Sept 11th: The guilt trap - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMFAOOOO, I will never get over that song. 🤣🤣

On one hand, we had HS spreading fire within her with his Dheere Jalne and on the other we have her Pyaasi Rehne Do. Like, da eeffff???

Stop being so damn thirsty Babes and have a sip of that sweet, cool water. 😎🤣

LMFAOOO, Same that song is imbedded in my mind now 😆

Dheere Jalna ne Babita ka thoda pyas toh bujha diya hoga 🤣... aur baki ka bhi hojayega time aane par, HS hain na 😎

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

LMFAOOO, Same that song is imbedded in my mind now 😆

Dheere Jalna ne Babita ka thoda pyas toh bujha diya hoga 🤣... aur baki ka bhi hojayega time aane par, HS hain na 😎

LOLL, I don't think so. Bechari poori thara se hil gayi thi. 😆 Yeh kya tha? Aur kahan se laoon? 🤣

Ab toh HS se hi umeed hai. Varne yeh toh pyaasi mar jaati. 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LOLL, I don't think so. Bechari poori thara se hil gayi thi. 😆 Yeh kya tha? Aur kahan se laoon? 🤣

Ab toh HS se hi umeed hai. Varne yeh toh pyaasi mar jaati. 😆

LOL!

HS ko hi kuch karna padega ab. But I also really want to see a bold Babita initiating intimacy 🙈 😳... maybe once HS can initiate and next time Babita ki bari 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Today, we again saw the many shades to women.....on one side was Kammo....the archetypical wife who can say a 100 bad things about her husband but can't hear a word against him....no matter how VILE he is.....Babita once used to be this Kammo only....lol defending Ashok even when he slandered her and was about to hit Mini the first time he came to the haveli.....she lashed out at HS at that time and questioned him for saying anything to HER husband.....lol.....how times change.....but women don't.....they will always let down their own self-respect to try and salvage marriages to terrible human beings.

Babita needed many hard pushes to get out of her Ashok mera pati hai after everything mindblock.....I guess Kammo needs more dhakke from life to get there. Kisi ne pati ko ghatiya bol diya (which is the truth btw), toh patni sun na paayi.....aur ghatiya baatein sunaa di logon ko....kudos👏

So Khatri and Kammo were the instrument to reflect society ki continued cheap thinking....which will ofcourse measure everything in only transactional terms....within 2 seconds, HS's love for Mini was cheapened to being considered an instrument to marry her mother.....that a woman uttered these lines again proves the adage of women being first in line to pull down each other. And suddenly, Mini became a symbol of Ashok who will start to bother Babita as she starts her new married life.....lol were these ppl actually watching mother-daughter ka bond all this time ki aasmaan se tapke hain? The daughter who literally led her mother away from her abusive father is the daughter jo Babita ko khatkegi? Waah ri society.

But baatein toh muh se nikal gayi.....aur Mini ke mann ko lag bhi gayi, strong as she has been all this time.....but she's never had to face being labeled an IMPEDIMENT for her mother's happiness....she always considered herself her mother's wings....to now be considered a symbol of her vile father....it's got to wound her deep and she's gonna grapple with it.

On the other side were Babita's reactions....quite typical Babita....stunned in shock initially, then working up the gumption to say something....and express her disgust with Khatri in harsh terms....impulse mein bol diya without thinking of Kammo and then the situation got worse.....then came the tears....and the panicked assurances to Mini that she would never get married if Mini didn't want it.....that she would be willing to immediately break off the wedding if Mini asks her.....mujhe woh project todne waali Babita phir se yaad aa gayi.....lol....Mini calmed her down as usual.....and HS chimed in with calm assurance from the side as well.....issue resolved....without really realizing that the Mini who is expected to be samajhdaar enough to look past society ki baatein always wasn't able to this time.

Ab galti bhi kis ki maanein.....Mini has built up a reputation for being this strong, samajhdaar kid who is usually the one telling her mom not to dwell on logon ki bakwaas.....toh why would the mom or others even think that she is dwelling on the bakwaas for once? The usual role is that Mini sambhaaloes Babes.....and that is how the scene played out this time also.....Babita was so busy giving assurances, she didn't realize what the core issue actually was.....neither did anyone else....cuz Mini is also an expert like her Hanuman Uncle in masking pain with a smile😆

They set up the whole situation to not resolve it fully.....cuz this has to come back to haunt all of them.....the guilt trap is set.....Mini will grapple with the identity crisis of being a symbol of her mother's past with Ashok....a symbol of a bad marriage......the guilt of being a supposed impediment in her mother's new life....the guilt of wondering if she needs to let go of her Babes to allow her to fully live. Babita and HS will also grapple with guilt....for not realizing how much Mini's issues were building.....breaking point is coming soon.

Itne heavy episode ke baad end mein the brief HS-Babita scene of "Doosri shaadi pehli baar kar rahe hain" was a cute touch😆.....the scenes have been shot out of order toh mehendi ka color also keeps shifting😆.....

I also liked that Mini's friends stepped up to cheer her up....this is why you need good peers in your life no matter how many beloved family relationships you have.

Precap mein phir se dance😆....Mini seems to be dubaaoing her gham in endless dance sequences😆

I feel an HS-Babita or an HS-Mini one on one conversation was warranted after all that passed today in terms of the ugly things thrown out....but the writers are as usual avoiding the detailed conversations for now. The pace at which all this is going....seems like the immediate aftermath of the wedding will be the dam bursting with Mini.....perhaps by the end of next week.

