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Posted: 6 years ago

I don't get the evil duo motives at all.

Khamo I can understand as she wants to justify her Husband's stand on this Marriage. Yes thry become friends Months after the Wedding when she was fully divorced from Ashok. Khatri is a molester so when will that be shown. Yet its nobody's business if they decided to get Married and even in the Eyes of the Law they are both single and have a right to a 2nd Marriage and happiness that they both deserve.

Lovely and Sukhi if they were so concerned for them should have moved to another part of India and a Job and Home and taken the Khuranas with them. But making a lame excuse that they can't take them to Dubai is stupid. Now she moans about Nayeem Be as well.

Ashok has no intention to looking after his Parents, which is a joke as he cannot even look after himself and Mita and the 2nd Child

So its left to Babita and HS look after the elderly Khuranas now.

Not good the tweets coming from KK regarding HS fake love for Mini to get Babita is the last straw now. So first the butcher Ashok, Babita and now HS to justify that Mini is the only true person on this show at 17 years.

Is that why they are bringing and changing Romeo Mickey and her the ever loving and giving Mini as the true ones in PB. Crazy

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Posted: 6 years ago

In the UK we do it all the proper way with all the functions galore. Parties and dancing, you name it.

The Weddings here are on a very grand Scale and depending on the budget. Been to Simple weddings as well.

Its how you want your Weddings really.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

this is the harsh truth dear. I have seen with my own eyes where however 3rd class their sons are when time comes MIL's support their son only. I have seen my neighbour still with her husband inspite of him having an affair in the past. For his mother he is the best. If babita was not in contact with her ex in laws, after knowing about her 2nd marriage they would have created a hue and cry, especially lovely and beeji. What they are showing is the exact behaviour of society.

I completely agree....this is the ultimate truth of society.....and the casual way in which Lovely dismissed them having any relationship with Babita, and only tolerating everything for Mini...also a harsh truth.....most rishte survive on matlab....and a DIL remains a DIL at the end of the day no matter log kitna "beti beti" kar lein..... a DIL will be judged a 1000 times over every small thing while blood relations will get away with murder....literally and figuratively.

And that is why that scene on Friday gave an obvious hint for the future of the storyline.....these same issues will rise again.....it is much easier for the Khuranas and society to twist and mutilate facts to paint Babita in a bad light and pull her down.....one can only hope the rona dhona is not contrived and the HMB trio are able to shut down logon ki bakwaas as they did very well in Phase 1.

Phase 2 shouldn't just end up being a pale reboot of Phase 1.....that would be a pointless exercise. Phase 2 should ideally be about the trio rising above society ki bakwaas again and showing the true meaning of a family.

That doesn't mean they can't make mistakes or can't falter.....but that also doesn't mean that this faltu society drama should be dragged on in a gimmicky fashion.

Edited by AreYaar - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago

Oh wow, I just caught up on the tweetstorm dramašŸ˜†


Where do I begin.....šŸ˜•šŸ˜†


So seems like this is a PR account for the PH trying to promote the upcoming tracks post shaadi? But why is the articulation so very bad? šŸ¤”It is so disjointed from the actual nature of the equations between the trio. They are all being spoken of in one-dimensional terms in these tweets. Babita is being described as immature and flighty like new husband is all she wanted in life.....HS is being described as calculative as if he "used" Mini to "impress" Babita....LOL conveniently ignoring how the father declaration came about, or the way HS day one se Veer Balika ke gun gaa raha hai before he even noticed Babita.


And Mini is just being blindly justified.....over everything.....LOL what a disservice to her character and the whole show.


After building up to Mini's issues during most of the last two weeks of this track, how has the whole story suddenly shifted to how much HS and Babita will supposedly let down Mini and not be "role models" enough for her but she still has to learn to accept them with their flaws? šŸ˜•šŸ˜†.....Bhai, yeh kahaan ki baat kahaan le gaye writer log?

Who said parents can't have flaws and can't make mistakes? But how did that issue get muddled in here when Mini has SERIOUS issues that need addressing here first? Yeh toh total victimization ho gaya Mini ka like the other characters are just standing around either to wrong her or live up to her expectations......how is this PB? How is this remotely connected to the 200 epis of story that have already passed? How is this the same show that handled a depression track for Mini without making it look like it was a product of Babita or HS neglecting her?


