a finite show - Page 6

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Completely agree. Lol I am just obsessed with this father- daughter. I LOVE THEM.

Same here. Totally get it.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This 🙌. Why shouldn’t he open up to Babita? She will be his wife and she has an absolute right to know (if he chooses to share), and I hope he does because only Babita will understand the depth of his grief, his pain. She’s also suffered a lot of pain in her marriage, why wouldn’t she understand HS’s pain? Why do we not give Babita enough benefit of the doubt? I think the only person that could actually understand the intricacies of HS pain and grief is Babita. Mini will not be able to understand all the intricacies at this stage, and I hope he doesn’t share it with Mini, even then it’s too intimate of a feeling for HS to share it to Mini, but with Babita he can definitely open up. And I think she will take it in the right stride and ease his pain etc.

Babita will, when the time comes. For that to happen they both need to be ready for those conversations. She needs to be strong enough to support him when he will reveal his weaknesses and be at his most vulnerable state, and he needs to be confident that she won't be scared and that she isn't too 'delicate' to handle his rawness and pain.

They are not there yet. It will take time. I don't want this to be forced. Just as Babita started telling him about her past experiences as a bahu the other day of her own accord, because she was at ease, HS will also have to be. Last time Minnie forced him to an extent (before the court case notice) and it didn't turn out too well. Instead it opened up his wound that he then temporarily put a band-aid over. I don't know about Babita but I am not sure I will have the stomach for those scenes. Aniruddh is going to be so mind-blowing that it will break my heart to see HS in that state.

Mini said that Babita is vulnerable and needs support and protection. This is exactly what is refraining her from enjoying her teenage life fully. She's too worried that Babes would be hurt and wouldn't share it with anyone.

Same for HS. I don't think he thinks her to be strong enough to handle him or his grief. Hence he won't share his pains with her cause he simply doesn't feel she's capable of handling that grief. He would obviously not want to hurt her with his own feelings.

Babita is pampered right now by these two. She needs to show some shades of independence and strength for the father daughter duo to relax. They're trying too hard to cushion life for her and it'll doesn't work that way in the long run.

This was what I meant, when I said that HS doesn't respect her yet, as in, he doesn't look upto her, as Babita looks at him as a force to reckon with. She needs to arouse that faith in them.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Babita will, when the time comes. For that to happen they both need to be ready for those conversations. She needs to be strong enough to support him when he will reveal his weaknesses and be at his most vulnerable state, and he needs to be confident that she won't be scared and that she isn't too 'delicate' to handle his rawness and pain.

They are not there yet. It will take time. I don't want this to be forced. Just as Babita started telling him about her past experiences as a bahu the other day of her own accord, because she was at ease, HS will also have to be. Last time Minnie forced him to an extent (before the court case notice) and it didn't turn out too well. Instead it opened up his wound that he then temporarily put a band-aid over. I don't know about Babita but I am not sure I will have the stomach for those scenes. Aniruddh is going to be so mind-blowing that it will break my heart to see HS in that state.

OMG I said the same thing, without reading this 😆

Completely agree!

Originally posted by: inlieu

She will understand in whatever capacity she can at this age, and as she gets older she will see it in a different way too. Also, this might just be the trigger that will help her accept him fully as her father. She's not quite there yet.

I think if anyone should get Imarti's locket it should be Minnie, as though HS were passing some sort of legacy on to her.

I have said since imarti came on screen that if she and hs had a kid it would be mini so I totally agree. Somehow mini is literally the spit in terms of character and charisma that imarti was. Scarily so 😳 one would swear imarti was her mother not babita, as she has NONE of babitas was qualities

Originally posted by: deefy89

I have said since imarti came on screen that if she and hs had a kid it would be mini so I totally agree. Somehow mini is literally the spit in terms of character and charisma that imarti was. Scarily so 😳 one would swear imarti was her mother not babita, as she has NONE of babitas was qualities

I know exactly what you mean. It is kinda uncanny.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Mini said that Babita is vulnerable and needs support and protection. This is exactly what is refraining her from enjoying her teenage life fully. She's too worried that Babes would be hurt and wouldn't share it with anyone.

Same for HS. I don't think he thinks her to be strong enough to handle him or his grief. Hence he won't share his pains with her cause he simply doesn't feel she's capable of handling that grief. He would obviously not want to hurt her with his own feelings.

Babita is pampered right now by these two. She needs to show some shades of independence and strength for the father daughter duo to relax. They're trying too hard to cushion life for her and it'll doesn't work that way in the long run.

This was what I meant, when I said that HS doesn't respect her yet, as in, he doesn't look upto her, as Babita looks at him as a force to reckon with. She needs to arouse that faith in them.

Just saw this and agree with it all of course. Yep, I said the same thing and I love the bit in bold. It's part of their journey.