Sept 11th: The guilt trap - Page 6

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I don't think letting parents know about Minni condition is anytime soon... Mandap me to hone se raha ..bcoz Mickey knows that if he spoil babes wedding that will upset Minni more and he won't take that risk Now... I feel even he is waiting for the wedding to be done so that he can deal with that and may be he will inform HS as always in his own style....

In that case, this issue will just fester.....unless there is a meaningful conversation about the things that were said to Mini yesterday, won't this cast a gloom over the wedding?

Mini has already moved on to dancing again as per the precap.....but will she still be as comfortable being her natural self....the way she used to tease HS and Babita....ab hesitation aa jaayega? If you can't be yourself and you'll keep guilt tripping, what's the point?

And Kammo ko rehabilitate karne ki badi jaldi hai sabko....lol.....is what she said really so easy to get over? From what face will she take it back? Khatri didn't say those words.....she did....nobody prompted her.....that is her real thinking for Mini and HS.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol when will he inform them? They’ve all moved on to next round of dancing. For now, him and Preet seem to have solved it by giving Mini her camera.

But aage kya? Will Mickey be informing the elders of this in the shaadi ka mandap? 😆...if this turns into mandap drama of all things, I’m 🤦‍♀️

Babita will again try to break off the wedding like she did today and then somehow HS will samjhaao both her and Mini? 😆....Maybe NB will show up too to sunaao Babita as always. Lol

Whoa you sound irritated.

What I meant was tha he will try his level best to help Mini and if he feels that things are going out of his hands, he won't think twice before informing HS or Babes. Not in the mandap but after the wedding lol.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Whoa you sound irritated.

What I meant was tha he will try his level best to help Mini and if he feels that things are going out of his hands, he won't think twice before informing HS or Babes. Not in the mandap but after the wedding lol.

Lol I sound irritated? I guess my thinking is usually on an opposite track from the rest of this forum.

So you’re talking about Micky generally helping Mini....lol I thought you had some immediate solution for this issue but I guess not. Micky generally watching out for Mini is a given by this point.

I guess I’m the only one disturbed by the way this isn’t getting resolved properly in PB style and instead festering at a sensitive time. Babitas’s issues were already complicated enough to work through in this wedding...then there’s HS ka past waale issues....and now Mini ka existential crisis thrown in....kahin se assurance nahin aa raha of any of them being able to resolve it. Yesterday’s assurance scene didn’t cut it.

And I’m not a fan of Kammo’s vile words being brushed under the carpet so easily.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol I sound irritated? I guess my thinking is usually on an opposite track from the rest of this forum.

Haha idk. But you do sound flustered. This shouldn't affect any sort of discussion- as long as you're convinced of your opinion- duniya jaaye bhadd mein!

So you’re talking about Micky generally helping Mini....lol I thought you had some immediate solution for this issue but I guess not. Micky generally watching out for Mini is a given by this point.

I can't see how this issue can have immediate solutions. This is something Mini has to understand and absorb, slowly.

I guess I’m the only one disturbed by the way this isn’t getting resolved properly in PB style and instead festering at a sensitive time. Babitas’s issues were already complicated enough to work through in this wedding...then there’s HS ka past waale issues....and now Mini ka existential crisis thrown in....kahin se assurance nahin aa raha of any of them being able to resolve it. Yesterday’s assurance scene didn’t cut it.

It will, it will. The assurance not having a soothing effect on our minds is very purposefully done. This only means that CVs have further plans of addressing and resolving this later, which I'm okay with. They know the best. All I know is sab sort hoga and we'd end up being happier than ever.

And I’m not a fan of Kammo’s vile words being brushed under the carpet so easily.

The words were ugly, yes. But I just understood where it came from, so I'm not getting mad at her. Khatri is disgusting but he's also her husband. And Babita calling him filthy and uninvited might've hit her hard. She's a human after all and Babita can't be closer to her, than Khatri's respect, cause that's the quintessential mentality of a "wife". Forget that, Khatri jaisa bhi hai, uska husband hai. However, having said this, her bad mouthing Mini is in no way justifiable, though it might appear true from the outside.

I’m not looking for immediate solutions in that this shouldn’t impact Mini at all....😕...I get that it has to be absorbed and worked through.