I personally am not a fan of people unnecessarily piling on Mini and I generally defend the writing on Mini's front because I view it as her immense love for her mother.....but just like I never understood why ppl claimed HS was a perfect character, I don't get why the writers are trying to pitch MINI as the perfect character in this trio while the other two adults are absolute failures? How is that PB level writing which otherwise till this point balanced the virtues and flaws in all three characters?


I can only hope this is a tweet articulation fail and the actual writing is more nuanced and sensitive than these tweets are trying to characterize these characters as.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh wow, I just caught up on the tweetstorm dramašŸ˜†

Where do I begin.....šŸ˜•šŸ˜†

So seems like this is a PR account for the PH trying to promote the upcoming tracks post shaadi? But why is the articulation so very bad? šŸ¤”It is so disjointed from the actual nature of the equations between the trio. They are all being spoken of in one-dimensional terms in these tweets. Babita is being described as immature and flighty like new husband is all she wanted in life.....HS is being described as calculative as if he "used" Mini to "impress" Babita....LOL conveniently ignoring how the father declaration came about, or the way HS day one se Veer Balika ke gun gaa raha hai before he even noticed Babita.

And Mini is just being blindly justified.....over everything.....LOL what a disservice to her character and the whole show.

After building up to Mini's issues during most of the last two weeks of this track, how has the whole story suddenly shifted to how much HS and Babita will supposedly let down Mini and not be "role models" enough for her but she still has to learn to accept them with their flaws? šŸ˜•šŸ˜†.....Bhai, yeh kahaan ki baat kahaan le gaye writer log?

Who said parents can't have flaws and can't make mistakes? But how did that issue get muddled in here when Mini has SERIOUS issues that need addressing here first? Yeh toh total victimization ho gaya Mini ka like the other characters are just standing around either to wrong her or live up to her expectations......how is this PB? How is this remotely connected to the 200 epis of story that have already passed? How is this the same show that handled a depression track for Mini without making it look like it was a product of Babita or HS neglecting her?

I personally am not a fan of people unnecessarily piling on Mini and I generally defend the writing on Mini's front because I view it as her immense love for her mother.....but just like I never understood why ppl claimed HS was a perfect character, I don't get why the writers are trying to pitch MINI as the perfect character in this trio while the other two adults are absolute failures? How is that PB level writing which otherwise till this point balanced the virtues and flaws in all three characters?

I can only hope this is a tweet articulation fail and the actual writing is more nuanced and sensitive than these tweets are trying to characterize these characters as.

Exactly! THIS šŸ™Œ

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Posted: 6 years ago

Can I ask you something?

What did they tweet the last time that caused such a tamasha? It was for the jhumka scene?

Also, is the standard accepted baseline now that Babita is permanently "immature" and "selfish" while every other character in this show is permanently "mature"? šŸ˜†

I adore HS and Mini....but they've done immature things too....so how come they aren't piled on constantly being labeled as immature people jo humesha aise hi rahenge? Mini ka anger management problem kya "mature" tha? lol Toh itne saal bas Babita ne hi immaturity ki and Mini Devi thi? How is it that the same writers who otherwise give us scenes like forward spiral have such projections for the characters from the PR account? Quite an odd strategy, this.....lol

HS ki drinking problem bhi kya mature thi? lol every character in the show loves to give gyaan based on their own understanding....that doesn't mean they all follow it themselves....but for some peculiar reason, only Babita is selfish, immature and incompetent while all others are perfect......in this case toh HS ko bhi incompetent ki line mein daal diya.....lol so only Mini is left standing as the dust settles?

In the guise of claiming that they want to write "flawed" characters, somehow Mini's flaws are never spoken of. They seem to be under some misguided belief that people can't handle flaws in the lead adult characters, so they will only show "flaws" in Babita and HS to make this a "hatke" story.....when in reality, the reason people have invested is because all three characters balance each other out in terms of good and bad.

Before this, I never thought there would be a need to clarify this and the writers understood their characters....but these tweets seriously make no sense.....and I'm among the rare ones who's been getting this vibe since the shaadi promo only.....there is an articulation problem with how they want to present the next phase......skewing it too much towards only pandering to Mini is not the way to go.....even worse would be skewing the way these relationships ACTUALLY developed to now twist the story into how the adults were selfish in their feelings for each other and supposedly didn't care for Mini along the way.

