under the carpet.

There's also a sense of foreboding in the episodes, almost to the point of being overdone and in your face.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Aww sweetie. You needn't be afraid. I'm not saying that you shouldn't marry, but some aspects of marriage ain't that bright. I stated how my Grandma still takes my Mom to be an outsider, and this is something very real and I have subconsciously accepted this fact and also that somewhere I'll meet the same fate. It does happen. So what? I'll go on to mention that my dad has unconditionally supported my mom, even whilst going against his own mother (and maybe this pisses her off the most). They have always stood up for each other against the world.

Also my grandfather is extremely supportive of my mother.

Everything is a mix and match. Can't one dimensional-ise life, eh!

I know but the idea that at any given moment you could be treated like an outsider doesn't instill happy thoughts in me. It's like, we leave the comforts our home and the unconditional love we get from our family, for what? To be treated horribly?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That's what I thought with the way Babita spoke but I wasn't too sure.

I don't know why Naeem Bi feels that way. She clearly knows that they both love each other a lot despite the emotional scars they have. Minnie is as you said a part of the package but she's not the only reason.

Hanita will never hurt Minnie deliberately. Even in the initial days Minnie has inadvertently gotten hurt but it wasn't because they were maliciously targeting her. Besides, Babes would have never gotten married to HS if she knew there was even a remote chance that he would hurt her. She has seen first hand how he has gone out of his way to protect and help her. Even when he had no business doing so, but he did because he wanted to. Because he just loved her. And Babes is Minnie's mother. She will never hurt her on purpose. Inadvertently yes, but never out of malicious intent.

Hanita are more than capable of building a strong foundation for themselves, and I'm was very eagerly looking forward to that. I don't know if it'll be done properly now. 😒

By having the phone talks and opening up, they have started building up, independent of Mini. It will be addressed, for sure.

It's not about hurting Mini. It's about the psychological issues. Like will HS over exert his rights as a father on her? Will Mini feel suffocated after some point, having a father around, when HS is more free to Express himself? It's these questions that are haunting. No one will obviously hurt her.

The main point was their individual equation with Mini should be as strong as their own equation. It's like a pyramid.

I don't mind Babes bridging the gap between the two and also balancing her individual responsibilities.

Mujhe toh yeh abhi bhi exciting lag raha hai.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Yes but I didn't like it much, that Babes needed Mini's signal to Garland the man to be, of her life. Still makes me feel these two are heavily dependent on each other.

i actually felt that like they more intune with each others emotions. like babes wanted mini to be a part of her happiness. it didnt feel like she needed the assurance. they are dependent on each other, but that has to be expected and accepted. they have lived with and for each other for 17 years. faced so many situations, so dependency is justified.

today i got the vibe that it was that they knew what each other was feeling and just wanted that slight acknowledgement.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I see this as Babita taking the centre stage and balancing out her and HS' relationship along with HS and Mini's. If they show HS and Mini are one perfect issue-less father daughter then that's unreal too.

I would actually LOVE to see this! If we consider the first 200 episodes as Phase One, where Minnie gives Babes wings; then these upcoming episodes can be Babes finally using those wings and flying.

Let her take control of things for once and firmly step into all the roles that life has given her: a woman, a wife, and a mother.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know but the idea that at any given moment you could be treated like an outsider doesn't instill happy thoughts in me. It's like, we leave the comforts our home and the unconditional love we get from our family, for what? To be treated horribly?

Yes, brutally and as a matter of fact, yes.

But it ain't that bad IMO. Not that I've any experience of sorts lol but definetly, you gotta compromise on some aspects. Not a fairytale or anything. It's hard and tough.

And also it depends from family to family. What if you land a lucky place for yourself? Sabka experience alag hota hai.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I would actually LOVE to see this! If we consider the first 200 episodes as Phase One, where Minnie gives Babes wings; then these upcoming episodes can be Babes finally using those wings and flying.

Let her take control of things for once and firmly step into all the roles that life has given her: a woman, a wife, and a mother.

Mini's speech today gave a big hint towards this. Enough of gearing up and prep, now take a deep breath and just FLY!!!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know but the idea that at any given moment you could be treated like an outsider doesn't instill happy thoughts in me. It's like, we leave the comforts our home and the unconditional love we get from our family, for what? To be treated horribly?

I get these same exact thoughts. For one companion, you have to deal with so much. Even if the partner is worth it, is this treatment at all fair?

What's the point of marriage if we're only going to lose most of our comforts, leave our house, and be treated as an outsider in what should be our new home?

Originally posted by: tk2015

In order to lay the foundation for the future tracks I feel they went a little overboard with brushing things under the carpet.

There's also a sense of foreboding in the episodes, almost to the point of being overdone and in your face.

Agreed. Before they used to weave these tracks one after another seamlessly. Now it's like they have to let the viewers know exactly what's about to happen. 🤔

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

By having the phone talks and opening up, they have started building up, independent of Mini. It will be addressed, for sure.

It's not about hurting Mini. It's about the psychological issues. Like will HS over exert his rights as a father on her? Will Mini feel suffocated after some point, having a father around, when HS is more free to Express himself? It's these questions that are haunting. No one will obviously hurt her.

The main point was their individual equation with Mini should be as strong as their own equation. It's like a pyramid.

I don't mind Babes bridging the gap between the two and also balancing her individual responsibilities.

Mujhe toh yeh abhi bhi exciting lag raha hai.

In what ways would he over exert his rights?

Yup! This is what I've been saying all along. 😆

If Babes takes the ropes then I'm on aboard! But please Minnie ka dose thoda sam kam kar do. I've seen a lot of her during this shaadi. 😵