Babita was never this kammo. Even when she supported her husband when he came to manhandle mini. She was a person who could support her husband without being vile to others. She would never have in her dreams said things to anyone what kammo did today. Kammo is vile & her true nature came out today. She could have supported her husband and lashed out at babita without saying those things to mini. it looked like it was more of revenge than supporting her husband. she was worse than khatri today.

well if they just had a look at mini while those things were being said they could have seen how hurt she was.

i wanted a conversation between hanuman & mini atleast the whole thing of babita giving assurances & hanuman just standing there & just telling that she comes first for him was not that effective & dint connect. Hanuman looks to be tongue tied these days. The earlier hanuman would have dealt in his own ways with khartri. And where is the hanuman who ran behind mini first to see if she was ok when ashok gave the divorce papers. today everyone went behind babita leaving mini all alone. Even HS seems to be occupied with babita ko bura na lage, babita ke liye, like mini these days. Looks like mini has rubbed off on him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That gaaye bachhda line was not needed IMO.....they already had the insinuation of Mini being Ashok's daughter, so that was enough to set things up for her to be adopted as HS ki daughter.

Guilt trip toh they all do....but this particular guilt trap can get convoluted very fast if not handled well.....cuz if they are seriously going to show every HS-Babita scene with the backdrop of a morose Mini, it's gonna cast a gloom over the whole story.

The guilt shouldn't be debilitating to that level.....that would not be PB then. This show has usually worked through guilt issues well in all other tracks.

Maybe it's just me but the cracks showed in the HS-Mini-Babita scene today even though Babita was hugging Mini and HS was reassuring her that she's number one for them always.....but woh full level ka feel nahin aaya.

HS is the one I'm counting on. He did feel something was off and I really hope he takes action sooner rather than later.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm also not sure about the details.....but I don't know if minor children automatically get the man's name if their mother marries him....there might be a legal process attached to it to enter it into record somewhere.

And given how this issue is being built up in the storyline, I guess they may make a court proceeding out of it to formalize HS as Mini's father....

I wonder if a custody battle b/w Babita and Ashok over Mini is also possible 😕.....sigh....that would make this quite long and drawn out for HS to finally get to call Mini his daughter legally.

i dont think so. minors will still take the name over the biological father if the mother was married to the biological father before

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMFAOOOO, I will never get over that song. 🤣🤣

On one hand, we had HS spreading fire within her with his Dheere Jalne and on the other we have her Pyaasi Rehne Do. Like, da eeffff???

Stop being so damn thirsty Babes and have a sip of that sweet, cool water. 😎🤣

Me too. That was hilarious. 🤣

This, exactly this. They cannot show Mini in gloom and somewhat sinking in depression and on the other hand, vibrant HS Babita scenes. Itll just put down everything.

The last time around, Mickey wasn't around. This time, I'm not afraid. The guy's there with her, he will stick with her no matter what and not let her stray away in darkness. He will inform the elders and this time, it should quickly wrap up.

The moment Mini ran Downstairs and I was like shit shit shit. And then I see Mickey and almost instantly I'm relieved. It'll all be okay, I felt, seeing him waiting downstairs for her.

I felt HS wants to put things in Minni mind by his actions not by words..i felt it that way when yesterday hanita were assuring Minni about her place in their lives... He did say that she is the first one in his life even before babita... But what I think is he did said these words to Minni during her operation time as well...he even went to the extent of hurting Babita so that she will be away from him as Minni does not want them together...

But now the equation has changed and he knows that saying something won't work for Minni bcoz he knows his daughter is just like him and I know he will deal with it once the marriage get done... Bcoz the psychological problem of Minni was not closed yet they have kept that open and now the father will close this with his love for his daughter...

Her insecurities started bcoz of her biological father and now they will come to an end by her father in all true sense that's Hanuman Singh...

I think with Khamo, she is in a catch 22 situation, that her Husband is wrong and she knows him well enough but is not strong enough to leave him etc. She was trying to control Khatri but its when Babita without thinking said who invited this disgusting Khatri that Khamo lost it and lashed out at all 3 of them but even said fill a FIR against him. But Babita too has been in the same position as Khamo when she lashed out at HS and Mini when protecting Ashok etc. Its the mindset that they are programmed with that the Husband is always right.

I think that Khamo is alone in this Marriage and if She decided to leave it will be very hard for her, hence why she looks up to Babita. I think that she was grabbing straws to justify her anger etc. In her sad married life and wishes that she was brave like Babita.

No I think that Mini is getting worried by the seeds of doubts planted in her head by Mickey which was his intention by telling her to get independent of her Babes and done the unthinkable by bringing in a crack in the Mother/daughter/marriage. I think he did this on purpose so that he can pick up the pieces by claiming to be her best friend and love, is his end goal and I cannot not get over his promise to get her by hook or crook.. He is a Romeo and 2 timer and she knows that so why does she not tell him that is is not interested at all and only meet up when Preeti is there.

She has seen what her Mother went through and should be wise enough to stay away from him. As all of this friendship is going to end in a mess. Even if they meet up whenever it will carry the deceit with it.

No I think that the CV will surprise us all by showing the 3 of them understanding and solving there problems together as a family with no dramas.