Minilicious : ajao saray - Page 22

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAO, Babita ne sirf bataya tha ki woh HS se shaadi kar ri hai par invite kisne kiya tha. 🤣

On a more serious note, I think she was okay with being around because they had supported her in her new life. They approve of HS and Beeji had even previously asked her if she had ever considered marrying him. But then there's the fact that they may have only been this nice because their own kids weren't around and they just want to be with their own khoon, aka Minnie.

Inn ke liye Minnie hi sab kuch hai. Babita toh jaye bhad mein, hai na? 😡

@bold

They cut the dialog where she was telling HS that she didn't want to invite Lovely but she didn't want to seem petty in front of Beeji.

Their obsession with khoon ka rishta will never go.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She does but she doesn't want to accept that it's ok to stand up for yourself and tell people off if they cross the line. She isn't comfortable with this, it will take time.

this is the very reason why mini has to mother her each time & stand up for her or fold her hands for her

i feel sorry for mini💔 when will babita actually grow up

So I finally ended up watching today's episode and I have a few things to say!

I know the makers have something in store for with Mickey and Minnie but today, when Mickey was saying all those things about Babes needing to do things on her own and stuff... it annoyed me... I mean if it came from Hanuman, I would have understood... Mickey hardly knows the journey... he has not seen the whole thing... had he seen it he would've understood why what Babes did meant so so much to Minnie and Hanuman... because it was such a huge step forward! Of course, there is still a lonnnnngggg way to do but this was a big step forward...

Babita's guilt was understandable and justified too... I understand that... She had lived with them for 17 long years... it's not as simple to cut them off from her life... one day, she will... but for now, she can't. It took her so long to get free from Ashok, it would take even longer to free herself from the 'guilt' of losing Biji and Dadu... especially when she no longer has her own parents and she considers them as her own... Then there is still this mindset she has of being a perfect bahu and perfect person for the world... it's okay... I'll cut her some slack... she's going to soon be Mrs Hanuman Singh... and slowly the Mr will teach his Mrs to not be bothered about people... or the image!

Allow me to appreciate Kamo behn here, phulz... I've been meaning to write about her but life is unfair! What growth! What a woman... I had been expecting her to be one of those who would get against Babita but the effort she is putting in for her is so admirable... she deserves a round of applause for her self growth. The woman who was not ready to accept this mother-daughter duo, has not only accepted them with open arms but considers them family and has given all her time and energy to get this mother married again without any gossiping...

I love Minnie. I love Ashnoor. I have seen her from YRKKH days and she made me hate Naira the character... or at least showed me the flaws in her so convincingly that I still judge her through those flaws... I am sure I am in minority (maybe the only one alive) who started watching the show for Ashnoor. One fine day I saw the trailer and I said, let's see what Ashnoor does in this show. Everything else was secondary, including the storyline - which is equally close to my heart...

It was only today where I half-jokingly wondered if there will be some naraz relative in this wedding and wolah - we had Lovely and Bijji. Honestly, I understood Babita and it did not dampen my mood. Isn't it a tradition to have a naraz phupo at desi weddings? 😆 And brides just need a reason to be worried... it's all good... Also, I feel these events (also called siyappas in PB) bring out the realism of weddings. How many weddings have we attended where the bride is worried because XYZ is not coming because of a stupid reason - plenty...

PRECAP: Yayyy! Good, bring out the insecurities Babita has... I am glad the makers are so sensitive to these feelings... I am sure there will be some talks, some discussions and at the end, sense will prevail. Hanuman will convince her somehow that her fears are wrong. He'll reassure her. What I look forward to is, how she conveys her fear this time. The last two times, she messed up. She ended up hurting him. I want to see, and I hope she learnt and will convey her fears in a different manner...

Okay, I'm done venting - for now!

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

hayeeeeeee, us episode ko dekh kar toh shruti sahi main mar jayegi

Har jaga aag lag jayegi 🤪

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i want bapu or mini to do babita's kanyadaan. not dadu biji.

specially not dadu biji. they dont deserve it.

Oh hell no! Dadu and Beeji should just stay as guests.

If not Minnie (although I have a feeling, it will most likely be her), then it should be Pinku.

i was just watching old episodes, and how babita speaks up to ashok. she had reached the end of her patience with him and hence spoke up and gave it back to him and did not feel guilty afterwards.

i think here she feels guilty with lovely, and by extension, biji and dadu becuase

1. she has not reached the end of her patience

2. mini's relation to these ppl and

3. despite all the bad moments, she has shared nice moments over the years with lovely, biji and dadu

when she comes out of anger and the heat of the moment, she becomes emotional and remembers those moments and feels guilty.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

HS said he has one cousin who also sent him rakhee, so at least she should come.