These three characters have SAMAJHDAARI se sambhaaloed each other to this point.....there is no one silent suffering soul alone....that would be a trite storyline that would devolve pretty fast....the story is only standing thanks to all that was built.....so please don't try to corrode the basis with false and twisted interpretations of the character relationships.

HS absolutely has a journey to travel from Hanuman Uncle to Dad/Papa, jo bhi....but to presume that we only need him to be some one-dimensional hero for Mini who has some pressure to live up to her fantasies is also over-simplification.

Babita can be reactive, impulsive in anger and her emotional stuntedness but why is that being twisted into her supposedly being permanently selfish? She can be child-like but to permanently write her off as a kid to be managed.....is that fair? Also, despite all she's overcome, Babita is still only being defined as a mother and already being severely judged for even a hint of wanting to live life as a woman again....as if "new husband" is some drug she will lose her mind over ....such unfortunate language in these tweets.

Anyways, didn't meant to rant but wanted to get some things off my chest.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Awesome analysis of the episode by you, Anu! šŸ¤—

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Can I ask you something?

What did they tweet the last time that caused such a tamasha? It was for the jhumka scene?

Also, is the standard accepted baseline now that Babita is permanently "immature" and "selfish" while every other character in this show is permanently "mature"? šŸ˜†

I adore HS and Mini....but they've done immature things too....so how come they aren't piled on constantly being labeled as immature people jo humesha aise hi rahenge? Mini ka anger management problem kya "mature" tha? lol Toh itne saal bas Babita ne hi immaturity ki and Mini Devi thi? How is it that the same writers who otherwise give us scenes like forward spiral have such projections for the characters from the PR account? Quite an odd strategy, this.....lol

Tweet was about Babita's Ego and they somehow insinuated that Mini will learn how her babes also had a her share of blame in divorce. Something along the line.

@bold -- I am with you here. Babita is constantly spoken of as Kid, immature, selfish and so on. Mini and HS's flaws aren't spoken of or being highlighted the way Babita's character is.

Mini chose to appear for photo contest for 1500 and missed her Uni entrance exam was the stupidest, most immature a character has behaved in this show for me. She knows HS fought with Principal to get her to appear for exam, Her Babes with her BA degree is dhakka khaoing to find a job, trying to survive. If She is so mature, wouldn't she understand the value of Education? HS told her, chhale hi to the. Kaun sa teri Babes mar rahi thi. This is a serial, so she got a chance through sports quota. That was loop-sided too. She gets to take part in competition from a college without being It's student. LOL. Real life mein she would be sitting home for a whole year.

If even after taking such drastic and dumb decision, Mini can be called mature then why not Babita? The constant flip flopping of Babes aint gonna work in long run.

In order to attract "New" viewers, they are doing disservice to the ones who has been their ardent audience. Har time ka siyapa hai aschhe shows ka. Na idhar ke na udhar ke reh jate hai. Trp audience attract nahi hoti.. aur purane thak jate hai with twists and turns coz they never signed up for it. smiley36

But let's see. I am still hoping that they wouldn't ruin Babita or HS beyond repair in order to make Mini, mahaan. If they do, fir toh kya kehne.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Can I ask you something?

What did they tweet the last time that caused such a tamasha? It was for the jhumka scene?

Also, is the standard accepted baseline now that Babita is permanently "immature" and "selfish" while every other character in this show is permanently "mature"? šŸ˜†

I adore HS and Mini....but they've done immature things too....so how come they aren't piled on constantly being labeled as immature people jo humesha aise hi rahenge? Mini ka anger management problem kya "mature" tha? lol Toh itne saal bas Babita ne hi immaturity ki and Mini Devi thi? How is it that the same writers who otherwise give us scenes like forward spiral have such projections for the characters from the PR account? Quite an odd strategy, this.....lol

HS ki drinking problem bhi kya mature thi? lol every character in the show loves to give gyaan based on their own understanding....that doesn't mean they all follow it themselves....but for some peculiar reason, only Babita is selfish, immature and incompetent while all others are perfect......in this case toh HS ko bhi incompetent ki line mein daal diya.....lol so only Mini is left standing as the dust settles?

