Two spectrums - Page 2

Originally posted by: sheen97

Agree with you, babita is seeming more like a villian than a lead . Minni and HS seems to be the lead and she a villian.

What I don’t get is how they are showing mini being constantly so sensible? Where did she learn this from considering babita is her mother? I didn’t like that smile of hers after the apology, it looks like she’s twisted 🤪

I actually think before they marry she should go to counselling. I agree she’s been through a lot but her issues don’t come above the ppl around her (mini has issues also which don’t seem to matter). I hope they redeem her character. Not liking the direction it’s taking. And not liking how she always hurts hs yet her hurt seems much more justified than when she hurts someone else. This is not equality. Funny how she didn’t try this crap with ashok, or is it because hs is a softer man that she feels she’s got the upper hand

Originally posted by: sheen97

I completely agree. I have watched their scenes till pukar lo . There was this gradual progression, a sutble understanding a pure realtion. They were subconsciously behaving like hubby wife. And now their realtion has gone for toss. I always felt like once babita accepts HS, let go her insecurities and realise that HS is a keeper. She will give all off herself to this relation .

I am not able to understand where this ego aspect came from. And how ignorant she became towards him.

It feels as if HS and minnie are leads and babes is a villian who is selfish, manipulative, egoistic

And definitely not liking it

Bcz if CVS didnt redeem her, i dont want to even get this thought in my mind ki jo babes k saath hua aacha hua, bcz i dread if they keep showing her like this, we will not be able to digest babes being happy and may come to stage where we will start thinking ashok was wrong in cheating but he was left with no option

Wahi toh. You empathize with a character till some 200 episodes only to see them turn insensitive and villain later on.

Mini ji mahaan hai. Babita ji gadhi hai. I hope writers see into this. They are ruining Babes.

Yeh wali Babes ki jhalak bhi nai dikhi aaj tak. Ab achanak se she is behaving so weird. Ego toh chalo thik hai, she can't even see his pain. Letter mein likhe Imarti ke bhav ko samaj sakti hai. Lekin samne khade insaan ke chehre ke bhav na samji? Unable to digest. I don't know how will they redeem her after this.

True. In the process of trying to show a lot of social issues and educate the general public, I believe Babita’s Character is taking a hit.

You are right. She has shown a lot of maturity in the past during many situations, I also supported her stance of leaving too after the harsh words from HS. However, the timing of asking the apology, the mode of requesting the request, now her insensitiveness is clearly a shift in her character to accommodate a new issue that people face in a relationship.

Even if she had demanded the way she did and as soon as hS had started apologizing, if she had stopped him saying she was not right in asking it would have meant a lot. It would have closed both chapters . Just the previous night she was all back to her hesitant sensitive and understanding self and today she is a different woman altogether.

I have appreciated the cvs to look at things so realistically. They are even now showing an issue, but like most of your comments here, a woman who thought in-depth about relations and their values is acting clueless...to a point where Minnie has to intervene to help.

I am a little disappointed...

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Wahi toh. You empathize with a character till some 200 episodes only to see them turn insensitive and villain later on.

Mini ji mahaan hai. Babita ji gadhi hai. I hope writers see into this. They are ruining Babes.

Yeh wali Babes ki jhalak bhi nai dikhi aaj tak. Ab achanak se she is behaving so weird. Ego toh chalo thik hai, she can't even see his pain. Letter mein likhe Imarti ke bhav ko samaj sakti hai. Lekin samne khade insaan ke chehre ke bhav na samji? Unable to digest. I don't know how will they redeem her after this.

My thoughts exactly

@ bold. This is also sometimes annoy me yaar being 17 she cant know everything . I am 21 i still learn from experiences and she just into college and knows everything.

Agar mini mein ego nahi to babes mein kaise. If mini is so understanding, babes should be after all babes has brought her up. Trust me it is actually true that child takes after parents. Atleast as far as i have observed they do

@ bold its is still easy to interpret things when you have actually known the person. But extremely difficult when you know none. Babita who never met imarti never saw their relation so beautifullly understood the love they had . And now when it is her turn to experience that all consuming unconditional love , she turned into this egoisitic person.