Wohi toh! Aur agar cousin hai toh koi toh uncle, aunty hoge.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

fluffy romance is a bit overrated. passionate hona chahiye. and ofcourse he cant to mini. she is a child and moreover his daughter.

baap apni beti se passionate love ke baare main toh baat nahi kar sakta na?

@Bold - agree.

Why not? Why does a girl only have to learn from her mother what passion is, and not learn from observing her father, and in Minnie's case from the man who taught her what love really is about, who changed her entire perception of love.

Minnie is like him - she has an immense capacity to love and hold emotions. If Babita and Ashok had shared such a relationship she would have observed it growing up. Now that she is going to see her mother married again she will see what a loving husband wife relationship truly is and also understand that it's not the movie-style romance but the underlying emotion and passion that is important.

Do you remember their conversation about live-in? She was embarrassed and ran off, but I think HS and Minnie share that level of comfort to talk about grown up stuff, especially since I suspect Minnie will fall in love one day and will try to understand this from a man's point of view. She's going to need to hear HS' perspective in such matters.

Originally posted by: naq5

this is the very reason why mini has to mother her each time & stand up for her or fold her hands for her

i feel sorry for mini💔 when will babita actually grow up

I think Minnie will be mentally exhausted after the wedding.

Originally posted by: annx

So I finally ended up watching today's episode and I have a few things to say!

I know the makers have something in store for with Mickey and Minnie but today, when Mickey was saying all those things about Babes needing to do things on her own and stuff... it annoyed me... I mean if it came from Hanuman, I would have understood... Mickey hardly knows the journey... he has not seen the whole thing... had he seen it he would've understood why what Babes did meant so so much to Minnie and Hanuman... because it was such a huge step forward! Of course, there is still a lonnnnngggg way to do but this was a big step forward...

Babita's guilt was understandable and justified too... I understand that... She had lived with them for 17 long years... it's not as simple to cut them off from her life... one day, she will... but for now, she can't. It took her so long to get free from Ashok, it would take even longer to free herself from the 'guilt' of losing Biji and Dadu... especially when she no longer has her own parents and she considers them as her own... Then there is still this mindset she has of being a perfect bahu and perfect person for the world... it's okay... I'll cut her some slack... she's going to soon be Mrs Hanuman Singh... and slowly the Mr will teach his Mrs to not be bothered about people... or the image!

Allow me to appreciate Kamo behn here, phulz... I've been meaning to write about her but life is unfair! What growth! What a woman... I had been expecting her to be one of those who would get against Babita but the effort she is putting in for her is so admirable... she deserves a round of applause for her self growth. The woman who was not ready to accept this mother-daughter duo, has not only accepted them with open arms but considers them family and has given all her time and energy to get this mother married again without any gossiping...

I love Minnie. I love Ashnoor. I have seen her from YRKKH days and she made me hate Naira the character... or at least showed me the flaws in her so convincingly that I still judge her through those flaws... I am sure I am in minority (maybe the only one alive) who started watching the show for Ashnoor. One fine day I saw the trailer and I said, let's see what Ashnoor does in this show. Everything else was secondary, including the storyline - which is equally close to my heart...

It was only today where I half-jokingly wondered if there will be some naraz relative in this wedding and wolah - we had Lovely and Bijji. Honestly, I understood Babita and it did not dampen my mood. Isn't it a tradition to have a naraz phupo at desi weddings? 😆 And brides just need a reason to be worried... it's all good... Also, I feel these events (also called siyappas in PB) bring out the realism of weddings. How many weddings have we attended where the bride is worried because XYZ is not coming because of a stupid reason - plenty...

PRECAP: Yayyy! Good, bring out the insecurities Babita has... I am glad the makers are so sensitive to these feelings... I am sure there will be some talks, some discussions and at the end, sense will prevail. Hanuman will convince her somehow that her fears are wrong. He'll reassure her. What I look forward to is, how she conveys her fear this time. The last two times, she messed up. She ended up hurting him. I want to see, and I hope she learnt and will convey her fears in a different manner...

Okay, I'm done venting - for now!

@Bold - i completely agree with you. and i wish madhu was also shown. she also stood up for the mother-daughter. and i am so glad khatri is missing. his he he he, adn otherwise mat lena ji, is not needed at this moment.