Ep 193 - 22-AUG-2019 - Jhumka Gira Re - Page 2

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

Beautiful analysis of the episode by you, Jean! ❤️

Thank you, dear.

Originally posted by: Ipshitaa

Yes, like you said, Babita for the first time fell from grace in my eyes as well. What was more hurtful was when she said to Minni (in the next episode) that now after the sorry HS will know that if he hurts her in the future he will lose her!!! Oh dear -this whole sequence is really painful to watch , but I am bowled over by how real the portrayal of emotions on both the sides has been handled by the writers! Hats off!

Coming back to the sorry - HS judges it right when he talks with Lala later! Babita's past hurts and pain are coming out now in this form and she's directly projecting them on HS. She feels that she is entitled to be happy now and deserves all that she wants from life and people (a stark contrast from her past life). She has just started living her life on her own terms and it has now given her the confidence to ask for what she wants. But it was all well and good till it was about taking control of her new life and Patiala Babes etc but now she is dealing with the emotions of an important person in her life and things are not simple. She will have to learn that now she is not dealing with bad situations or bad people- rather good people who have multiple facets to their personalities and she can't just straightforwardly blame them for hurting her. She will have to face the insecurities and hurt that's inside her cuz here she's dealing with the enemy that resides in her.

Amazing plot development and superlative acting by Anirudh and Paridhi!!

Yes, the writers now how to hit us directly in the heart with these scenes and dialogues.

@asmaanixx

@Senior Citizens - for some reason I'm alright with Dadu, it's Beeji that I have the most issue with. 😆 It ticked me off when she tried to take HS' parents.

I know he respects them as individuals, sees reflections of his own grandfather in Dadu and being Minnie's grandparents, he has a certain fondness for them - but all those things doesn't mean that they get to exhibit any rights over him.

I totally agree with this and felt the same way as you did.

@Intention vs. Understanding

I have always said that HS was out of line with his harsh words and he did it knowingly. Whatever his reasoning might have been, it was humiliating. He needs to realize that not everyone sees things like he did. Just because Minnie was ok with it doesn't mean her mother would be.

@The Test of Love -

Well, this was hard to re-watch and write about as well. I just wish they hadn't seen this just before getting married, as it kind of taints the experience, but then again it's probably a good thing that HS is going into it with his eyes open and is prepared for whatever happens next. Better than being blindsided. He should not marry Babita just for the sake of keeping Minnie in his life. That would be wrong for both of them.

I still wonder what made him fall for her, not with respect to her worthiness, but I am curious as to what qualities of hers attracted him.

Babita's love will be tested as she will have to learn to trust him over her insecurities. It won't be easy.

@The Apology - It should never have come to this. He should have apologized ages ago, on his own! She wanted him to bend, he did. I agree, some of that purity was lost, but this is good too, because it shows us that they are both not perfect and their relationship isn't either. Not that it needs to be anyway. This is supposed to be a realistic show.

@The Fall From Grace - Don't even remind me. But it just means he no longer puts her on a pedestal.

@The Sense of Entitlement - Mother-daughter have always been this way and I would not want them to put the burden on HS or anyone else to give them what they 'deserve'. Only can can decide what that is anyway.

@Poonam - Her friend will make another appearance soon, so let's see if she brings up this topic again. Obviously Minnie and HS won't do any such thing but Babita will have to introspect at some point.

@Being First - I want to see how this aspect of her insecurity plays out over time. She acted out when Minnie was spending too much time with HS during her training for the competition, and in future if HS' attention is diverted then we'll see what happens.

HS has already chosen Babita by giving her the keys to his house. But it's more than that. It's his inheritance, his legacy and most importantly, his Imarti's haveli. I don't know what more Babita needs in order for her to shed her insecurities and jealousy.

I couldn't have put this better.

Risna means to seep out or leak, in this case it means for a wound to bleed

Santaap means anguish.

Beautiful analysis Jean.

Jean loved reading your analysis. I am feeling bad for HS and Babita here. For HS he had to go through this bcz of his love. We do a person with all the flaws but not expect that to show at a most impt moment of life. He wouldnt have imagined that the moment supposed to be filled with love was instead was destroyed by past insecurities, and issues.

For babita, i am feeling for her. She is still so broken by the past that she wants everything diff this time. She might have ego which somewhere we all have but now this ego is becoming the satan in her life and her past insecurities ,past bruises the demon. These are slowly slowly eating her away, clouding her judgement making her insensitive by presenting in form of happiness. I still dont understand how can women who can understand the love she hasnt seen in front of eyes but not her love in front of her. I feel this time she wants to do everything opp she did in previous marriage. This time she wants to enjoy dominace, this time she wants upperhand , so that she doesnt crushed again. If she doesnt realise she will loose everything she have.

Hanita are going through the marriage but i dont know how will they survive it, i do want it to survive but ... When you are married there are so many things you argue about you dont agree with, you fight about it makes your relation strong . But i dont see this happening in this relation. Babita is not in state of mind where she can take arguments bcz that will make her question HS again and again. And all i can see HS is loosing himself in relatiinship.

I actually think babita needs a therapist bcz her past has messed her up., Like in west you actually have therapist or clubs for people going through divorce.

She will actually be free from past when she wilk actually introspect her relation with ashok. She needs to realise where she went wrong.

I am actually confused how will they proceed but do have hope that after some.efforts and speed bumps, hanita's relation will turn out to be really beautiful. They will actually end up having. A slowly consuming, everlasting bond where babita will compeletly surrender herself in front of HS love. I hope i am not wrong bcz they both deserve happiness

Originally posted by: sheen97

Jean loved reading your analysis. I am feeling bad for HS and Babita here. For HS he had to go through this bcz of his love. We do a person with all the flaws but not expect that to show at a most impt moment of life. He wouldnt have imagined that the moment supposed to be filled with love was instead was destroyed by past insecurities, and issues.

For babita, i am feeling for her. She is still so broken by the past that she wants everything diff this time. She might have ego which somewhere we all have but now this ego is becoming the satan in her life and her past insecurities ,past bruises the demon. These are slowly slowly eating her away, clouding her judgement making her insensitive by presenting in form of happiness. I still dont understand how can women who can understand the love she hasnt seen in front of eyes but not her love in front of her. I feel this time she wants to do everything opp she did in previous marriage. This time she wants to enjoy dominace, this time she wants upperhand , so that she doesnt crushed again. If she doesnt realise she will loose everything she have.

Hanita are going through the marriage but i dont know how will they survive it, i do want it to survive but ... When you are married there are so many things you argue about you dont agree with, you fight about it makes your relation strong . But i dont see this happening in this relation. Babita is not in state of mind where she can take arguments bcz that will make her question HS again and again. And all i can see HS is loosing himself in relatiinship.

I actually think babita needs a therapist bcz her past has messed her up., Like in west you actually have therapist or clubs for people going through divorce.

She will actually be free from past when she wilk actually introspect her relation with ashok. She needs to realise where she went wrong.

I am actually confused how will they proceed but do have hope that after some.efforts and speed bumps, hanita's relation will turn out to be really beautiful. They will actually end up having. A slowly consuming, everlasting bond where babita will compeletly surrender herself in front of HS love. I hope i am not wrong bcz they both deserve happiness

Thank, dear.

Yes, I think the writers also decided to put this track in so that they can use this as a base for future tracks to explore complex layers.

At least Babita's flaws have been addressed, but what about HS'? His over-protectiveness and all or nothing tendencies could be problematic if he isn't careful. They haven't focused too much on it but it is there. They will surely bring it out later and then Babita will also have to come to terms with this side of him and grow along the way.