If a she had ego how the heck she survived in that family and marriage for 17 years. It is as if since imarti track her character has gone for a toss

I think Babitha's ego is not the problem here. Every person has ego to certain extent. It is impossible to be free of ego. It's human nature. Her problem lies in misunderstanding ego as self respect. She did that in alimony track. She has always been impulsive. This we have seen from beginning. She takes decisions without considering consequences. But all these things doesn't make her a villain. Even yesterday's behaviour doesn't make her negative. She is the same caring woman and doting mother. But sometimes her ego clouds her judgment and she turns blind to other people's. feeling. This can happen with anyone. Sometimes we turn blind in anger and end up hurting people who love us most. This is what happened yesterday. I am not justifying her behaviour. I was also hurt seeing HS in pain. But she will learn and evolve into a better person.

Yes. We all have egos to some extent and there is no denying. And in this situation I would have agreed with you if the reaction was different. She seemed to be so blinded to HS reaction even as she saw him straight when he apologized or when she was looking at Minnie when she reacted to the situation.

I feel that is where there was a switch in character.

When it came to the alimony, trust me I completely understand her reaction. But in that she had been hurt for 17 years. Not sure if have read my post in a different thread. I too went through a divorce in a similar circumstance after 17 years and rejected the alimony at the very end. It was ego, pride, anger and what not....I too have wanted things for myself after that, but when it comes to people you love and care about, you will not go through with it. Especially if you are a caring and compassionate person by nature.

I hope this is a friendly exchange of thoughts here. No intentional hurt...however sorry if anyone is hurt unintentionally by my posts...I have just started being more active here because it is so nice to see the ocean of thoughts and ideas and view points and so much experience from many angles... :)

Originally posted by: Lakshs

Yes. We all have egos to some extent and there is no denying. And in this situation I would have agreed with you if the reaction was different. She seemed to be so blinded to HS reaction even as she saw him straight when he apologized or when she was looking at Minnie when she reacted to the situation.

I feel that is where there was a switch in character.

When it came to the alimony, trust me I completely understand her reaction. But in that she had been hurt for 17 years. Not sure if have read my post in a different thread. I too went through a divorce in a similar circumstance after 17 years and rejected the alimony at the very end. It was ego, pride, anger and what not....I too have wanted things for myself after that, but when it comes to people you love and care about, you will not go through with it. Especially if you are a caring and compassionate person by nature.

I hope this is a friendly exchange of thoughts here. No intentional hurt...however sorry if anyone is hurt unintentionally by my posts...I have just started being more active here because it is so nice to see the ocean of thoughts and ideas and view points and so much experience from many angles... :)

I agree it looks like a switch in character. But she has done it with Minnie also.She is always blind to her daughter's struggles.I made this post to just point out this ego issue is not new to her character. It was always there. Now it is coming out in open because she knows HS loves her and will not leave her. But I still sy this doesn't make her negative or villain. She will learn and evolve. I have complete faith in CVs .

I am sorry if I offended anyone. It is just amazing how people discuss characters here. I just couldn't resist. I have never done anything like this before. I am not a social network person . I have no FB or Twitter accounts. But I love coming here and reading all the thoughts.

I am not offended at all for one but thought I might have done so to someone else that’s all. I do have a FB account that I rarely use. This is probably the only online source I actually follow. Because it has so many view points and from so many people all over the world.

I am usually a silent reader of view points and ideas and rarely pitch in. Again this series is the first I have been this active. I am impressed with the realistic ways of showing things here which such clean dialogues scenes and awesome actors and great directions. I guess it has caught my attention too to communicate!

Thanks for sharing your view point as well! Everyday I learn so much about myself and what’s around me.

I could not relate myself to sudden sob story of meeta during her exit from the show and here too i am not being able to relate myself to this sudden and drastic change in babita character. But will wait and watch as makers have not dissapointed us and always brought out different and positive aspect in the end😊

I am happy that at least once we have a female lead who is not a devi .

What HS said to Babita about paraye marad etc was very insulting and hurtful . Any woman with iota of self-respect should first clarify why the man said that before proceeding further with the relationship .

Ideally he should have apologized himself without even Babita mentioning it and before that proposal got finalized .