Originally posted by: AreYaar
Can I ask you something?
What did they tweet the last time that caused such a tamasha? It was for the jhumka scene?
Also, is the standard accepted baseline now that Babita is permanently "immature" and "selfish" while every other character in this show is permanently "mature"? š
I adore HS and Mini....but they've done immature things too....so how come they aren't piled on constantly being labeled as immature people jo humesha aise hi rahenge? Mini ka anger management problem kya "mature" tha? lol Toh itne saal bas Babita ne hi immaturity ki and Mini Devi thi? How is it that the same writers who otherwise give us scenes like forward spiral have such projections for the characters from the PR account? Quite an odd strategy, this.....lol
HS ki drinking problem bhi kya mature thi? lol every character in the show loves to give gyaan based on their own understanding....that doesn't mean they all follow it themselves....but for some peculiar reason, only Babita is selfish, immature and incompetent while all others are perfect......in this case toh HS ko bhi incompetent ki line mein daal diya.....lol so only Mini is left standing as the dust settles?
In the guise of claiming that they want to write "flawed" characters, somehow Mini's flaws are never spoken of. They seem to be under some misguided belief that people can't handle flaws in the lead adult characters, so they will only show "flaws" in Babita and HS to make this a "hatke" story.....when in reality, the reason people have invested is because all three characters balance each other out in terms of good and bad.
Before this, I never thought there would be a need to clarify this and the writers understood their characters....but these tweets seriously make no sense.....and I'm among the rare ones who's been getting this vibe since the shaadi promo only.....there is an articulation problem with how they want to present the next phase......skewing it too much towards only pandering to Mini is not the way to go.....even worse would be skewing the way these relationships ACTUALLY developed to now twist the story into how the adults were selfish in their feelings for each other and supposedly didn't care for Mini along the way.
These three characters have SAMAJHDAARI se sambhaaloed each other to this point.....there is no one silent suffering soul alone....that would be a trite storyline that would devolve pretty fast....the story is only standing thanks to all that was built.....so please don't try to corrode the basis with false and twisted interpretations of the character relationships.
HS absolutely has a journey to travel from Hanuman Uncle to Dad/Papa, jo bhi....but to presume that we only need him to be some one-dimensional hero for Mini who has some pressure to live up to her fantasies is also over-simplification.
Babita can be reactive, impulsive in anger and her emotional stuntedness but why is that being twisted into her supposedly being permanently selfish? She can be child-like but to permanently write her off as a kid to be managed.....is that fair? Also, despite all she's overcome, Babita is still only being defined as a mother and already being severely judged for even a hint of wanting to live life as a woman again....as if "new husband" is some drug she will lose her mind over ....such unfortunate language in these tweets.
Anyways, didn't meant to rant but wanted to get some things off my chest.