In the guise of claiming that they want to write "flawed" characters, somehow Mini's flaws are never spoken of. They seem to be under some misguided belief that people can't handle flaws in the lead adult characters, so they will only show "flaws" in Babita and HS to make this a "hatke" story.....when in reality, the reason people have invested is because all three characters balance each other out in terms of good and bad.

Before this, I never thought there would be a need to clarify this and the writers understood their characters....but these tweets seriously make no sense.....and I'm among the rare ones who's been getting this vibe since the shaadi promo only.....there is an articulation problem with how they want to present the next phase......skewing it too much towards only pandering to Mini is not the way to go.....even worse would be skewing the way these relationships ACTUALLY developed to now twist the story into how the adults were selfish in their feelings for each other and supposedly didn't care for Mini along the way.

These three characters have SAMAJHDAARI se sambhaaloed each other to this point.....there is no one silent suffering soul alone....that would be a trite storyline that would devolve pretty fast....the story is only standing thanks to all that was built.....so please don't try to corrode the basis with false and twisted interpretations of the character relationships.

HS absolutely has a journey to travel from Hanuman Uncle to Dad/Papa, jo bhi....but to presume that we only need him to be some one-dimensional hero for Mini who has some pressure to live up to her fantasies is also over-simplification.

Babita can be reactive, impulsive in anger and her emotional stuntedness but why is that being twisted into her supposedly being permanently selfish? She can be child-like but to permanently write her off as a kid to be managed.....is that fair? Also, despite all she's overcome, Babita is still only being defined as a mother and already being severely judged for even a hint of wanting to live life as a woman again....as if "new husband" is some drug she will lose her mind over ....such unfortunate language in these tweets.

Anyways, didn't meant to rant but wanted to get some things off my chest.

It was about Babita’s ego and how Mini’s view of her father’s absolute fault in the marriage will be challenged. Also, how Babita is gutsy to have shown her worst side to HS. Something along the line.

I don’t know why they wanna show that only Babita is egoistic, self-centered and immature, whereas her 17 year old daughter has all the qualities of a Devi, self sacrificing, mature, understanding, can do no wrong, blah blah blah. Now, they will target HS’s character saying that whatever he did for Mini was just to ā€œimpressā€ her mother. This absolutely makes no sense whatsoever. The show that we are watching is not the same that she’s writing. She clearly doesn’t understand her own story and her characters.

Completely agree with you. Babita can be immature and impulse at times, but to comepletelt disregard her singlehandedly raising Mini for 17 years is such a insult to a mother that Babita is. And to call Minnie Babita’s foster mother. Like WHAT?!?! šŸ™„

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

It was about Babita’s ego and how Mini’s view of her father’s absolute fault in the marriage will be challenged. Also, how Babita is gutsy to have shown her worst side to HS. Something along the line.

I don’t know why they wanna show that only Babita is egoistic, self-centered and immature, whereas her 17 year old daughter has all the qualities of a Devi, self sacrificing, mature, understanding, can do no wrong, blah blah blah. Now, they will target HS’s character saying that whatever he did for Mini was just to ā€œimpressā€ her mother. This absolutely makes no sense whatsoever. The show that we are watching is not the same that she’s writing. She clearly doesn’t understand her own story and her characters.

Completely agree with you. Babita can be immature and impulse at times, but to comepletelt disregard her singlehandedly raising Mini for 17 years is such a insult to a mother that Babita is. And to call Minnie Babita’s foster mother. Like WHAT?!?! šŸ™„

Lol what?! šŸ™„šŸ™„ THAT was their interpretation of jhumka scene? That Babita showed GUTS there? 🤣

That scene was about vulnerability and ego....usmein GUTS kahaan se aa gaye bhai?

Ok, I guess these ppl aren’t worth wasting breath on. Yeh likhte Kuch hain and epi mein Kuch aur nikalta hai.

And LOL so they keep randomly trying to insinuate that Mini doesn’t know the full truth of Babita ki marriage to Ashok? šŸ™„. Lol

Saare facts clear hain....he left her to serve his parents/raise the kid he didn’t even see the birth of and came back to have pity sex with her once in a while but sure, do tell us how wrong Babita was in that sham marriage šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„

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