But PB is usually better than this about intermediate scenes. Yesterday it wasn’t. As I said, the Amrit manthan stuff is also ongoing but those convos were way better handled in epis from last week.

And agar Khatri pati hai, toh Ashok bhi pati tha. Babita should have also kept defending him at any cost? Why do we as women not lament this thinking more? Sabne stride mein le liya hai🤷‍♀️....ki jab tak pati na chhode, you keep defending his so called izzat?

Why are we expected to sympathize with a Kammo who talked so cheaply about a child who has been so nice to her simply cuz she stated the TRUTH of how ghatiya her pati is? Is Khatri not ghatiya? Did everyone not already know this? So why is Kammo expecting honor for him? You made the bed, you have to lie in it. She expects others to give him respect just cuz he’s her husband? No matter how he behaves?

He friggin MOLESTED Babita...but still she is expected to give him respect for Kammo’s sake? 😕

It would be quite unfortunate if the same show that showed HS sunaaoing Babes for her blind defending of her pati now goes the route of justifying Kammo ki bakwaas as Patni defending her Pati no matter how ghatiya he actually is 🙄🙄🙄

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol I sound irritated? I guess my thinking is usually on an opposite track from the rest of this forum.

So you’re talking about Micky generally helping Mini....lol I thought you had some immediate solution for this issue but I guess not. Micky generally watching out for Mini is a given by this point.

I guess I’m the only one disturbed by the way this isn’t getting resolved properly in PB style and instead festering at a sensitive time. Babitas’s issues were already complicated enough to work through in this wedding...then there’s HS ka past waale issues....and now Mini ka existential crisis thrown in....kahin se assurance nahin aa raha of any of them being able to resolve it. Yesterday’s assurance scene didn’t cut it.

And I’m not a fan of Kammo’s vile words being brushed under the carpet so easily.

no im equally not happy with yesterdays episode . mini dint need to hear that she is ashok's reminder to babita. that would have really hurt her & nothing has been spoken about that to mini. yesterdays assurance scene was lacking according to me.

what kammo did was very vile. she has always been like that. its only in between that she had turned over a new leaf. if i were babita i would not trust her, not with the business atleast.

Mini never ponders over her hurt or her happiness. She masks her emotions under -- Babes ki khushi. That's what micky has been trying to make her see.

This constant being cheery and happy for Babes, has made everyone accept that things don't affect Mini. And Babes is the one everyone needs to tend to. Mini and Babes both are so caught up in Mini being Babes' mother since the shadi rituals. They have to cross over and take their respective roles. Babes the mother & Mini her child.

Let's just hope that writers show this cross over in an organic manner. True PB style. Like how Babita rose to the occasion when she realized Mini was fighting stress and anxiety. She has to come out of her bride to be phase to see that Mini has burdened herself much more than her 17 years old self can handle.

About bachhada analogy of Kammo, it was definitely below the belt. It has the possibility to haunt Mini. My gut feeling though says, this was to make Mini cross over from Uncle to Papa. But let's see how it pans out.

I find it strange how from the start the show has been about the bond that the mother-daughter share however it often seems very one sided (from mini’s side). I get the fact that babita is insecure and all the rest however it always seems like her issues trumps everyone elses. Even though they’re meant to have this “bond” it seems very hard (sometimes impossible) for her to see mini’s pain. Don’t get me wrong, I love how babita has changed and evolved to an extent but why does she have to act like a child all of the time? And why does mini have to parent her? I feel like at times instead of showing the bond they’re actually showing mini sacrificing and hiding her own insecurities for the sake of babita

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It would be quite unfortunate if the same show that showed HS sunaaoing Babes for her blind defending of her pati now goes the route of justifying Kammo ki bakwaas as Patni defending her Pati no matter how ghatiya he actually is 🙄🙄🙄

That better not happen 😵

How easily she said all that crap to Hanuman, knowing she tied him rakhi 😡

I really don't want to see Kammo's face in Hanita's wedding! 🤬

If not Hanuman, I hope at least Babita gives a lecture to Kammo.

Hanuman should just return her the rakhi, but I know he'd never do that cuz he respects women irrespective of how shitty they are 😑